I’ve always been told to be charitable. Sometimes I was charitable because I felt bad, or I just wanted to feel good, and other times I wanted someone to notice that I was being charitable. But the true meaning of charity is doing something because it benefits others and not because it makes me feel a certain way.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus calls us to give freely what we’ve received freely. God calls us out of our shell to go beyond what we deem comfortable. “Do not take gold or silver or copper for your belts; no sack for the journey, or a second tunic, or sandals, or walking stick. The laborer deserves his keep.” This may have sounded a bit extreme at the time given the long distances His Apostles traveled. But that is what God calls us to, the extreme.
There is a Youtube channel called “Yes Theory”, where their main goal is to “Seek Discomfort” by traveling the world and going beyond the social norms to seek out deeper meaning in life. They do things that they wouldn’t do if they followed the normality of society. They do extreme things in the name of experiencing something that the majority of the world never would. They reach out to communities that would otherwise go unnoticed in society.
God asks us to go beyond the social norms, to look beyond the glory and the good feeling of helping others and be truly charitable because it benefits others. Even as Christians, we can seek to be charitable, but get so confused on what that truly means. As I’ve been training to be an EMT, I’ve been learning the meaning of what it means – going into bad situations with an open heart, letting people know that you see them and are there for them, not to be the “hero” or because you feel bad for them.
That is what God calls us to do, to go into life and see people for who they are, maybe even evangelize to them through our actions, because no matter how small, they go a long way. Even if they aren’t looking for help, or maybe in some cases, are even cursing at the fact that you are there, you can be at peace knowing that God loves them.
Siempre me han dicho que sea caritativo. A veces lo era porque me sentía mal, o simplemente quería sentirme bien, y otras veces quería que alguien notara que estaba siendo caritativo. Pero el verdadero significado de la caridad es hacer algo porque beneficia a los demás y no porque me hace sentir de cierta forma.
En el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús nos llama a dar libremente lo que hemos recibido libremente. Dios nos llama a salir de nuestro caparazón para ir más allá de lo que consideramos cómodo. “No lleven con ustedes, en su cinturón, monedas de oro, de plata o de cobre. No lleven morral para el camino ni dos túnicas ni sandalias ni bordón, porque el trabajador tiene derecho a su sustento”. Esto puede haber sonado un poco extremo en ese momento dadas las largas distancias que viajaban Sus Apóstoles. Pero eso es a lo que Dios nos llama, al extremo.
Hay un canal de YouTube llamado “Yes Theory”, donde su objetivo principal es “Buscar la incomodidad” viajando por el mundo y yendo más allá de las normas sociales para buscar un significado más profundo en la vida. Hacen cosas que no harían si siguieran la normalidad de la sociedad. Hacen cosas extremas en nombre de experimentar algo que la mayoría del mundo nunca experimentaría. Se acercan a comunidades que de otro modo pasarían desapercibidas en la sociedad.
Dios nos pide que vayamos más allá de las normas sociales, que miremos más allá de la gloria y la buena sensación de ayudar a los demás y que seamos verdaderamente caritativos porque beneficia a los demás. Incluso como cristianos, podemos buscar ser caritativos, pero nos confundimos mucho sobre lo que eso realmente significa. Mientras me he estado entrenando para ser técnico de emergencias médicas, he estado aprendiendo el significado de lo que significa: entrar en situaciones malas con un corazón abierto, dejar que las personas sepan que las ves y que estás ahí para ellas, no para ser el “héroe” o porque te sientes mal por ellas.
Eso es lo que Dios nos llama a hacer, a entrar en la vida y ver a las personas como son, tal vez incluso evangelizarlas a través de nuestras acciones, porque no importa cuán pequeñas sean, llegan muy lejos. Incluso si no están buscando ayuda, o tal vez en algunos casos, incluso están maldiciendo el hecho de que estás allí, puedes estar en paz sabiendo que Dios los ama.
Ben Hooper is originally from Maryland, having been adopted from Korea and growing up in the Catholic faith. He went to Franciscan University to dive deeper into his faith and eventually graduated with a degree in Business Management. He loves musical theater, sports, spending time with his wife Lily and their dog Kolbe.
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