If you or I ever wished that Jesus would personally tell us what he wishes for us to do, it is the above reading that makes it very clear. Jesus talks to us about feeding the hungry and thirsty, helping a stranger, helping clothe the naked, visiting the sick, and visiting those in prison.
I can remember this list from many years ago and trying to be honest with myself. I was doing great until the last one, visiting those in prison. That was one that made me rationalize I could do all of those except for that one. I had friends in prison ministry who told me how wonderful it was. I told them very “calmly” that it was not a good fit for me. My wife reminded me that I was making a judgment based on zero knowledge. She knows how to get to me.
I had a friend at that time who was very involved in jail ministry at the Kent County jail. Lay ministers would go to the jail on Saturday nights. He said he would come by someday and pick me up. I told him not to bother and that I wasn’t interested. About a month later we were eating dinner and somebody was blowing their horn out in our driveway. I jumped up and went out there and guess what? It was him. Come on, jump in he said we’re going down to jail! I said well have a nice ride by yourself! He rejected my words and said “get in now”! So I did.
Back in the day a person that was cleared to come into jail could bring a friend without a background check. As we walked through the facility I heard three loud klinks as the doors locked behind me. I was somewhat intimidated by that. We were led down a long hallway to the end and to the last jail cell on the left. Above the door was a red light that was not turned on. The officer told us if we had any trouble to flick the switch on the inside and it would turn the light on and they would come down and help. Yeah right!
When I got into the jail cell there were fifteen of the toughest looking guys I had ever seen in my life! After a couple of minutes, the Lord’s presence was so heavy in the cell that I began to weep. This was not good! When I recovered I felt like that was the place I was supposed to be! I ministered there for about 10 years. God knows best!
So the next time He asks you to do something you don’t really want to, it’s probably exactly what he wants you to do! Don’t just take my word for it, take His Word for it!
I beg you not to rationalize yourself out of God’s request. It might be one of the greatest ministries you are ever involved in. Also, don’t forget those other things he is asking you to do. Those incarcerated men gave me back more than I could have ever given them. Hallelujah.
Serving with joy!
Si usted o yo alguna vez deseamos que Jesús nos dijera personalmente lo que desea que hagamos, la lectura anterior lo deja muy claro. Jesús nos habla de alimentar al hambriento y sediento, ayudar a un extraño, ayudar a vestir al desnudo, visitar a los enfermos y visitar a los encarcelados.
Puedo recordar esta lista de hace muchos años y tratando de ser honesto conmigo mismo. Me iba muy bien hasta el último, visitando a los presos. Racionalicé que podría hacer todos menos ese. Tenía amigos en el ministerio de prisiones que me dijeron lo maravilloso que era. Les dije con mucha “tranquilidad” que no me convenía. Mi esposa me recordó que estaba haciendo un juicio sin conocimiento ninguno. Ella sabe cómo hacerme pensar.
Tenía un amigo en ese momento que estaba muy involucrado en el ministerio de prisiones del condado de Kent. Los ministros laicos iban a la cárcel los sábados por la noche. Dijo que vendría algún día a recogerme. Le dije que no se molestara y que no me interesaba. Aproximadamente un mes después, estábamos cenando y alguien estaba tocando la bocina afuera de la casa. Salté y salí y ¿adivinen quien fue? “¡Vamos, vente!, vamos a ir a la cárcel.” Le dije, “que tengas un buen viaje, te vas solo.” No aceptó mi respuesta y dijo “¡entra ahora!” Así que lo hice.
En ese entonces, una persona autorizada para ir a la cárcel podría traer a un amigo sin una verificación de antecedentes. Mientras caminábamos por las instalaciones, escuché tres fuertes ruidos metálicos cuando las puertas se cerraron detrás de mí. Eso me intimidó. Nos condujeron por un largo pasillo hasta el final y hasta la última celda a la izquierda. Sobre la puerta había una luz roja que no estaba encendida. El oficial nos dijo que si teníamos algún problema, presionáramos el interruptor en el interior y encendería la luz y ellos bajarían y ayudarían. ¡por supuesto!
Cuando entré a la celda habían quince de los tipos más fuertes que había visto en mi vida. Después de un par de minutos, la presencia del Señor era tan pesada en la celda que comencé a llorar. ¡Esto no fue bueno! Al recuperarme sentí que ese era el lugar donde debía estar! Fui ministro allí durante unos 10 años. ¡Dios sabe mejor!
Entonces, la próxima vez que Él te pida que hagas algo que realmente no quieres, lo más probable es que sea exactamente lo que Él quiere que hagas. No confíe sólo en mi palabra, ¡confíe en Su Palabra!
Te ruego que no racionalices lo que Dios te pide. Puede que sea uno de los mejores ministerios en los que estés involucrado. Además, no olvides esas otras cosas que te está pidiendo que hagas. Esos hombres encarcelados me regalaron mucho más de lo que yo podría haberles dado. Aleluya.
¡Sirviendo con alegría!
Deacon Dan Schneider is a retired general manager of industrial distributors. He and his wife Vicki have been married for over 50 years. They are the parents of eight children and thirty grandchildren. He has a degree in Family Life Education from Spring Arbor University. He was ordained a Permanent Deacon in 2002. He has a passion for working with engaged and married couples and his main ministry has been preparing couples for marriage.
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