When it’s all said and done, the vast majority of all human hang ups, concerns, rules, and boundaries will pass away. The structures for governing society, social norms, and even morality itself, will no longer be needed when we arrive in the heavenly Jerusalem. Here on earth, we are limited human beings, broken by sin and inclined to go against God’s will in service of lesser goods. We seek after power, prestige, wealth, and pleasure rather than love of God and love of neighbor.
In today’s Gospel, the Sadducees come to Jesus with a very human, earthly focused question about the “rules” of heaven. They are taking human logic and trying to apply it to heavenly realities. The Sadducees do not believe in the resurrection of the dead, so they have come up with a ridiculous situation of a woman in heaven with seven husbands. They contest that the functions and realities of the present society will continue in heaven and ask whose wife she will be.
Jesus explains that they do not understand what’s really going on here. When the resurrection happens, all things will be made new in ways we cannot understand. There will be a new heaven and a new earth, where human laws and societal norms are no longer needed. We will be restored to perfection in God’s perfect will for humanity. We will experience a new, perfect, freedom in the resurrection. Even our relationships will be transformed and perfected. After all, what is the point of marriage here on earth?
The Catechism tells us: “‘By reason of their state in life and of their order, [Christian spouses] have their own special gifts in the People of God.’ This grace proper to the sacrament of Matrimony is intended to perfect the couple’s love and to strengthen their indissoluble unity. By this grace they ‘help one another attain holiness in their married life and in welcoming and educating their children.’” (1641).
The first point of the Sacrament of Marriage is holiness. Holiness has many definitions, but one of the simplest is to be close to God here on earth so that we can remain close to Him in heaven. That’s the goal and what all married couples ought to discern before their marriage and throughout their marriage. Will this person who I am choosing to spend my life with help me get to heaven and will I help them get to heaven?
God intended humanity for relationship, we can see this in the first chapters of Genesis. What these relationships will look like in a resurrected state of being, we do not know. But, we can trust that God, who is the Creator of all things, will be able to handle, transform, and perfect whatever relationships we have had on earth into new and glorified heavenly realities.
Cuando todo esté dicho y hecho, la gran mayoría de los complejos, preocupaciones, reglas y límites humanos desaparecerán. Las estructuras que gobiernan la sociedad, las normas sociales e incluso la moralidad misma ya no serán necesarias cuando lleguemos a la Jerusalén celestial. Aquí en la tierra, somos seres humanos limitados, quebrantados por el pecado e inclinados a ir en contra de la voluntad de Dios en pos de bienes inferiores. Buscamos poder, prestigio, riqueza y placer en lugar de amar a Dios y al prójimo.
En el Evangelio de hoy, los saduceos acuden a Jesús con una pregunta muy humana y terrenal sobre las “reglas” del cielo. Intentan aplicar la lógica humana a las realidades celestiales. Los saduceos no creen en la resurrección de los muertos, por lo que han inventado la ridícula situación de una mujer en el cielo con siete maridos. Discuten que las funciones y realidades de la sociedad actual continuarán en el cielo y preguntan cuál de los siete la tendrá como esposa.
Jesús explica que no comprenden lo que realmente está sucediendo. Cuando ocurra la resurrección, todo será renovado de maneras que no podemos comprender. Habrá un cielo nuevo y una tierra nueva, donde las leyes humanas y las normas sociales ya no serán necesarias. Seremos restaurados a la perfección en la perfecta voluntad de Dios para la humanidad. Experimentaremos una nueva y perfecta libertad en la resurrección. Incluso nuestras relaciones serán transformadas y perfeccionadas. Después de todo, ¿qué sentido tiene el matrimonio aquí en la tierra?
El Catecismo nos dice: “‘En su modo y estado de vida, los cónyuges cristianos tienen su carisma propio en el Pueblo de Dios’. Esta gracia propia del sacramento del Matrimonio está destinada a perfeccionar el amor de los cónyuges, a fortalecer su unidad indisoluble. Por medio de esta gracia ‘se ayudan mutuamente a santificarse en la vida conyugal y en la acogida y educación de los hijos’” (1641).
El primer punto del Sacramento del Matrimonio es la santidad. La santidad tiene muchas definiciones, pero una de las más sencillas es estar cerca de Dios aquí en la tierra para poder permanecer cerca de Él en el cielo. Ese es el objetivo y lo que todas las parejas casadas deben discernir antes y durante su matrimonio. ¿Estoy eligiendo a una persona con quien pasar mi vida que me ayudará a llegar al cielo, y viceversa?
Dios diseñó a la humanidad para que tuviera relaciones; podemos verlo en los primeros capítulos del Génesis. No sabemos cómo serán estas relaciones en un estado de ser resucitado. Pero podemos confiar en que Dios, quien es el Creador de todas las cosas, podrá manejar, transformar y perfeccionar cualquier relación que hayamos tenido en la tierra, y convertirlas en glorificadas realidades celestiales.
Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife and mother. She is blessed to be able to homeschool, bake bread and fold endless piles of laundry. When not planning a school day, writing a blog post or cooking pasta, Kate can be found curled up with a book or working with some kind of fiber craft. Kate blogs at DailyGraces.net.
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