We have all struggled at times with perceived injustice toward ourselves, where we’ve felt wronged or invalidated by others. This comes up on a nearly daily basis in my own life. I am frustrated by feeling taken advantage of by a business transaction gone wrong, or disrespected by the tone in which someone has spoken to me. Being particularly sensitive, my emotions often fall into a whirlwind I can’t control regarding what is fair or unfair. It is so important to recognize that each of these trials is allowed by God for a reason, perhaps geared toward strengthening resolve.
Although I am a sinner, I am repeatedly granted the opportunity to try to be a saint once again. Easier for me to imagine than “WWJD” is what would another saint do in this situation? While picturing Jesus or even Mary at times, I have inherently struggled relating to their perfect ways. But hearing stories of the saints, including their flaws, gives me comfort, that I too can work toward transformation, to find God who is always there amid my many struggles and disappointments.
As the greatest “among those born of women” (see Matt 11:11), John the Baptist recognized “He must increase; I must decrease.” Turning to Godly thinking, rather than earthly, is the only way to find true happiness. Centering on prayer and a life in Christ, I can work to separate myself from the distractions of this world, and be completely confident that the love Christ has for me, a sinner, is infinitely more powerful than any of my earthly problems.
Todos hemos luchado alguna vez con la percepción de injusticia hacia nosotros mismos, donde nos hemos sentido perjudicados o invalidados por otros. Esto surge casi a diario en mi propia vida. Me frustro por sentir que se aprovecharon de mí debido a una transacción comercial que salió mal, o que me faltaron el respeto por el tono en que me hablaron. Al ser particularmente sensible, mis emociones a menudo caen en un torbellino que no puedo controlar sobre lo que es justo o injusto. Es muy importante reconocer que Dios permite cada una de estas pruebas por alguna razón, tal vez orientada a fortalecer la determinación.
Aunque soy pecadora, se me concede una y otra vez la oportunidad de intentar ser santa de nuevo. Para mí es más fácil imaginar, “¿Qué haría otro santo en esta situación?” Si bien a veces me imagino a Jesús o incluso a María, he batallado relacionarme con sus formas de ser perfectas. Pero al escuchar las historias de los santos, con todos sus defectos, me reconforta saber que yo también puedo trabajar por la transformación, para encontrar a Dios, que siempre está ahí en medio de mis muchas batallas y desilusiones.
Como el mayor “entre los nacidos de mujer” (ver Mateo 11:11), Juan el Bautista reconoció que “Es necesario que él crezca y que yo venga a menos”. Recurrir a un pensamiento piadoso, en lugar de uno terrenal, es la única manera de encontrar la verdadera felicidad. Centrándome en la oración y en una vida en Cristo, puedo esforzarme por separarme de las distracciones de este mundo y tener la plena confianza de que el amor que Cristo tiene por mí, una pecadora, es infinitamente más poderoso que cualquiera de mis problemas terrenales.
Dr. Alexis Dallara-Marsh is a board-certified neurologist who practices in Bergen County, NJ. She is a wife to her best friend, Akeem, and a mother of four little ones on Earth and two others in heaven above.
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