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Trusting in Him / Confiar en Él

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Have you ever experienced God opening up a path for you to make something difficult become a reality? This happened to me a few months ago. I felt God calling me to go on a retreat out of state. Now, belonging to a large circle of Catholic acquaintances, many opportunities for retreats cross my path in any given year. And they are all within driving distance. So why did I feel this consistent nudge to attend this particular retreat all the way on the east coast? It didn’t make any sense. It would mean a plane ticket I couldn’t afford, being away from my husband and kids for three days, missing a day of work without PTO, missing my kids’ basketball games and missing the Superbowl. I just couldn’t do it… could I? 

The short answer is, no, I couldn’t, but God could. Little by little, things kept falling into place. My husband was supportive, the boys’ games were spread out enough that he could take them one at a time, and my football team lost during the playoffs. But what about finances? I kept putting off buying a plane ticket, until the retreat was only two weeks away. It was now or never, trust or doubt. I felt God assuring me that He would take care of it and with one click, it was done. 

A couple days after I got back, my boss called me for a private meeting and told me that since I had done such a good job he was giving me a bonus. Guess what? The amount covered my plane ticket, the day off without pay, and there was even some left over! God always provides!

In today’s first reading, God similarly provided through Joseph. The Lord had revealed to him that there would be a famine, so he stored grain during the years prior so that the Egyptians would not starve. But God’s plan was even greater than that: “In fact, all the world came to Joseph to obtain rations of grain, for famine had gripped the whole world.” So Joseph “opened up all the cities that had grain and rationed it”. Those whose bellies grumbled with hunger surely had no idea how they would survive, yet God opened up a path for them and provided for them. 

As the Psalm alludes to, it all comes down to trust. “Lord, let your mercy be on us, as we place our trust in you.” God will grant us His mercy, and He greatly desires to, but will do so in accord with how much we trust in Him. We have the free will to decide to trust, or to take things into our own hands. Spoiler alert: doing the latter usually doesn’t end up so well. 

So just as Jesus summons and sends out His Twelve disciples in today’s Gospel, may we trust Him to send us out as well. Whether it be on a retreat halfway across the country or to a needy family in your own parish, He wants to use you to show His mercy to others. Trust me, trusting in Him is the way to go. 

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¿Alguna vez has sentido que Dios te abre un camino para que hagas algo verdaderamente difícil? Esto me pasó hace unos meses. Sentí que Dios me llamaba a ir a un retiro fuera del estado. Como pertenezco a un círculo grande de conocidos católicos, se cruzan en mi camino muchas oportunidades de retiros cada año. Y todas están a unas horas de distancia para poder irme en carro. Entonces, ¿por qué sentía ese constante empujón para asistir a ese retiro en particular en la costa este? No tenía sentido. Significaría un boleto de avión que no podría pagar, estar lejos de mi esposo y mis hijos durante tres días completos, perder un día de trabajo sin pago, perder los partidos de básquet de mis hijos y perderme el Superbowl. Simplemente no podía hacerlo… ¿verdad?

La respuesta corta es: no, no pude, pero Dios sí pudo. Poco a poco, las cosas fueron tomando forma. Mi esposo me apoyó, el horario de juegos de los chicos permitía que él pudiera asistir a uno a la vez, y mi equipo de fútbol perdió durante los playoffs. Pero ¿qué iba a hacer con las finanzas? Seguí posponiendo la compra de un boleto de avión hasta que faltaban solo dos semanas para el retiro. Era ahora o nunca, confiar o dudar. Sentí que Dios me aseguraba que Él se iba a encargar de ello y con un clic, lo compré.

Un par de días después de mi regreso, mi jefe me llamó a una reunión privada y me dijo que, como había hecho un buen trabajo, me iba a dar un bonus. ¿Adivina qué? La cantidad cubría mi boleto de avión, el día sin pago y hasta me sobró. ¡Dios siempre provee!

En la primera lectura de hoy, Dios proveyó de forma semejante a través de José. El Señor le había revelado que habría una hambruna, por lo que almacenó grano durante los años anteriores para que los egipcios no murieran de hambre. Pero el plan de Dios era aún mayor que eso: “Y como el hambre se extendiera por toda la tierra, de todos los países iban a Egipto para comprar víveres a José y remediar la carestía”. Entonces José “mandó abrir todas las bodegas y abasteció [los] víveres”. Aquellos cuyos estómagos gruñían de hambre seguramente no tenían idea de cómo sobrevivirían, pero Dios les abrió un camino y les proveyó lo necesario.

Como alude el Salmo, todo se reduce a la confianza. “Muéstranos, Señor, tu misericordia” como en ti hemos confiado. Dios nos concederá Su misericordia, y desea mucho hacerlo, pero lo hará de acuerdo con cuánto confiemos en Él. Tenemos el libre albedrío para decidir confiar o tomar las cosas en nuestras propias manos. Aviso: hacer esto último generalmente no termina tan bien.

Así que, como Jesús convoca y envía a Sus Doce discípulos en el Evangelio de hoy, confiemos en que Él nos enviará también a nosotros. Ya sea a un retiro al otro lado del país o a una familia necesitada en tu propia parroquia, Dios quiere utilizarte para mostrar Su misericordia a los demás. Créanme, confiar en Él es el camino a seguir.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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The Other Dimension of Suffering / La otra dimensión del sufrimiento

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I have really been drawn to the lives of the saints lately. It amazes me how much they were willing to suffer and offer up that suffering, but even more so, how they were able to use their suffering as a way to unite themselves to Christ. 

I don’t pretend to suffer nearly as much as many others do, but one day I had a pretty bad headache. It was making me cranky and I stepped into our home office for a quiet moment of prayer. As I closed my eyes, I asked Jesus to unite me to Him through that small suffering. For a split second, I envisioned my head as Jesus’ head, covered with the crown of thorns, dripping with blood. I realized then and there how small my headache really was. 

Suffering is a funny thing. It can make us so unhappy, downright miserable at times, yet there is a whole other dimension to it. When I was a kid, my parents often told me to “offer it up”, when I grumbled about this, that or the other thing. At the time, it seemed like a flippant way to get me off their back. But as an adult, I see the real merit in offering up our hardships for a special intention. Suffering in and of itself is torture, but united with Christ, becomes a means of sanctification. Afterall, it was through His suffering that the gates of Heaven were opened to us once again. 

Today we celebrate the Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul. Both of these great Apostles suffered tremendously for their faith, yet chose consistently and persistently to follow the Lord. Peter suffered persecution, imprisonment, temptation and ultimately death by crucifixion, which the Lord foretells in the Gospel: “Amen, amen, I say to you, when you were younger, you used to dress yourself and go where you wanted; but when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go.” But perhaps the greatest pain he endured was the guilt from denying our Lord. Paul suffered beatings, imprisonment, shipwrecks and illness as well as the emotional pain of mockery and false accusations. But perhaps the greatest pain he endured was the guilt from persecuting so many Christians before his conversion. 

These two great men both teach us the same thing. God can transform suffering and use it for His glory. The whole of Christianity was built upon the courageous endurance of these and so many others who literally gave their lives to spread the Gospel. Their chains have allowed us to know true freedom in Christ. The shedding of their blood has shown us what it means to truly live. Their sufferings, endured with patience and love, teach us how to suffer gracefully. 

So the next time you get a headache, remember all those saints who have gone before you, and unite your sufferings to the One who has suffered so greatly out of love for you.   

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Últimamente me ha llamado mucho la atención la vida de los santos. Me sorprende lo mucho que estaban dispuestos a sufrir y ofrecer ese sufrimiento, pero aún más, cómo eran capaces de utilizar su sufrimiento como una forma de unirse a Cristo.

No pretendo sufrir tanto como muchos otros, pero un día tuve un fuerte dolor de cabeza. Me estaba poniendo de mal humor y entré a la oficina de nuestra casa para un momento de oración en silencio. Mientras cerraba los ojos, le pedí a Jesús que me uniera a Él a través de ese pequeño sufrimiento. Por un segundito, imaginé mi cabeza como la cabeza de Jesús, cubierta con la corona de espinas, goteando sangre. En ese momento me di cuenta de lo verdaderamente pequeño que era mi dolor de cabeza.

El sufrimiento es algo curioso. Puede hacernos muy infelices, absolutamente miserables a veces, pero tiene otra dimensión por completo. Cuando era niña, mis padres me decían con frecuencia que lo “ofreciera a Dios”, cuando me quejaba de esto, aquello o lo otro. En ese entonces, me pareció una forma superficial de que dejara de quejarles. Pero ahora que soy grande, veo el verdadero mérito de ofrecer las dificultades por una intención especial. El sufrimiento en sí mismo es una tortura, pero unido a Cristo, se convierte en un medio de santificación. Después de todo, fue a través de su sufrimiento que las puertas del Cielo se abrieron para nosotros de nuevo.

Hoy celebramos la solemnidad de San Pedro y San Pablo. Ambos grandes apóstoles sufrieron tremendamente por su fe, pero eligieron seguir al Señor de manera constante y persistente. Pedro sufrió persecución, prisión, tentación y, finalmente, muerte por crucifixión, lo cual el Señor predice en el Evangelio: “Yo te aseguro: cuando eras joven, tú mismo te ceñías la ropa e ibas a donde querías; pero cuando seas viejo, extenderás los brazos y otro te ceñirá y te llevará a donde no quieras”. Pero tal vez el mayor dolor que soportó fue la culpa por negar a nuestro Señor. Pablo sufrió palizas, encarcelamiento, naufragios y enfermedades, así como el dolor emocional de las burlas y las acusaciones falsas. Pero quizás el mayor dolor que soportó fue la culpa por haber perseguido a tantos cristianos antes de su conversión.

Estos dos grandes hombres nos enseñan lo mismo: Dios puede transformar el sufrimiento y utilizarlo para Su gloria. Todo el cristianismo se construyó sobre la valiente resistencia de estos y tantos otros que literalmente dieron su vida para difundir el Evangelio. Sus cadenas nos han permitido conocer la verdadera libertad en Cristo. El derramamiento de su sangre nos ha mostrado lo que significa verdaderamente vivir. Sus sufrimientos, soportados con paciencia y amor, nos enseñan a sufrir con gracia.

Así que la próxima vez que te duela la cabeza, recuerda a todos los santos que te han precedido y une tus sufrimientos a Aquel que ha sufrido tanto por amor a ti.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Bearing Good Fruit / Dando buenos frutos

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As soon as I walk in the door from any given workday, I am ambushed by a barrage of “Mommy!!!” “Hi Mommy!” and “Yeah! Mommy’s home!!” My usually subdued workplace atmosphere gives way to the chaos of several littles as I try to get dinner on the table while listening to their stories and complaints. 

Sometimes these moments are overwhelming. Sometimes my reactions are not loving. Sometimes I wish I had some earplugs. Sometimes, I remind myself to take a step back and take it all in while it lasts. 

I often feel like I’m in the midst of a whirlwind. One day blows into the other at a rapid pace. The years go by in the blink of an eye. Am I behaving as I should as a Catholic Christian?

Today’s Psalm exclaims: “Give thanks to the LORD, invoke his name; make known among the nations his deeds.” I do want to be thankful and call upon Him always; I do want to teach my children (my own little nation) about all He has done so that they may follow in His footsteps. Everything I do matters. Every comment I make, every tone of voice I emit, will affect them in one way or another. I invoke your name oh, Lord. Teach me your ways. 

The Gospel tells us: “A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a rotten tree bear good fruit.” I long to be that good tree that bears fruits of goodness in my children. There are days that I hear sarcasm come out of their mouths and I say to myself, “I taught them that.” And there are other days that I hear them say, “I shared with my brother today” and I taught them that too. 

The daily struggle between good and evil is real, but if we remember to invoke the Lord and ask Him to teach us His ways, He can make that good fruit grow within us. May our children, and all those we encounter, find Christ through our good fruits.

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Tan pronto como entro por la puerta después de un día de trabajo, me asalta un coro de voces “¡Mami!”, “¡Hola, mami!” y “¡Sí! ¡Mami está en casa!”. Mi atmósfera laboral, que suele ser tranquila, da paso al caos de varios pequeños mientras trato de preparar la cena y escucho sus historias y quejas del día.

A veces, estos momentos son agobiantes. A veces, mis reacciones no son amorosas. A veces desearía tener tapones para los oídos. A veces, me recuerdo a mí misma que debo dar un paso atrás y asimilarlo todo sabiendo que estos años no durarán.

A menudo me siento como si estuviera en medio de un torbellino. Un día se tropieza con otro a un ritmo rápido. Los años pasan en un abrir y cerrar de ojos. ¿Me estoy comportando como debo como cristiano católico?

El Salmo de hoy exclama: “Aclamen al Señor y denle gracias, canten sus maravillas a los pueblos”. Quiero estar agradecida e aclamarle siempre; Quiero enseñarles a mis hijos (mi propio pueblo pequeño) de todas sus maravillas para que puedan seguir Sus pasos. Todo lo que hago importa. Cada comentario que digo, cada tono de voz que emito, los afectará de una manera u otra. Aclamo tu nombre, oh Señor. Enséñame tus caminos.

El Evangelio nos dice: “Todo árbol bueno da frutos buenos y el árbol malo da frutos malos”. Anhelo ser ese buen árbol que dé frutos de bondad en mis hijos. Hay días en que oigo sarcasmo salir de sus bocas y me digo a mí misma: “Eso les enseñé”. Y hay otros días en que los oigo decir: “Compartí con mi hermano hoy” y les enseñé eso también.

La lucha diaria entre el bien y el mal es real, pero si recordamos aclamar al Señor y pedirle que nos enseñe Sus caminos, Él puede hacer que ese buen fruto crezca dentro de nosotros. Que nuestros hijos, y todos aquellos con quienes interactuamos, encuentren a Cristo a través de nuestros buenos frutos.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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The Will of God and the Love of God / La voluntad de Dios y el amor de Dios

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Lately I have been reflecting on the will of God and the love of God and how they are not divisive, yet intricately united. Bishop Barron wrote: “Mind you, listening to [God’s] commands is tied closely to love on the part of the one who commands, and since love is nothing but the willing of the good of the other, the obedience that Jesus speaks of is a surrender to the one who massively wants what is best for the surrenderer.” In other words, the One who commands us also happens to love us (i.e. will our good), so when we obey Him, we are actually doing what is in our best interest. 

We can be tempted to do what God asks us begrudgingly, thinking it will be laborious or difficult, and sometimes indeed it is. But what we fail to realize is that the very thing we bemoan is the very thing that will bring us the greatest good. God does not ask us to do things because He gets a secret kick out of ordering us around. He asks them for our own good, whether that be apparent here on Earth or in Eternity. 

Sometimes fulfilling the will of God necessitates purification. He has a plan for us, and that plan is already in the works, but in order to come to completion, we need to get out of the way. As St. Paul says, we need to decrease, so that Christ can increase in us. Doing God’s will may include many steps and some of those steps may not bring us pleasure, but they are necessary for the eternal good of our souls. God, in His love, wills my good. He does not will my demise. 

Today we celebrate the Feast of St. Barnabas. The first reading states that “he was a good man, filled with the Holy Spirit and faith. And a large number of people was added to the Lord.” A few lines before that, it says that when Barnabas arrived at Antioch “and saw the grace of God, he rejoiced and encouraged them all to remain faithful to the Lord in firmness of heart.” Do you notice a common thread here? Why was he a good man? Because he was filled with the Holy Spirit. Why did he rejoice? Because he saw the grace of God. Who did he encourage them to remain faithful to? The Lord. For whom were a large number of people added? For the Lord. Everything points back to God. 

Because God loves us so much, He has a will for us, a specific path. This path leads to our highest good, the good of others and ultimately our eternal happiness. Let us ask the intercession of St. Barnabas today to be purified by God’s grace so as to let Him work through us each and every day. 

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Últimamente he estado reflexionando sobre la voluntad de Dios y el amor de Dios y cómo no son divisivos, sino que están intrínsecamente unidos. El obispo Barron escribió: “Ten en cuenta que escuchar los mandatos [de Dios] está estrechamente vinculado al amor por parte de quien los ordena, y dado que el amor no es otra cosa que querer el bien del otro, la obediencia que Jesús expresa es entregarse a Aquel que desea masivamente lo mejor para el que se entrega”. En otras palabras, Aquel que nos ordena también nos ama (es decir, quiere nuestro bien), así que cuando lo obedecemos, en realidad estamos haciendo lo que es mejor para nosotros mismos.

Podemos sentirnos tentados a hacer lo que Dios nos pide a regañadientes, pensando que será laborioso o difícil, y a veces lo es. Pero no nos damos cuenta de que la cosa que lamentamos es la misma que nos traerá el mayor bien. Dios no nos pide que hagamos cosas porque secretamente le da gusto darnos órdenes. Nos las pide para nuestro propio bien, ya sea que sea evidente aquí en la Tierra o en la Eternidad.

A veces, cumplir la voluntad de Dios requiere purificación. Él tiene un plan para nosotros y ese plan ya está en marcha, pero para que llegue a su plenitud, debemos quitarnos de en medio. Como dice San Pablo, es necesario que yo disminuya para que Cristo crezca en nosotros. Hacer la voluntad de Dios puede incluir muchos pasos y algunos de esos pasos pueden no traernos placer, pero son necesarios para el bien eterno de nuestras almas. Dios, en Su amor, quiere mi bien. No quiere mi destrucción.

Hoy celebramos la fiesta de San Bernabé. La primera lectura dice que “viendo la acción de la gracia de Dios, se alegró mucho; y como era hombre bueno, lleno del Espíritu Santo y de fe, exhortó a todos a que, firmes en su propósito, permanecieran fieles al Señor. Así se ganó para el Señor una gran muchedumbre.” ¿Notan algo en común en esta líneas? ¿Por qué se alegró? Porque vio la gracia de Dios. ¿Por qué era un buen hombre? Porque estaba lleno del Espíritu Santo. ¿A quién los animó a permanecer fieles? Al Señor. ¿Para quién ganó una gran muchedumbre? Para el Señor. Todo apunta a Dios.

Porque Dios nos ama tanto, tiene una voluntad para nosotros, un camino específico. Este camino nos lleva a nuestro mayor bien, al bien de los demás y, en última instancia, a nuestra felicidad eterna. Pidamos hoy la intercesión de san Bernabé para que seamos purificados por la gracia de Dios y le permitamos trabajar a través de nosotros todos los días.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Let Us Rejoice in Him / Alegrémonos en Él

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Can you believe we still have another week and a half to celebrate the great feast of the Resurrection of Our Lord? We are an Easter people! Even during other liturgical seasons like Advent and Christmas, we are reminded of the reason for His coming. He was born to die and He died to rise. Within the amazing truth of this Paschal Mystery, we delve into the depths of His overwhelming love. We have every reason to celebrate!

Have you ever noticed how little children are so good at rejoicing? Whether it be a princess tea party, a family dance party, or an impromptu “show”, they seem to keep everyone smiling. Their antics are not premeditated, nor are they tainted by complicated innuendos. They simply eat, dance and laugh. We can learn so much from them!

In today’s first reading, Paul invites the Athenians to enter the fold of God’s children. “The God who made the world and all that is in it, the Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in sanctuaries made by human hands, nor is he served by human hands because he needs anything. Rather it is he who gives to everyone life and breath and everything. He made from one the whole human race… so that people might seek God, even perhaps grope for him and find him, though indeed he is not far from any one of us.” 

Some of Paul’s listeners joined him and became believers, others were left pondering and longing for more and still others scoffed at him and went on their unmerry way. Which category would you fall into? Would you listen and believe with childlike faith? Would his words pique your interest but leave you wanting to hear more before surrendering? Would you scoff at him in disbelief because his words were hard to comprehend? Or would your heart feel like a jumbled ball of conflicting emotions made up of bits and pieces of all three reactions?  

Wherever you find yourself, know that Jesus is right there with you and He understands, for He truly “is not far from any one of us”. In the Gospel He states: “I have much more to tell you, but you cannot bear it now.” He knows how much you can bear at this very moment and when you will be ready for more. He knows when to feed you milk and when you are able to digest solid food. (see 1 Cor 3:2) And without fail, the Spirit will guide us to truth. He will take from the Father and the Son and declare it to us, so that we don’t even have to wait until the next life to celebrate, for “Heaven and earth are full of [His] glory.” (Today’s Psalm) Let us rejoice in Him!

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¿Puedes creer que todavía tenemos otra semana y media para celebrar la gran fiesta de la Resurrección de Nuestro Señor? ¡Somos un pueblo de Pascua! Incluso durante otras temporadas litúrgicas como el Adviento y la Navidad, se nos recuerda la razón de Su venida. Nació para morir y murió para resucitar. Dentro de la asombrosa verdad de este Misterio Pascual, profundizamos en la grandeza de Su amor abrumador. ¡Tenemos tantas razones para celebrar!

¿Alguna vez has notado como se regocijan los niños pequeños con tanta inocencia? Ya sea una fiesta de té de princesas, un momento de baile en familia o un “espectáculo” improvisado, parecen mantener a todos sonriendo. Sus payasadas no son premeditadas ni están contaminadas por insinuaciones complicadas. Simplemente comen, bailan y se ríen. ¡Podemos aprender mucho de ellos!

En la primera lectura de hoy, Pablo invita a los atenienses a entrar en el redil de los hijos de Dios. “El Dios que hizo el mundo y todo cuanto hay en él, siendo el Señor del cielo y de la tierra, no habita en templos hechos por hombres, ni es servido por mano de hombres, como si necesitara de algo o de alguien; porque él es quien da a todos la vida, el aliento y cuanto tienen. De un solo hombre sacó todo el género humano… quería que lo buscaran a él y que lo encontraran, aunque fuera a tientas, pues en realidad no está lejos de nosotros.”

Algunos de los oyentes de Pablo se unieron a él y se convirtieron en creyentes, otros se quedaron reflexionando y deseando más y otros se burlaron de él y se fueron. ¿En qué categoría entrarías tú? ¿Escucharías y creerías con fe de niño? ¿Sus palabras despertarían tu interés pero te dejarían con ganas de escuchar más antes de rendirte? ¿Te burlarías de él con incredulidad porque sus palabras eran difíciles de comprender? ¿O tu corazón se sentiría como una bola confusa de emociones conflictivas formada por fragmentos de cada una de las tres reacciones?

Dondequiera que te encuentres, sepa que Jesús está ahí contigo y te entiende, porque “en realidad no está lejos de nosotros”. En el Evangelio Él dice: “Aún tengo muchas cosas que decirles, pero todavía no las pueden comprender”. Él sabe cuánto puedes soportar en este momento preciso y cuándo estarás preparado para más. Él sabe cuándo alimentarte con leche y cuándo podrás digerir alimentos sólidos. (ver 1 Cor 3:2) Y sin falta, el Espíritu nos guiará a la verdad. Él tomará del Padre y del Hijo y nos la declarará, de modo que ni siquiera tengamos que esperar hasta la próxima vida para celebrar, porque “La gloria del Señor sobrepasa cielo y tierra”. (Salmo Responsorial) ¡Alegrémonos en Él!

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Shepherd Me, Oh God / Pastoréame, Señor

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In just a few days, my husband and I will celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary. And while this may not be considered a milestone by many, so much has happened in these short but long years. We have survived many storms: familial feuds, monetary muddles, infectious illnesses, chronic conditions, and the daily difficulties of raising five lively littles. I could compare it to the ebb and flow of an ocean tide. So many ups and downs, so many certainties and uncertainties, so much joy and pain. 

Yet this year has seemed like the best one yet in so many ways. While the marriages of several family members struggle and deteriorate, ours remains strong. While the world shines forth hatred and misunderstanding, our love and communication continue to grow. While others strive for material riches, we strive for poverty of spirit found in a quest for holiness. Constant pain is lifted up to the Lord as an offering and patience is refined through countless opportunities to practice it. 

We seek to provide a home where perfection is not required, flexibility is welcomed, and laughter and snuggles abound. And while we often fall short of this goal, our daily prayer and Tuesday evening Mass dates ground us over and over again. God has blessed us so abundantly through the sacrament of matrimony that all that is left is for us to be thankful. For as Fr. Mike Schmitz says, if you have gratitude, you have everything. Gratitude is all you need. 

Although the world often tempts us to lean towards a more glamorous marriage of fancy cars, a spotless home and elaborate vacations, we seek to follow the voice of our Good Shepherd, who “calls his own sheep by name and leads them… he walks ahead of them, and the sheep follow him, because they recognize his voice.” We know He calls us by name with overwhelming love. We know He leads us along the path to eternal life with gentle care. We know His voice speaks truth and goodness with justice and mercy. And we believe when He says to us, “I came so that they might have life and have it more abundantly.” (see today’s Gospel)

What is God speaking to your heart today? Do you recognize His voice? Will you follow Him wherever he leads you? May the Blessed Virgin Mary, whom we honor in a special way this month, lead you into a deeper relationship with her Son. May her motherly prodding encourage you to break down any barriers that are preventing you from allowing Him to walk ahead of you. May whatever you experience this day, whether it be an illness, an anniversary, or just another Monday, be filled with gratitude for being able to live one more day as His beloved sheep.

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En tan solo unos días, mi esposo y yo vamos a celebrar nuestro 13° aniversario de bodas. Y aunque muchos no lo consideren un hito importante, han sucedido muchas cosas en estos cortos pero largos años. Hemos aguantado muchos aguaceros: pleitos personales, dilemas de dineros, dolencias difíciles, condiciones crónicas y las dificultades diarias de criar a cinco enanos energéticos. Podría compararlo con el flujo y reflujo de una marea oceánica: tantos altibajos, tantas certezas e incertidumbres, tanta alegría y dolor.

Sin embargo, este año ha parecido el mejor de todos en muchos sentidos. Mientras varios miembros de la familia batallan en sus matrimonios y se deterioran, el nuestro sigue sólido. Mientras el mundo irradia odio y malentendidos, nuestro amor y comunicación siguen creciendo. Mientras otros luchan por las riquezas materiales, nosotros luchamos por la pobreza de espíritu que se encuentra en la búsqueda de la santidad. Nuestro dolor constante se eleva al Señor como una ofrenda y nuestra paciencia se refina a través de innumerables oportunidades de practicarla.

Buscamos ofrecer un hogar donde no se requiera perfección, la flexibilidad es bienvenida y abundan las risas y los abrazos. Y aunque con frecuencia no alcanzamos esta meta, nuestra oración diaria y yendo a misa juntos los martes por la noche nos vuelvan a fundamentar una y otra vez. Dios nos ha bendecido tan abundantemente a través del sacramento del matrimonio que lo único que nos queda es estar agradecidos. Porque como dice el Padre Mike Schmitz, si tienes gratitud, lo tienes todo. La gratitud es todo lo que necesitas.

Aunque el mundo nos tienta a tendernos hacia un matrimonio más glamoroso de vehículos lujosos, una casa impecable y vacaciones elaboradas, buscamos seguir la voz de nuestro Buen Pastor, que “llama a cada una por su nombre y las conduce… camina delante de ellas, y ellas lo siguen, porque conocen su voz”. Sabemos que Él nos llama por nuestro nombre con un amor abrumador. Sabemos que nos guía por el camino de la vida eterna con gentil cuidado. Sabemos que Su voz habla verdad y bondad con justicia y misericordia. Y lo creemos cuando nos dice: “Yo he venido para que tengan vida y la tengan en abundancia” (ver el Evangelio de hoy).

¿Qué le está diciendo Dios a tu corazón hoy? ¿Reconoces su voz? ¿Lo seguirás adonde sea que te lleve? Que la Santísima Virgen María, a quien honramos de manera especial este mes, te conduzca a una relación más profunda con su Hijo. Que su estímulo maternal te anime a derribar cualquier barrera que te impida permitirle caminar delante de ti. Que cualquier cosa que experimentes en este día, ya sea una enfermedad, un aniversario o simplemente un lunes más, esté lleno de gratitud por poder vivir un día más como su oveja amada.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Just Be / Simplemente Estar

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The joyful season of Easter is upon us! The weather is warmer, the flowers are blooming and soccer season is in full swing. Oh, and Jesus, the Savior of the world who suffered and died for us rose from the dead. Oh yeah, that too…

Does it ever feel like life just swallows you up sometimes? Like the liturgical celebrations, saints feast days and holy days become an afterthought? If so, I know that feeling, and I can’t say that I like it. 

We hear it said over and over all around us. “I’m just sooo busy.” “I have sooo much going on right now.” “I’m just barely keeping my head above water.” Yet often we see this busyness as some sort of status symbol. The more I “do”, the better I am. The more extracurriculars my kids are involved in, the better mom I am. The more I run myself ragged to please my husband, the better wife I am. But is that really what it’s all about??

I constantly struggle with this internal battle between “doing” and “being”. My daughter wants me to relax and watch cartoons with her, but I have to fold laundry. My son wants me to play ping pong with him, but I have to bake a dessert. My husband wants me to sit down next to him for a bit but I have to make lesson plans…

Now granted, there are things that just have to get done, but how often do we just stop and let ourselves be? How often do we find that internal silence to simply enjoy an intimate moment in front of the fire with our husband, a tickle attack with our little ones, or a profound conversation with our teens? There are very few things on our to-do list that are truly urgent, yet deepening our relationships is. Every moment with our loved ones is a gift, one we often fail to open. 

In today’s Gospel Jesus says: “What is born of flesh is flesh and what is born of spirit is spirit…You must be born from above.” What a great reminder to us of what is truly important! The things of the flesh will wither and fade (including our to-do list). The things of the spirit are eternal. Our hearts must be transformed by the One above so that our souls long to live a life of love. 

I invite you during the rest of this Easter season to choose a time each day to just be. Bask in the presence of your loved ones. Bask in the silence. Bask in God’s loving presence. 

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¡Ya ha llegado la alegre temporada de Pascua! El clima es más cálido, las flores están brotando y la temporada de soccer está en pleno apogeo. Ah, y Jesús, el Salvador del mundo que sufrió y murió por nosotros, resucitó de entre los muertos. Ah, sí, eso también…

¿Alguna vez sientes que la vida te consume? ¿Como si las celebraciones litúrgicas, los días festivos y los días sagrados se convirtieran en una ocurrencia de último momento? Si es así, conozco esa sensación y no puedo decir que me guste.

Escuchamos eso una y otra vez a nuestro alrededor. “Estoy taaaan ocupada”. “Tengo tantas cosas que hacer en este momento”. “Apenas puedo mantenerme a flote”. Sin embargo, a menudo podemos verlo como una especie de estatus. Cuanto más “hago”, mejor soy. Cuanto más actividades extracurriculares realizan mis hijos, mejor madre soy. Cuanto más me esfuerzo por complacer a mi esposo, mejor esposa soy. Pero, ¿de eso realmente se trata?

Lucho constantemente con esta batalla interna entre “hacer” y “ser”. Mi hija quiere que me relaje y vea caricaturas con ella, pero tengo que doblar la ropa. Mi hijo quiere que juegue al ping pong con él, pero tengo que preparar un postre. Mi esposo quiere que me siente a su lado un rato, pero tengo que preparar el curriculum para las clases…

Ahora bien, es cierto que hay cosas que simplemente hay que hacer, pero ¿con qué frecuencia nos detenemos para simplemente estar quietos? ¿Con qué frecuencia encontramos ese silencio interno para simplemente disfrutar de un momento íntimo frente al fuego con nuestro esposo, un ataque de cosquillas con nuestros pequeños o una conversación profunda con nuestros adolescentes? Hay muy pocas cosas en nuestra lista de cosas por hacer que sean realmente urgentes, pero profundizar las relaciones interpersonales sí lo es. Cada momento con nuestros seres queridos es un regalo, uno que a menudo no llegamos a abrir.

En el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús dice: “Lo que nace de la carne, es carne; lo que nace del Espíritu, es espíritu…Tienen que renacer de lo alto”.  ¡Qué gran recordatorio para nosotros de lo que es verdaderamente importante! Las cosas de la carne se marchitarán y se desvanecerán (incluida nuestra lista de cosas por hacer). Las cosas del espíritu son eternas. Nuestros corazones deben ser transformados por Aquel que está arriba para que nuestras almas anhelen vivir una vida de amor.

Te invito a que durante el resto de esta temporada de Pascua elijas un momento cada día para simplemente estar quieto. Disfruta de la presencia de tus seres queridos. Disfruta del silencio. Disfruta de la presencia amorosa de Dios.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Deepening our Personal Relationship with God / Profundizar la relación personal con Dios

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I have one of the rarest talents I have come across thus far. Namely, I almost always miss the wastebasket. I could have my hand directly over the top of it and a gust of wind comes out of nowhere inside my house (yeah, right) and the object floats onto the floor. Or, I pushed the flap to the covered trashcan to deposit something inside and the flap swings back and knocks it back out. Other times I practice my rusty basketball shot and miss as well. It seems that no matter how I attempt to dispose of something, I am doomed to fail. 

Now this may sound absolutely ridiculous, but it has actually become something that the Lord and I joke about with each other (when I’m done fuming, of course). “Very funny, Lord,” I tell Him. “Ha ha ha ha, I’m not laughing.” I can just imagine him guffawing up there in heaven and slapping His knee. “HA! You missed again! Did you like that wind I conjured up for ya?” And in the end, I usually do end up at least smiling to myself along with Him. 

Lately I have been struggling with bedtime prayers with my children and have been talking to them about the importance of having a personal relationship with God. They are always so squirrely, grabbing a toy, starting up side conversations, or simply not paying attention. I tell them that this is the most important time of the day, the time they get to talk to God. At ages 11 and under, I doubt they fully grasp it, but at least I am trying to plant the seeds. 

As you are reading this reflection during a time of prayer, I will mention the same to you as well. This is the most important time of your day, the moment you get to talk to God. And that is what Lent is all about, really. A time set apart to foster that personal relationship with God. With only 10 days left until Holy Week, now is a great time to take that effort off the back burner and slide it onto the front burner, allowing God to light your relationship with Him on fire. 

Let us not be like the Jews that Jesus is condemning in today’s Gospel. “But you do not want to come to me to have life.” What a tragic day that would be, if we stopped walking toward Jesus! He who “came in the name of [His] Father” is waiting for us with open arms. We simply have to open our own arms and hearts as well in order to receive Him. 

So whether it be joking with Jesus about something as silly as missing a trashcan, or crying with Him over the loss of a loved one, I invite you to take your personal relationship with Him one step further. May the remainder of this Lent find you rejoicing in the deepening friendship you encounter with the Savior of the world.  

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Tengo uno de los talentos más raros que he encontrado hasta ahora. Es decir, casi siempre no atino el cesto de basura. Puedo tener mi mano directamente sobre la tapa y un viento surge de la nada dentro de mi casa (sí, claro) y el objeto flota al suelo. O empujo la tapa del cesto de basura cubierto para depositar algo dentro y la tapa vuelve a su lugar tirándolo afuera. Otras veces practico mi tiro malo de baloncesto y también fallo. Parece que no importa cómo intente deshacerme de algo, estoy condenado al fracaso.

Ahora bien, esto puede sonar absolutamente ridículo, pero en realidad se ha convertido en algo sobre lo que el Señor y yo bromeamos entre nosotros (cuando termino de enojarme, por supuesto). “Muy gracioso, Señor”, le digo. “Jajajaja, no me estoy riendo”. Puedo imaginarlo riéndose a carcajadas allá arriba en el cielo y dándose una palmada en la rodilla. “¡JA! ¡De nuevo no lo metiste!” ¿Te gustó ese viento que conjuré para ti?” Y al final, por lo general termino al menos sonriendo yo también junto con Él.

Últimamente he estado luchando con las oraciones de la noche con mis hijos y les he estado hablando sobre la importancia de tener una relación personal con Dios. Siempre están tan inquietos, agarrando un juguete, iniciando conversaciones secundarias o simplemente no prestando atención. Les digo que este es el momento más importante del día, el momento en que pueden hablar con Dios. A los 12 años y para abajo, dudo que lo entiendan completamente, pero al menos estoy tratando de plantar las semillas.

Mientras lees esta reflexión durante un momento de oración, te mencionaré lo mismo también. Este es el momento más importante de tu día, el momento en que puedes hablar con Dios. Y de eso se trata realmente la Cuaresma. Un tiempo apartado para fomentar esa relación personal con Dios. Con solo 10 días hasta la Semana Santa, ahora sería un gran momento para dejar de lado ese esfuerzo y ponerlo en primer plano, permitiendo que Dios encienda tu relación con Él.

No seamos como los judíos a los que Jesús está condenando en el Evangelio de hoy. “¡Y ustedes no quieren venir a mí para tener vida!” ¡Qué día más trágico sería si dejáramos de caminar hacia Jesús! Aquel que ha “venido en nombre de [Su] Padre” nos está esperando con los brazos abiertos. Simplemente tenemos que abrir nuestros propios brazos y corazones también para recibirlo.

Así que, ya sea bromeando con Jesús sobre algo tan tonto como no meter algo a un bote de basura, o llorando con Él por la pérdida de un ser querido, te invito a llevar tu relación personal con Él un paso más allá. Que el resto de esta Cuaresma te encuentre regocijándote en la amistad cada vez más profunda que encuentras con el Salvador del mundo.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Called to be Missionaries / Llamados a ser misioneros

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As I continue to navigate through this life, where God often writes straight with crooked lines, I never cease to see His loving hands at work. Lately, I have noticed Him blessing us by providing for our needs. An unexpected reimbursement check from our insurance company, a friend who offered me her mother’s clothes after she passed away, an anonymous donor who gifted new athletic shoes to the kids, scholarships, discounts, and random gifts. All these things have been poured out to our family from God’s loving hand through His instruments. 

I can’t even begin to express my gratitude to Him, Who never ceases to amaze me, Who cannot be outdone in generosity. The struggle for families is real in today’s economy, but I can boldly say that we have never gone without a meal. In fact, God has even allowed us to provide meals to others. 

Last fall, we were blessed to host young adult missionaries at our house from the NET Team. They are in our county all year to be a presence in our community and help bring young people into a deeper relationship with Christ. They attend youth group meetings, community gatherings, sporting events, hold Bible studies at coffee shops, and meet people where they’re at. Jesus invites us into His heart through relationship, and they are forming just that with the youth. 

While these young men and women bless us spiritually, the community pulls together to provide for their corporal needs. Some provide meals, others vehicles, others cell phones, others gift cards and others a roof over their heads for a week or two at a time. It opens our hearts in generosity while they open their hearts to us in God’s love. There is really nothing quite like it. It reminds me of the early Christian community that pooled all of their resources and provided for one another, or of those who were sent out two by two and welcomed into the homes of complete strangers. 

These missionaries have given up the comfort of their homes and their way of life because they feel called. They are attempting to embody today’s Gospel in which Jesus commands us to love God with all of our heart, soul, mind and strength and to love our neighbor as ourselves. They have left their boats on the shore and followed Jesus. 

As Christians, we are all called to be missionaries in our own ways. Whatever our walk of life may be, we can evangelize through our words and actions. Whether it be testifying to God’s generosity, being a positive voice at work, or selflessly serving our family, we can all make a difference in our parishes and communities. Who knows, we might be the instrument through which God speaks compassion to others, saying: “I will heal their defection…I will love them freely.” (Hosea 14:5)

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Mientras sigo navegando por esta vida, donde Dios a menudo escribe recto con renglones torcidos, nunca dejo de ver sus manos amorosas trabajando. Últimamente, he notado que nos bendice al proveer para nuestras necesidades. Un cheque de reembolso inesperado de la compañía de seguros, una amiga que me ofreció la ropa de su madre después de que falleció, un donante anónimo que regaló zapatos deportivos nuevos para los niños, becas, descuentos y regalos al azar. Todas estas cosas han sido derramadas sobre nuestra familia de la mano amorosa de Dios a través de Sus instrumentos.

Ni siquiera puedo comenzar a expresarle mi gratitud, quien nunca deja de sorprenderme, quien no puede ser superado en generosidad. La lucha de las familias es real en la economía actual, pero puedo decir con valentía que nunca hemos faltado una comida. De hecho, Dios incluso nos ha permitido proporcionar comidas a otros.

El otoño pasado, tuvimos la bendición de hospedar a misioneros jóvenes en nuestra casa del equipo NET. Están en nuestro condado todo el año para estar presentes en la comunidad y ayudar a que los jóvenes tengan una relación más profunda con Cristo. Asisten a reuniones de grupos de jóvenes, reuniones comunitarias, eventos deportivos, realizan estudios bíblicos en cafeterías y se reúnen con la gente donde se encuentren. Jesús nos invita a entrar en su corazón a través de la relación, y ellos están formando precisamente eso con los jóvenes.

Mientras estos hombres y mujeres jóvenes nos bendicen espiritualmente, la comunidad se une para satisfacer sus necesidades corporales. Algunos proporcionan comidas, otros vehículos, otros teléfonos celulares, otros tarjetas de regalo y otros un techo durante una o dos semanas. Abre nuestros corazones con generosidad mientras ellos nos abren sus corazones con el amor de Dios. Realmente no hay nada parecido. Me recuerda a la comunidad cristiana primitiva que ponía en común todos sus recursos y se ayudaba mutuamente, o a aquellos que eran enviados de dos en dos y eran recibidos en las casas de gente desconocida.

Estos misioneros han renunciado a la comodidad de sus hogares y a su estilo de vida porque se sienten llamados. Ellos están intentando encarnar el Evangelio de hoy en el que Jesús nos manda amar a Dios con todo el corazón, alma, mente y fuerza y ​​amar al prójimo como a nosotros mismos. Ellos han dejado sus barcas en la orilla y han seguido a Jesús.

Como cristianos, todos estamos llamados a ser misioneros a nuestra manera. Cualquiera que sea nuestro camino de vida, podemos evangelizar a través de las palabras y acciones. Ya sea dando testimonio de la generosidad de Dios, siendo una voz positiva en el trabajo o sirviendo desinteresadamente a la familia, todos podemos marcar una diferencia en nuestras parroquias y comunidades. Quién sabe, tal vez seamos el instrumento a través del cual Dios hable con compasión a los demás, diciendo: “Yo perdonaré sus infidelidades…los amaré aunque no lo merezcan”. (Ver la primera lectura de hoy de Oseas 14,5)

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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A Parent’s Labor / El labor de los padres de familia

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On this day 12 years ago I became a mom. They say that as soon as you see your child, all the difficulties of labor just fade away and you are instantly in love with your new little one. While that may be true for some, my experience was not quite so romantic. I had high blood pressure for the last week of my pregnancy, and endured two sleepless nights before even going into the hospital. I had intermittent contractions all night and as soon as I got up for the day thinking I was in labor, they would go away. By the third evening, I asked my husband to take me in anyway, knowing full well that if I let it go any longer, I wouldn’t have the strength to get through the birth. 

I was admitted to OB triage due to the fact that I had preeclampsia and was started on Pitocin. I labored for 19 hours but still hadn’t progressed enough and the baby began showing signs of distress so they took me into the OR to perform a C-section. Once they had cut me open they said, “Well, good thing we came back here. He wouldn’t have come out anyway. His head was transverse (sideways).” 

Soon after he was born they took my son to clean him up and took me into recovery for some much needed rest. I didn’t even get to bond with him until a few hours later. Our stay was extended since he was jaundiced and was not nursing well. For the first four days of his life he was fed mostly through a dropper. Not only was I unable to birth my child naturally, now I was unable to feed him. 

Thankfully, as soon as we got home, he started nursing like a champ (maybe he didn’t like the hospital either) and growing like a weed. Fast forward 12 years and he is as tall as I am and wearing men’s clothing already. And his pre-teen stubbornness? Well, some say that that is because he had to fight so hard to be born. 

Today’s Gospel talks about Jesus separating the sheep from the goats and welcoming into his Kingdom those who have shown charity toward their neighbor through the corporal works of mercy. Isn’t that what the true labor of a parent is all about? – teaching your children to love God and neighbor, with the hope that they will be “blessed by [the] Father” and one day “inherit the kingdom prepared for [them]”. Our greatest hope is not that they become rich and famous but that they be counted among the righteous so as to inherit eternal life with God. 

So whether your child is newly born, an adult or somewhere in between, don’t forget to remind them, whether by word or example, how important it is to show kindness toward others and love God with all their heart. And no matter how many sleepless nights they may (still) cause you, never cease to pray for their salvation. 

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Hace 12 años, en este día, me convertí en madre. Dicen que, en cuanto ves a tu hijo, todas las dificultades del parto desaparecen y te enamoras instantáneamente de tu nuevo bebé. Si bien eso puede ser cierto para algunas, mi experiencia no fue tan romántica. Tuve presión alta durante la última semana de mi embarazo y pasé dos noches sin dormir antes de ingresar al hospital. Tenía contracciones intermitentes toda la noche y, en cuanto me levantaba pensando que estaba empezando el parto, desaparecían. A la tercera noche, le pedí a mi esposo que me llevara de todos modos, sabiendo muy bien que si lo dejaba pasar más tiempo, no tendría la fuerza para sobrevivir el parto.

Me admitieron en el hospital debido a que tenía preeclampsia y comenzaron a administrarme medicina para empezar el parto. Estuve de parto durante 19 horas, pero aún no había progresado lo suficiente y el bebé comenzó a mostrar signos de sufrimiento, por lo que me llevaron a la sala de operaciones para realizarme una cesárea. Una vez que me abrieron, dijeron: “Bueno, menos mal que venimos acá. De todos modos no hubiera salido el bebe. Tenía la cabeza transversal (de costado)”.

Poco después de que nació, se llevaron a mi hijo para limpiarlo y me llevaron a recuperación para que descansara un poco, algo que necesitaba. Ni siquiera pude establecer un vínculo con él hasta unas horas después. Nuestra estadía se prolongó porque tenía ictericia y no mamaba bien. Durante los primeros cuatro días de su vida, se alimentó principalmente con un gotero. No solo no pude dar a luz a mi hijo de forma natural, ¡ahora no podía alimentarlo tampoco!

Afortunadamente, tan pronto como llegamos a casa, comenzó a mamar como un campeón (tal vez tampoco le gustaba el hospital) y a crecer rapidísimo. Doce años después, es tan alto como yo y ya usa ropa de hombre. ¿Y su terquedad preadolescente? Bueno, algunos dicen que se debe a que tuvo que luchar mucho para nacer.

El Evangelio de hoy habla de cómo Jesús separa las ovejas de las cabras y acoge en su Reino a quienes han demostrado caridad hacia el prójimo mediante las obras corporales de misericordia. ¿No es eso el verdadero labor de ser padre de familia? Enseñar a los hijos a amar a Dios y al prójimo, con la esperanza de que sean “bendecidos por [el] Padre” y un día “hereden el reino preparado para [ellos]”. Nuestra mayor esperanza no es que se hagan ricos y famosos, sino que sean contados entre los justos para heredar la vida eterna con Dios.

Así que, ya sea que tu hijo sea recién nacido, un adulto o algo entre medio, no olvides recordarle, ya sea con palabras o con el ejemplo, lo importante que es mostrar bondad hacia los demás y amar a Dios con todo el corazón. Y no importa cuántas noches de insomnio te cause (todavía), nunca dejes de orar por su salvación.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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The Blessing of True Friends / La bendición de los amigos verdaderos

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A couple decades ago, my 20-something self decided to fly the coop and try living out on my own. I finally had a steady job and a close friend had purchased a second house and was renting it out. Now all I needed were roommates. With the help of Catholic young adult groups I found myself moving in with two other young ladies. One of them was more reserved and kept mostly to herself while the other was outgoing but seemed engrossed in her boyfriend. I had my own social life and was just looking for a couple people to help pay the bills, so I was happy with the arrangement. 

Little did I know that within a few months one of those ladies, whom I thought was too much like myself, would become one of my best friends. We’re talking about – I’m in your wedding and you’re in mine – type of friends. We’re talking about – you live halfway across the world but every time we see each other we are able to instantly reconnect – type of friends. We’re talking about – I pray for you and you pray for me when we’re going through a tough time – type of friends. The kind of friendship that is grounded in true care for one another and rooted in love for God. 

Today’s first reading warns us to be careful about who we choose as friends: “Let your acquaintances be many, but one in a thousand your confidant.” But once you find that confidant, you truly understand the words that follow: “A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure. A faithful friend is beyond price, no sum can balance his worth. A faithful friend is a life-saving remedy, such as he who fears God finds; For he who fears God behaves accordingly, and his friend will be like himself.”

I can honestly say that this friend is a treasure to me, someone I can count on to share my joys with and who shows me compassion in my sorrows. I never thought that two people with such similar personalities could jive so well, but in the end it is the similarity of our faith that holds us together like glue. 

On this day, let us reflect on the deep friendships we are blessed with. May we realize that they are not a dime a dozen but rather one in a thousand, and thank God for bringing those people into our lives. For truly, “A faithful friend is beyond price, no sum can balance his worth.”

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Hace un par de décadas, cuando tenía veintitantos años, decidí salir de la casa de mis padres e ir a vivir en otro lugar. Por fin tenía un trabajo estable y un amigo cercano había comprado una segunda casa y la estaba alquilando. Ahora todo lo que necesitaba eran compañeras de casa. Con la ayuda de grupos de jóvenes adultos católicos, me encontré mudándome con otras dos chicas jóvenes. Una de ellas era más reservada y mayormente se quedaba en su cuarto, mientras que la otra era extrovertida, pero parecía absorta en su novio. Yo tenía mi propia vida social y solo buscaba un par de personas que me ayudaran a pagar las cuentas, así que estaba feliz con el arreglo.

No sabía que dentro de unos pocos meses una de esas chicas, a quien pensaba que se parecía demasiado a mí, se convertiría en una de mis mejores amigas. Estamos hablando de amigos del tipo “yo te invito a ser dama en mi boda y yo en la tuya”. Estamos hablando de amigos del tipo “vives al otro lado del mundo, pero cada vez que nos vemos podemos reconectarnos instantáneamente”. Estamos hablando de amigos del tipo “yo rezo por ti y tú rezas por mí cuando estamos pasando por un momento difícil”. El tipo de amistad que se basa en el verdadero cariño mutuo y fundado en el amor a Dios.

La primera lectura de hoy nos advierte que tengamos cuidado con quiénes elegimos como amigos: “Es bueno que te saluden muchos; pero que uno solo entre mil sea tu amigo íntimo”. Pero una vez que encuentras a ese confidente, realmente entiendes las palabras que siguen: “El amigo fiel es un refugio que da seguridad; el que lo encuentra, ha encontrado un tesoro. El amigo fiel no tiene precio: ningún dinero ajusta para comprarlo. El amigo fiel es un tónico de vida. Los que aman al Señor lo encontrarán; el que teme al Señor sabe ser fiel amigo y hace a sus amigos como él”.

Puedo decir honestamente que esta amiga es un tesoro para mí, alguien con quien puedo contar para compartir mis alegrías y que me muestra compasión en mis penas. Nunca pensé que dos personas con personalidades tan semejantes pudieran llevarse tan bien, pero al final es la similitud de nuestra fe lo que nos mantiene unidos.

En este día, reflexionemos sobre las amistades profundas con las que hemos sido bendecidos. Que nos demos cuenta de que no son comunes y corrientes, sino más bien una entre mil, y agradezcamos a Dios por traer a esas personas a nuestras vidas. Porque en verdad, El amigo fiel no tiene precio: ningún dinero ajusta para comprarlo”.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Lord, Lavish Your Wisdom Upon Us / Señor, derrama sobre nosotros tu sabiduría

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About 6 months ago, my husband and I entered the challenging and unpredictable world of parenting a pre-teen. Long gone are the days of simply brushing his teeth when I ask him to and instead I am greeted with a barrage of questions, arguments and complaints. “There’s just 6 minutes left of this episode, can’t I just watch the rest?” “I can’t come up to eat dinner right now, I’m right in the middle of a video game!” “Can I pleeeeease not go to soccer practice today? My knee hurts.” Couple that with an active and headstrong toddler and you often have two exasperated parents! 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus also sounds a bit frustrated as He comes down from the mountain only to encounter a large crowd of people arguing. Their altercations were due to the fact that the disciples weren’t able to perform the requested miracle. Jesus rebukes them for their lack of faith and cures the boy. 

While I know my son doesn’t need curing, per se, I do find myself praying frequently for wisdom and patience on how to guide him on the path to sainthood. I ask God to help me to be the parent that my son needs in order to grow and flourish in a healthy way. I recognize my children will not be little for long and that I need a lot of help, since there doesn’t seem to be a reference manual on how to raise a child. 

Today’s first reading reminds me that “All wisdom comes from the Lord…The word of God on high is the fountain of wisdom”. It goes on to say that only God can truly understand wisdom yet He has “poured her forth” and “lavished her upon his friends.” 

God longs to grant us His good gifts, but just as He alludes to in the Gospel, this can only come through prayer. We have to ask God for His gifts and have the faith that He can and will give them to us. So whether you are dealing with an argumentative teen, a disagreeable coworker or a difficult elderly parent, humbly ask the Lord to pour forth His wisdom, knowing that He longs to lavish it upon you. 

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Hace unos 6 meses, mi esposo y yo entramos en el desafiante e impredecible mundo de ser padres de un preadolescente. Se quedaron en el pasado los días en que simplemente se cepillaba los dientes cuando se lo pedía y, en cambio, me encuentro con un aluvión de preguntas, argumentos y quejas. “Solo quedan 6 minutos de este episodio, ¿por qué no puedo ver el resto?” “No puedo subir a cenar ahora mismo, ¡estoy en medio de un videojuego!” “¿Por favooooor puedo no ir a la práctica de soccer hoy? Me duele la rodilla”. Si a eso le sumamos una niña pequeña activa y obstinada, ¡a menudo somos dos padres desesperados!

En el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús también suena un poco frustrado cuando baja de la montaña y se encuentra con una gran multitud de personas discutiendo. Sus altercados se debían al hecho de que los discípulos no pudieron realizar el milagro solicitado. Jesús los reprende por su falta de fe y sana al niño.

Aunque reconozco que mi hijo no necesita sanación de ese tipo, sí me encuentro rezando con frecuencia para pedirle a Dios sabiduría y paciencia sobre cómo guiarlo en el camino hacia la santidad. Le pido a Dios que me ayude a ser la madre que mi hijo necesita para crecer y desarrollarse de manera saludable. Reconozco que mis hijos no serán pequeños por mucho tiempo y que necesito mucha ayuda, ya que no parece haber un manual de referencia sobre cómo criar a un niño.

La primera lectura de hoy me recuerda que “Toda sabiduría viene del Señor”. Continúa diciendo que solo Dios puede comprender verdaderamente la sabiduría, pero “la ha derramado” y “la ha derrochado entre aquellos que lo aman”.

Dios anhela concedernos sus buenos dones, pero tal como insinúa en el Evangelio, esto solo puede venir a través de la oración. Tenemos que pedirle a Dios sus dones y tener la fe de que puede darnoslos y de hecho nos los darán. Así que, ya sea que estés lidiando con un adolescente discutidor, un compañero de trabajo desagradable o un padre anciano difícil, pídele humildemente al Señor que derrame Su sabiduría sobre ti, sabiendo que anhela hacerlo.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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