I have one of the rarest talents I have come across thus far. Namely, I almost always miss the wastebasket. I could have my hand directly over the top of it and a gust of wind comes out of nowhere inside my house (yeah, right) and the object floats onto the floor. Or, I pushed the flap to the covered trashcan to deposit something inside and the flap swings back and knocks it back out. Other times I practice my rusty basketball shot and miss as well. It seems that no matter how I attempt to dispose of something, I am doomed to fail.
Now this may sound absolutely ridiculous, but it has actually become something that the Lord and I joke about with each other (when I’m done fuming, of course). “Very funny, Lord,” I tell Him. “Ha ha ha ha, I’m not laughing.” I can just imagine him guffawing up there in heaven and slapping His knee. “HA! You missed again! Did you like that wind I conjured up for ya?” And in the end, I usually do end up at least smiling to myself along with Him.
Lately I have been struggling with bedtime prayers with my children and have been talking to them about the importance of having a personal relationship with God. They are always so squirrely, grabbing a toy, starting up side conversations, or simply not paying attention. I tell them that this is the most important time of the day, the time they get to talk to God. At ages 11 and under, I doubt they fully grasp it, but at least I am trying to plant the seeds.
As you are reading this reflection during a time of prayer, I will mention the same to you as well. This is the most important time of your day, the moment you get to talk to God. And that is what Lent is all about, really. A time set apart to foster that personal relationship with God. With only 10 days left until Holy Week, now is a great time to take that effort off the back burner and slide it onto the front burner, allowing God to light your relationship with Him on fire.
Let us not be like the Jews that Jesus is condemning in today’s Gospel. “But you do not want to come to me to have life.” What a tragic day that would be, if we stopped walking toward Jesus! He who “came in the name of [His] Father” is waiting for us with open arms. We simply have to open our own arms and hearts as well in order to receive Him.
So whether it be joking with Jesus about something as silly as missing a trashcan, or crying with Him over the loss of a loved one, I invite you to take your personal relationship with Him one step further. May the remainder of this Lent find you rejoicing in the deepening friendship you encounter with the Savior of the world.
Tengo uno de los talentos más raros que he encontrado hasta ahora. Es decir, casi siempre no atino el cesto de basura. Puedo tener mi mano directamente sobre la tapa y un viento surge de la nada dentro de mi casa (sí, claro) y el objeto flota al suelo. O empujo la tapa del cesto de basura cubierto para depositar algo dentro y la tapa vuelve a su lugar tirándolo afuera. Otras veces practico mi tiro malo de baloncesto y también fallo. Parece que no importa cómo intente deshacerme de algo, estoy condenado al fracaso.
Ahora bien, esto puede sonar absolutamente ridículo, pero en realidad se ha convertido en algo sobre lo que el Señor y yo bromeamos entre nosotros (cuando termino de enojarme, por supuesto). “Muy gracioso, Señor”, le digo. “Jajajaja, no me estoy riendo”. Puedo imaginarlo riéndose a carcajadas allá arriba en el cielo y dándose una palmada en la rodilla. “¡JA! ¡De nuevo no lo metiste!” ¿Te gustó ese viento que conjuré para ti?” Y al final, por lo general termino al menos sonriendo yo también junto con Él.
Últimamente he estado luchando con las oraciones de la noche con mis hijos y les he estado hablando sobre la importancia de tener una relación personal con Dios. Siempre están tan inquietos, agarrando un juguete, iniciando conversaciones secundarias o simplemente no prestando atención. Les digo que este es el momento más importante del día, el momento en que pueden hablar con Dios. A los 12 años y para abajo, dudo que lo entiendan completamente, pero al menos estoy tratando de plantar las semillas.
Mientras lees esta reflexión durante un momento de oración, te mencionaré lo mismo también. Este es el momento más importante de tu día, el momento en que puedes hablar con Dios. Y de eso se trata realmente la Cuaresma. Un tiempo apartado para fomentar esa relación personal con Dios. Con solo 10 días hasta la Semana Santa, ahora sería un gran momento para dejar de lado ese esfuerzo y ponerlo en primer plano, permitiendo que Dios encienda tu relación con Él.
No seamos como los judíos a los que Jesús está condenando en el Evangelio de hoy. “¡Y ustedes no quieren venir a mí para tener vida!” ¡Qué día más trágico sería si dejáramos de caminar hacia Jesús! Aquel que ha “venido en nombre de [Su] Padre” nos está esperando con los brazos abiertos. Simplemente tenemos que abrir nuestros propios brazos y corazones también para recibirlo.
Así que, ya sea bromeando con Jesús sobre algo tan tonto como no meter algo a un bote de basura, o llorando con Él por la pérdida de un ser querido, te invito a llevar tu relación personal con Él un paso más allá. Que el resto de esta Cuaresma te encuentre regocijándote en la amistad cada vez más profunda que encuentras con el Salvador del mundo.
Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.
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