The Faith of the Martyrs / La Fe de los Mártires

Entering the Christmas season proper, we are given time to celebrate the feasts of some great saints and to reflect on the joy of God in the flesh. Today’s saint, Stephen, is an excellent reminder of the profundity of the Christmas message of the Incarnation, and of the gravity of Christ’s ministry to save us from sin and death. As St. Stephen, the “protomartyr,” and the other martyrs testify, the Incarnation and Paschal Mystery are realities worth staking our lives for. Jesus Christ really did come to earth, and His Person and ministry are more important than our own lives, if it comes to that.

St. Stephen is introduced to us as “working great signs and wonders among the people” (Acts 6:8). He wastes no time wondering whether he should follow Christ wholeheartedly, and quickly gives himself over to the direction of the Holy Spirit. For this, he is allowed to be the instrument of God’s miraculous work. He trusts in Jesus’ word that whoever has faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains, if it be the will of God, and he sets out to do just that.

Stephen knows the truth of the Resurrection, and is not afraid to communicate this truth in public. Under the direction of the Holy Spirit, he debates others without fear. His interlocutors “could not withstand the wisdom and the spirit with which he spoke” (Acts 6:10). This “spirit” was not his own so much as the Spirit of God working in him. St. Stephen trusted that God would give him the words to say at the opportune time, and he was rewarded.

Of course, part of this “reward” was the wrath of those who did not understand God’s designs. As we learn here and throughout the history of the Church, this is the case with all of the martyrs. They are persecuted and killed by those who cannot fathom God’s message, whether that message be the unexpected reality of the Incarnation or the prodigality of the Cross. Rather than shrink before the anger of others, the martyrs double down on their belief in these realities, in their commitment to the Trinity.

The martyrs, led by St. Stephen, understand the reality of the Incarnation. They see how important it is that God came to earth, that the Word became flesh, and they understand that this is a reality, not a myth. They believe in this fact so thoroughly that they are willing to die at the hands of those who are blind to it, enduring bitter persecution along the way. For the martyrs, following the true God and attaining eternal life are more important than any alternative, no matter what threats are leveled at them. 

At the decisive moment, the martyrs trust in the direction of the Holy Spirit, who gives them the ability to work miracles, the words to speak profoundly to others, and the courage to die for their convictions. Let us pray for the grace to imitate these holy men and women, who knew the critical significance of the Incarnation.

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Al entrar en la temporada navideña, se nos da un tiempo para celebrar las fiestas de algunos grandes santos y para reflexionar sobre el gozo de Dios hecho carne. El santo de hoy, Esteban, es un excelente recordatorio de la profundidad del mensaje navideño de la Encarnación y de la gravedad del ministerio de Cristo para salvarnos del pecado y de la muerte. Como testifican san Esteban, el “protomártir”, y los demás mártires, la Encarnación y el Misterio Pascual son realidades por las que vale la pena arriesgar la vida. Jesucristo realmente vino a la tierra, y Su Persona y ministerio son más importantes que nuestras propias vidas, si se trata de eso.

San Esteban se nos presenta realizando “grandes prodigios y señales entre la gente. ” (Hechos 6:8). No pierde el tiempo preguntándose si debería seguir a Cristo de todo corazón, y rápidamente se entrega a la dirección del Espíritu Santo. Por esto, se le permite ser el instrumento de la obra milagrosa de Dios. Confía en la palabra de Jesús de que si tienes la fe del tamaño de un grano de mostaza puedes mover montañas, si es la voluntad de Dios, y se propone hacer precisamente eso.

Esteban conoce la verdad de la Resurrección y no tiene miedo de comunicar esta verdad en público. Bajo la dirección del Espíritu Santo, debate a los demás sin miedo. Sus interlocutores “no podían refutar la sabiduría inspirada con que hablaba.” (Hechos 6:10). Este “espíritu” no era tanto suyo como del Espíritu de Dios obrando en él. San Esteban confió en que Dios le daría las palabras que debe decir en el momento oportuno, y fue recompensado.

Por supuesto, parte de esta “recompensa” fue la ira de aquellos que no entendieron los designios de Dios. Como aprendemos aquí y a lo largo de la historia de la Iglesia, este es el caso de todos los mártires. Son perseguidos y asesinados por aquellos que no pueden comprender el mensaje de Dios, ya sea ese mensaje la realidad inesperada de la Encarnación o la prodigalidad de la Cruz. En lugar de encogerse ante la ira de los demás, los mártires redoblan su creencia en estas realidades, en su compromiso con la Trinidad.

Los mártires, guiados por San Esteban, comprenden la realidad de la Encarnación. Ven la importancia de que Dios vino a la tierra, que el Verbo se hizo carne, y entienden que esto es una realidad, no un mito. Creen tan profundamente en este hecho que están dispuestos a morir a manos de aquellos que están ciegos, soportando una amarga persecución. Para los mártires, seguir al Dios verdadero y alcanzar la vida eterna son más importantes que cualquier alternativa, sin importar las amenazas que se les presenten.

En el momento decisivo, los mártires confían en la dirección del Espíritu Santo, que les da la capacidad de hacer milagros, las palabras para hablar profundamente a los demás y el valor de morir por sus convicciones. Oremos por la gracia de imitar a estos santos hombres y mujeres, que conocieron el significado crítico de la Encarnación.

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David Dashiell is a freelance author and editor in Nashville, Tennessee. He has a master’s degree in theology from Franciscan University, and is the editor of the anthology Ever Ancient, Ever New: Why Younger Generations Are Embracing Traditional Catholicism.

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Merry Christmas! / ¡Feliz Navidad!

Merry Christmas! Today, the Gospel reading recounts the birth of Christ, and we rejoice at God’s amazing gift of His Son.

Just recently I was listening to the radio in the car, and a Genesis song called “No Son of Mine” came on. Aside from a Christmas song about red shoes, I think this is perhaps one of the saddest songs I have ever heard.

In a nutshell, a young son leaves his parents’ home as soon as he can. It seems like some kind of fighting was going on, though we are not privy to the extent of it. The son then says that years passed and he began to see things differently, so he returned home to talk to his father. His father sat him down and looked him in the eye and told him “You’re no son of mine.” His father rejected him, and the son went away. 

Apparently more years pass. Again the son misses his father and returns to him. And again his father sits him down and says, “You’re no son of mine.”

It’s truly a heartbreaking song, and those are not words that many parents would ever dream of uttering to a child. But even if those words were uttered to you at some point,or even if you just felt unloved by a parent, you can be assured that our Heavenly Father will never utter those words. The fact that He sent His Son to die for us is proof of that.

We are beloved sons and daughters of Christ. We are wanted. We are cherished. We are loved.

God loves us no matter what we do. And no matter how many times we leave God, we will never hear “You’re no son of mine” if we return, repent, and tell Him we love Him.

If we have forsaken God, we must know that He will never forsake us. God longs for the day when we will return to Him. He is waiting with open arms in the hopes that we will return. 

So, on this glorious and wonderful day, if we have left God, let us return to Him. If we have been lukewarm about our faith, let us return to Him. If we have made it a habit to only go to church on Christmas and Easter, let us return home, for we are welcome and we are wanted.

And, when we return, we know that God will look us straight in the eye and lovingly say, “You are mine.”

Merry Christmas!

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¡Feliz Navidad! Hoy, la lectura del Evangelio relata el nacimiento de Cristo, y nos regocijamos por el maravilloso regalo de Dios de Su Hijo.

Hace poco estaba escuchando la radio en el auto y sonó una canción de Génesis llamada “No Son of Mine” (No Eres Hijo Mío). Aparte de una canción navideña sobre zapatos rojos, creo que esta es quizás una de las canciones más tristes que he escuchado.

En pocas palabras, un hijo pequeño abandona la casa de sus padres tan pronto como puede. Parece que se estaba produciendo algún tipo de lucha, aunque no sabemos hasta qué punto. El hijo dice entonces que pasaron los años y empezó a ver las cosas de otra manera, por lo que regresó a casa para hablar con su padre. Su padre lo sentó y lo miró a los ojos y le dijo: “Tú no eres hijo mío”. Su padre lo rechazó, y el hijo se fue.

Aparentemente pasan más años. Nuevamente el hijo extraña a su padre y regresa a él. Y de nuevo su padre lo sienta y le dice: “Tú no eres hijo mío”.

Es realmente una canción desgarradora, y esas no son palabras que muchos padres soñarían con pronunciar a un niño. Pero incluso si esas palabras te fueron pronunciadas en algún momento, o incluso si simplemente no te sentiste amado por uno de sus padres, puedes estar seguro de que nuestro Padre Celestial nunca pronunciará esas palabras. El hecho de que envió a Su Hijo a morir por nosotros es prueba de ello.

Somos amados hijos e hijas de Cristo. Somos buscados. Somos queridos. Somos amados.

Dios nos ama sin importar lo que hagamos. Y no importa cuántas veces dejemos a Dios, nunca escucharemos “No eres hijo mío” si volvemos, nos arrepentimos y le decimos que lo amamos.

Si hemos abandonado a Dios, debemos saber que Él nunca nos abandonará. Dios anhela el día en que volvamos a Él. Está esperando con los brazos abiertos con la esperanza de que volvamos.

Entonces, en este día glorioso y maravilloso, si hemos dejado a Dios, volvamos a Él. Si hemos sido tibios en nuestra fe, volvamos a Él. Si nos hemos acostumbrado a ir a la iglesia solo en Navidad y Semana Santa, volvamos a casa, porque somos bienvenidos y queridos.

Y cuando regresemos, sabemos que Dios nos mirará directamente a los ojos y nos dirá con amor: “Eres mío”.

¡Feliz Navidad!

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Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at slochner0.wixsite.com/website.

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Final Christmas Preparations / Preparativos Finales para la Navidad

Merry Christmas Eve! Let’s admit it, all of us are probably hustling and bustling all day today to get ready for the next two days of parties and dinners and gift giving. So thank you. Thank you for stopping for a couple minutes, for sitting down to breathe and read today’s reflection. Thank you for remembering the true reason for the season, the Nativity of Our Lord Jesus Christ. 

For that is what we celebrate tomorrow, that is why we have spent the last four weeks of Advent preparing for His birth and His coming into the world. It is not the celebration of Santa Claus coming to town but, rather, the arrival of the Savior of the world. It’s not about making more room for gifts under the tree but, rather, making room in our hearts for Love Himself to come and dwell. It’s not about opening gifts on Christmas morning, but rather receiving the Greatest Gift that God has ever given us, the gift of His very Son. 

If we have lost sight of the true meaning of Christmas amidst all of the hustle and bustle, there is still time to refocus and resettle our hearts. One of the best places to start is by examining our attitude toward Christmas Mass. Is attending Mass the priority for our Christmas celebration or is it something we are squeezing into our already busy schedule? Are we arriving early to ensure we get a seat in the church or are we arriving early to enter into prayer so as to prepare our hearts to receive our Lord in the Eucharist? Are we fully present during Mass, receiving the readings and praying with great fervor and intention, or are we running through our mental checklist of everything we have to do after Mass is over? This last one is for me and my fellow church employees … are we truly celebrating and worshiping this Christmas or do we see these next two days as simply two more days of work? 

As we enter into this vigil celebration of the Nativity of the Lord, let us keep Him firmly in our sights. Let Him be at the center of all that we do over these next two days. And may His joy, love and peace reign in our hearts this season and each day moving forward. 

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¡Feliz Nochebuena! Si somos honestos, lo más seguro es que andamos apurados todo el día con los últimos preparativos de los próximos dos días de fiestas, cenas y entrega de regalos. Así que muchas gracias. Gracias por detenerte un par de minutos, por sentarte a respirar y leer la reflexión de hoy. Gracias por recordar el verdadero motivo de la temporada, la Natividad de Nuestro Señor Jesucristo.

Porque eso es lo que celebramos mañana, por eso hemos pasado las últimas cuatro semanas de Adviento preparándonos para Su nacimiento y Su venida al mundo. No es la celebración de la llegada de Papá Noel, sino la llegada del Salvador del mundo. No se trata de hacer más espacio para los regalos debajo del arbolito, sino más bien de hacer espacio en nuestros corazones para que el Amor mismo venga y habite. No se trata de abrir los regalos en la mañana de Navidad, sino de recibir el regalo más grande que Dios nos ha dado, el regalo de su propio Hijo.

Si hemos perdido de vista el verdadero significado de la Navidad en medio de todo el ajetreo, todavía hay tiempo para reenfocar y reestablecer nuestros corazones. Uno de los mejores lugares para comenzar es examinar nuestra actitud hacia la Misa de Navidad. ¿Asistir a Misa es la prioridad para nuestra celebración de Navidad o es algo que simplemente metimos en nuestro horario por deber? ¿Llegamos temprano para asegurarnos un asiento en la iglesia o para entrar en oración para preparar nuestros corazones para recibir a nuestro Señor en la Eucaristía? ¿Estamos completamente presentes durante la Misa, recibiendo las lecturas y orando con gran fervor e intención, o estamos repasando la lista de quehaceres en la mente de todo lo que nos espera después de que termine la Misa? Este último es para mí y mis compañeros que trabajan para la iglesia… ¿realmente estamos celebrando y adorando esta Navidad o vemos estos próximos dos días como simplemente dos días más de trabajo?

Al entrar en esta celebración de la vigilia de la Natividad del Señor, mantengamos a Jesús firmemente en mente. Que Él esté en el centro de todo lo que hagamos durante los próximos dos días. Y que Su alegría, amor y paz reine en nuestros corazones esta temporada y cada día por venir.

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Erin is a Cleveland native and graduate of Franciscan University of Steubenville. She is passionate about the Lord Jesus, all things college sports and telling stories and she is blessed enough to get paid for all three of her passions as a full-time youth minister and a freelance sports writer.

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You Are God’s Beloved Child

While admiring photos of a friend’s daughter I thought that how she feels – the pride, love, and joy –  is how God feels about us. Our love for our own children is mirrored in the love of God for us as his beloved children.

I remember my own children as toddlers. Toddlers are uncivilized, irrational, emotional bundles of messiness and dirty diapers and even though I wondered if they would ever be decent enough to be let loose in the world, I loved them deeply. No matter how often they did the same naughty thing, when they said something hurtful to me, or just exasperated me with their childishness, I never didn’t forgive them. I always longed to be in communion with them. 

This is how God feels about us only infinitely more. He sees us doing stupid stuff, hurting each other, and being disrespectful to him. He also sees our goodness. He sees how we strive and when we turn our gaze toward him and ask for forgiveness he welcomes us back with joy because we are his children. 

God said of Jesus, “This is my beloved Son.” Jesus hadn’t begun his public ministry yet. He hadn’t healed anyone or driven out any demons but God loved him and was pleased. No matter how messy you are or were or will be, you can always, always run to God’s waiting arms like a toddler running to her mother. He will be delighted to have you there. He’s waiting.

Imagine God saying the same of you just as you would of your own child. Be bold and insert your name.

“This is my beloved son/daughter ______ with whom I am pleased.”

God, thank you for creating me to be your beloved child. Help me to rest in your love today. 

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Merridith Frediani loves words and is delighted by good sentences. She also loves Lake Michigan, dahlias, the first sip of hot coffee in the morning, millennials, and playing Sheepshead with her husband and three kids. She writes for Catholic Mom, Diocesan.com, and her local Catholic Herald. Her first book Draw Close to Jesus: A Woman’s Guide to Adoration is available at Our Sunday Visitor and Amazon. You can learn more at merridithfrediani.com.

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Pray and Live with Confidence

What hope we hear in the readings today! 

In the First Reading, John encourages us to pray confidently because we have assurance of eternal life. But is it really that easy? In whom is our confidence? Ourselves? Certainly not! John’s answer is “If we ask anything according to God’s will, He hears us.” (emphasis added by author) Not only must we be confident in the promises of our Father, we must be confident that He wills that which is truly best for us. It is when we can fully trust Him that we are able to conform our wills to His, and it is through that conformity that we gain confidence in prayer. 

As we move to the Gospel, we hear an excellent example of someone who submitted their will to the will of the Father, humbled himself before the Lord, and was greatly exalted: St. John the Baptist. What can we learn from St. John the Baptist? In short: “He must increase, I must decrease.” John the Baptist knew that it is humility that allows us to place our lives in the hand of God, and that, by being humble, we will be raised in the eyes of our Heavenly Father. Pride is often considered the deadliest of sins and the root of all other sins. It is pride that turns us away from God in our times of need. It is pride that allows us to take credit for our accomplishments and for our good deeds rather than giving the credit to our Creator. Recognizing the reality of our humanity before God, John the Baptist says, “No one can receive anything except what has been given from heaven.” Everything we have, everything we are is a gift from God. When we live our lives with this at the forefront of our minds, we are better equipped to pray with confidence. 

May we pray with the confidence, intentionality, trust and selflessness of which John speaks. Like John the Baptist, may we surrender our will to the Holy Will of God and allow Him to fulfill the wonderful plan He has for us. For it is in humbling ourselves before Him that we will be raised to glory with Him.

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Dakota currently lives in Denver, CO and teaches English Language Development and Spanish to high schoolers. She is married to the love of her life, Ralph. In her spare time, she reads, goes to breweries, and watches baseball. Dakota’s favorite saints are St. John Paul II (how could it not be?) and St. José Luis Sánchez del Río. She is passionate about her faith and considers herself blessed at any opportunity to share that faith with others. Check out more of her writing at https://dakotaleonard16.blogspot.com.

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Be Made Clean

There have been some changes the last couple of days at work. I’m sitting in a different part of the building that has windows with an outside view (wooHoo). Making a space clean that has been unused for the last 22 months takes a little time. It looks clean but once you start the process more is uncovered that needs to be cleaned or restored to right order.

In today’s Gospel there are three little words that challenge me to uncover more: be made clean. The Scripture tells of a man full of leprosy who fell prostrate before Jesus pleading, “Lord, if you wish, you can make me clean. Jesus stretched out his hand, touched him, and said, ‘I will do it. Be made clean.’”

The leprosy was gone because of those three simple words and a touch of Jesus’ hand. Jesus’ love and compassion cured a man whom society branded an untouchable outcast due to the leper’s personal or hereditary sin or spiritual corruptness. The Messiah, our Lord God, is the only one who can make a person fully clean, be it in body, mind or spirit.

I surely can clean an office, my clothes or clean up my act. I do, however,  absolutely need divine intervention as I do these tasks and every other kind, too. Really; I am not being flippant or sarcastic. Every aspect of who I am needs to be made clean as I am human.

When it comes to keeping tasks, habits or deep seeded feelings or reactions to certain situations, thoughts or people, and in the loving and just relationship with God I am to maintain through my baptism and teachings of the Catholic faith, I need the Holy Spirit and the sacraments to help me be made clean. 

What I have done throughout the day, week, or since I last went to confession and what I have failed to do offends my heavenly Father. I am so very thankful that before I receive Communion I pray,
‘Lord, I am not worthy that You should come under my roof; but only say the word, and my soul will be healed.’ I need to remember to ask the Lord to stay in my heart, my thoughts, my words and my actions throughout the day. I want to be clean in all aspects of my life. 

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Beth Price is part of the customer care team at Diocesan. She is a Secular Franciscan (OFS) and a practicing spiritual director. Beth shares smiles, prayers, laughter, a listening ear and her heart with all of creation. Reach her here bprice@diocesan.com.

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God is Love

What is love? This question seems to echo through the halls of human history as strongly as the question asked of Jesus by Pilate, “What is truth?” Of course, the answer to both questions is found not in a book, experiment, or set of theories, but rather in a person, namely the person of Jesus Christ.

Ok, that’s cute and all to tell to students in a youth group to help them feel loved, but what does it really mean? We hear in the First Reading today that we can only love because God first loved us. I often try to bring my readers back to the beginning, not because Genesis gives us a purely scientific description of the start of all things, but because it shows us deep theological truths about who we are and who God is.

When reading through the first few chapters of Genesis it is immediately striking that out of all the creation narratives that have been written, and there have been many, Genesis stands apart because it is finally talking about a God who creates out of nothing in an act of pure love. All of the other major creation narratives talk about gods at war or sexual promiscuity as the source of all things, but here God stands apart from all the other pagan beliefs. We hear it in the Gospel of John, “God is love”. John also draws the connection between this God who is love and the Creator in the beginning, they are one and the same. “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God, and the word was God.”

Ok, where am I going with all of this? Let’s think back to that First Reading. We cannot even begin to love unless God first loves us. The Catechism makes the bold claim that, “God is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and he has destined us to share in that exchange.” From the very beginning God is love itself and we were made in the very image and likeness of that same God. We have love in our DNA so to speak, as deep as our bones, and deeper in fact because it resides in our soul.

I think we can often try to pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps and white knuckle religious rules and regulations. By that I mean, I think we often think we can do this religion thing on our own. We may have the false belief that we only need God for the really big things. But in today’s readings we are reminded that without God we can’t even love, because we would be rejecting love itself. Rather than living by this pelagian mindset, the heresy that we can do it by our own strength and don’t need God, let’s instead ask for the grace to live according to how we were created in the beginning. Adam and Eve may have lost the grace of God in the fall, but we can get it back through the God who is love who hangs on the cross for us.

During this new year, let’s try to make an effort throughout the day to notice when God is working with his grace. The great tragedy of our time, it seems, is that we can go weeks without ever contemplating how God is working in our lives. Let’s ask for grace to take hold so that we may be loved and in turn may go and love others. From all of us here at Diocesan, God bless!

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Tommy Shultz is a Business Development Representative for Diocesan. In this role he is committed to bringing the best software to dioceses and parishes while helping them evangelize on the digital continent. Tommy has worked in various diocese and parish roles since his graduation from Franciscan University with a Theology degree. He hopes to use his skills in evangelization, marketing, and communications, to serve the Church and bring the Good News to all. His favorite quote comes from St. John Paul II, who said, “A person is an entity of a sort to which the only proper and adequate way to relate is love.”

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The Twelfth Night

The twelfth night, the evening of January fifth, has marked the end of the Christmas season since the Middle Ages.  There are many who believe and just as many who think the Catholic meaning of the twelve days of Christmas is an urban legend.  When Catholicism was made a criminal offense by Henry the 8th in England in 1558, many believed that the song was a secret catechism for the Catholics living in Britain to remember and teach their faith without fear of prosecution.

Many people singing this song envision “my true love” as a smitten suitor, while others know the “true love” as God himself.  Each gift given has a catechetical meaning starting with The Partridge as a symbol for Jesus Christ.  Two Turtle Doves refer to the Old and New Testaments.  The French Hens for the Trinity, Four Calling Birds reference the Gospels of the New Testament.  Five Golden Rings symbolize the Pentateuch.  Six Geese are the Creation Days.  Seven Swans symbolize the Seven Sacraments.  Eight Maids are the Beatitudes and Nine Ladies are the fruits of the Holy Spirit.  Ten Lords refer to the Ten Commandments and the Eleven Pipers are the loyal Apostles of Jesus.  Twelve Drummers remind us of the twelve doctrine points of the Apostles Creed.  

The twelfth night may recall the romantic comedy by Shakespeare or the festivities still celebrated in a handful of European countries in Rick Steve’s Christmas Travelogue, but what does it mean to us besides a wee bit of history?

We are blessed to live in a country free from religious persecution.  It is difficult to imagine a world where a multitude of denominations and religions don’t coexist, but we all know those places do exist.  I am not a cradle Catholic, the Holy Spirit tapped me on the shoulder and over the head a few times until I found my home in the Catholic faith.  Would I be strong enough to withstand a world where I could lose my freedom or my life if I chose to remain and worship as a Catholic?  Would I be crafty enough to sing a song with dual meaning to my grandchildren in order to maintain our Catholic Faith?  The twelfth night to me is my litmus test.  

After all the gifts my true love gave to me, the greatest is love.  Our First Reading today says “….so one who fears is not yet perfect in love.”  BE FEARLESS!

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Kay Kunz is the Accounts Manager at Diocesan.  She is a mother of two and grandmother of five.  Living on her family’s centennial farm surrounded by nature, creatures great and small, wild and tame, Kay and her husband are in perpetual restoration mode.  When she is not crunching numbers or helping churches with bookkeeping issues, you’ll more than likely find her curled up with a book and a cup of coffee.  Inspired by St. Brigid of Kildare, not just because she is the patron saint of chicken farmers and turning water into beer, but her simple pastoral life of finding peace in nature.

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We Need Christ as Our Shepherd

Today’s Gospel reading tells the story of Jesus preaching to the masses and multiplying the loaves and fish. It begins: “When Jesus saw the vast crowd, His heart was moved with pity for them, for they were like sheep without a shepherd; and He began to teach them many things.” 

How often do we feel like sheep without a shepherd? It’s easy to feel that way when things go wrong in life or when we choose to do our will rather than God’s will. We lose direction and feel like we’re floundering. But we know that God is our shepherd; He is always there for us. We simply need to seek Him.

God is our spiritual Father; He leads us. So we must follow His example and lead our children or the children in our lives. We must act in the spirit of God here on earth and teach our children what He would have taught—just as He did the day He multiplied the loaves and fish.

But talking to kids today can often be extremely difficult. If they’re not playing video games, they’ve got their nose stuck in a phone watching Tik Tok or sending Snapchats. They’re just like the sheep without a shepherd—unless we become a shepherd in Christ’s footsteps.

How do we do that? It’s not always easy, but it’s necessary.

Engaging them is key. Start by having a phone-free dinner or a phone-free game night. Sit together and talk about their day. Ask what’s going on in school. Ask their opinion about current events, about sports, or about anything you think they’ll discuss. Tell them about your day, even if you’ve had problems or difficulties. Allowing them to watch you work through problems is integral and can help them develop techniques to work through their own problems. 

Use Christ as your inspiration. Never forget that He is there for you, and make sure that your kids know that you—and God—are always there for them. Become the shepherd of your family. If you don’t, then social media or their peers will. 

Psalm 23 teaches: “The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I lack.”

Let us ponder this Psalm and hold its words in our hearts, as we remember God’s infinite love and mercy, and as we extend that love and mercy to our own children.

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Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 17 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Eleven of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program-an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students.

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Transformative Repentance

“From that time on, Jesus began to preach and say, “Repent, for the Kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 4:17). Mercy offered in the Sacrament of Reconciliation is transformative. The Catechism of the Catholic Church provides this magnificent explanation on the grace of Confession:

 “Interior repentance is a radical reorientation of our whole life, a return, conversion to God with all our heart, an end of sin, a turning away from evil, with repugnance toward the evil actions we have committed. At the same time, it entails the desire and resolution to change one’s life, with hope in God’s mercy and trust in the help of his grace” (CCC 1431).

A “radical orientation of our whole life” seems powerful language for entering a confessional (or room) with a priest and laying out our offenses. Spewing out a laundry list of “should have” and “should have nots.” Why not bring these directly to Jesus in prayer? Why involve a middle-man of sorts?  

There was a time I was petrified to participate in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. My heart raced, palms sweat, throat closed, and my feet wanted to sprint to the nearest exit. Honestly, I avoided it until the Holy Spirit nudged me to go, and there, Jesus made me laugh. 

First, the nudge, Jesus’ words in Matthew’s Gospel, “Amen, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven” (Matthew 18:18). Next, the time the priest called me back into the confessional. After completing my Confession and opening the door to leave, I heard, “oh, wait, one more thing.” I am sure that’s happened to you before, right? Sweat formed on my brow as I made eye contact with the long line of people waiting for their turn! 

I sheepishly smiled at the kind folks staring back at me and slowly closed the door. The kind priest recognized my voice and wanted to share some exciting parish happenings with me. Although it didn’t seem the appropriate time (or place), a little spiritual insight sparked by grace helped it all come together, whereas I could recognize — God’s perfect timing and precisely the encounter I needed to overcome my fear. 

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is the love and mercy of Jesus, offered through the priest, In persona Christi, Latin for, “in the person of Christ.” A genuine encounter with Christ, who is eager to impart grace and wash away your iniquities and cleanse you from your sins (Psalm 51). Sure, it will be uncomfortable; that’s contrition! Jesus’ message in today’s Gospel reminds us that the Kingdom is now, and we want to be always ready to enter it when called.

As for that middle-man? I am grateful for the opportunity to encounter Jesus through the priest because I have yet to experience anything in this world, as sweet as the words, “The Lord has freed you from your sins. Go in peace.”

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Allison Gingras works for WINE: Women In the New Evangelization as National WINE Steward of the Virtual Vineyard. She is a Social Media Consultant for the Diocese of Fall River and CatholicMom.com. She is a writer, speaker, and podcaster, who founded ReconciledToYou.com and developed the Stay Connected Journals for Catholic Women (OSV).   

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A Resolution to Make Haste Slowly

Happy New Year! By now, you have likely considered a new year’s resolution and maybe even tried a few.  If I’m honest, I have a long history of falling headfirst off the new year’s resolution wagon by about January 2nd.  

I tend not to follow through on new year’s resolutions because my resolutions are usually completely arbitrary and decided hastily at about 11:00pm on December 31st. Instead of being intentional about what I should do each year, I tend to toss around ideas, both noble and not-so-noble, about what I could do:  Keto diet! Volunteer for the PTA. Organize my closet. The list of good ideas goes on and on.  

Unfortunately, an arbitrary resolution, even a decision to do something good, is not necessarily the right resolution. So if you haven’t already, I propose that we re-examine our resolutions and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance on what we should resolve to do this year. To this end, I’d like to invite you to take a walk with one of my favorite saints today: St. Katharine Drexel. Katharine’s life provides a great guide for discerning resolutions, and really, any decision in your life.

Katharine was born into a wealthy Philadelphia family and had the financial means and influence to do almost anything she wanted. But she did not take action arbitrarily. People around her urged her to do all kinds of good things:  get married; use her fortune for philanthropies; become a cloistered nun; or live a single life in service to the poor. However, Katharine’s spiritual director urged her to “festina lente” – make haste slowly. Festina lente – I find these words encouraging in the new year. Take time to choose the good to which God calls you.   

Always drawn to serve the poor, in 1887, Katharine attended a private audience with Pope Leo XIII and urged him to send missionary priests to the United States to Native Americans.  He responded, “Why not my child, yourself become a missionary?” This interaction helped to lead Katharine to her vocation. But Katharine made haste slowly. It was not until four years later, in 1891, that she became a missionary and founded the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament. She subsequently spent her life supporting missions and schools throughout the United States. In all, she and her sisters established 145 missions, 50 schools for African Americans, and 12 schools for Native Americans. Some described her as an “apostle to the poor.”

Katharine took time to discern how God wanted her to live out her vocation. What would have happened if Katharine had jumped at all of the ideas that she could have done, instead of truly discerning what God asked of her?     

Meditating on Katharine Drexel clarifies my new year’s resolution, or at least my approach to it. My resolution is a prayer to festina lente – to make haste slowly – to avoid that instinct to accomplish all the things I could do, and instead, listen to the promptings of the Holy Spirit that reveal the things I should strive to accomplish.  

2022 is still new, and as the adage goes, it takes 21 days to form a habit. St. Katharine Drexel, perfected her vocation of missionary service through over fifty years of active ministry.  I’m going to need more than 21 days and a lot more practice to festina lenta. Did you plunge headfirst into an arbitrary resolution or are you still looking for that perfect resolution? If so, perhaps you could make haste slowly with me.

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Elizabeth Tomlin is the author of Joyful Momentum: Building and Sustaining Vibrant Women’s Groups and contributing author to the Ave Prayer Book for Catholic Mothers. She is General Counsel for the Archdiocese for the Military Services, USA. Elizabeth is an Army wife and mother of three and currently lives in the DC area. She blogs at JoyfulMomentum.org or @elizabethannetomlin on social media.

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The Clock of Salvation

Welcome to 2022!!! Likely you are exhausted from staying up late to celebrate a new year with your friends and family. This day always brings to mind resolutions, diet programs, calendars, time, and beginnings. Though the secular world sees this as a day for starting anew, the Church sees it as the Solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God. I think all of these themes tie together in a beautiful way through the Second Reading, where we first hear that Jesus became man at the fullness of time.

Have you ever wondered why calendars count time according to roughly the year that Jesus was born? It’s as if even the secular world can’t help but commemorate the importance of that historical event so many years ago. When we read further in Galatians we hear that Jesus is born of a woman. So he comes in the fullness of time and he is born of a woman. There are probably many different ways to interpret that, but the way I see it, the clock of human salvation started ticking the second that Eve took a bite of the apple. The first woman doomed human nature to a life without grace while the “second Eve” said yes to God’s plan for salvation.

All those years in between we wondered and waited at the plan that God had promised throughout the centuries. Time ticked on and many new years came and went, but God’s salvation clock brought us to the simple yes of a woman and the birth of the Savior. He always had the plan, but he waited for the precise moment when, instead of rejecting him, a woman would cooperate with him. Notice that grace, though it is freely given, requires cooperation for it to bear fruit. If we reject grace, God is not going to force us to take it. In the beginning Eve made the choice to fall and in the fullness of time Mary made the choice to say yes to God’s plan for her life.

So I guess the question for today and for the rest of 2022 should be, how are you allowing the grace of God to work in your life? You might have a new diet or exercise plan you are starting or a list of rules you are going to follow this year for your mental health, but what are you going to do in this new year to more fully imitate Mary who gave her yes and accepted the grace that God had to offer? Do you believe, as St. Paul did, that when God became man we became adopted sons and daughters of God? We are not slaves, but sons, and not just sons, but heirs. What are you going to do in this new year to cry out, “Abba, Father!” From all of us here at Diocesan, God bless and Happy New Year!

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Tommy Shultz is a Business Development Representative for Diocesan. In this role he is committed to bringing the best software to dioceses and parishes while helping them evangelize on the digital continent. Tommy has worked in various diocese and parish roles since his graduation from Franciscan University with a Theology degree. He hopes to use his skills in evangelization, marketing, and communications, to serve the Church and bring the Good News to all. His favorite quote comes from St. John Paul II, who said, “A person is an entity of a sort to which the only proper and adequate way to relate is love.”

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