I confess that I struggle with a large ego. I want to be seen and acknowledged and validated. I simultaneously struggle with low self confidence. In this generation so many families fail due to prioritizing our individual needs above all else. Often unconsciously, we seek status and wealth, a common human flaw. We frequently seek more attention, particularly in what is supposed to be our safe haven, our own household.
In today’s Gospel, we get a glimpse into the heart of Joseph, the righteous and honorable man chosen to help raise the Son of God. We see his holiness, his desire to respect others, and his obedience to God.
St. Joseph, as a descendent of King David, you knew your identity. You knew your littleness but recognized that you were protected always in the arms of God. You understood that God is with us. Looking to you as an example, we can also have faith that we will prevail despite any earthly struggle. From family uncertainty to having to flee from your homeland, you trusted God with a steadfastness I hope to emulate. Faithful and virtuous, your commitment to others came before your own needs.
St. Joseph, patron saint of families, help me to be like you. Help me to be humble, to be at peace within my heart. Teach me that love is above all, sacrificing in order to place other’s needs before my own. Show me how to be meek, poor in spirit, a peacemaker – as your beloved Child taught – as this is true richness. Help me to be quiet, to reflect, to listen – not cry out – to be reflective rather than reactive. Create in me a spirit of contentment and soften my heart so that I can make room for my Lord Jesus to have a home.
Confieso que batallo con un ego enorme. Quiero ser vista, reconocida y validada. Al mismo tiempo, batallo con una baja autoestima. En esta generación, muchas familias fracasan por priorizar nuestras necesidades individuales por encima de todo. A menudo, inconscientemente, buscamos estatus y riqueza, un defecto humano común. Con frecuencia buscamos más atención, sobre todo en lo que se supone debería ser nuestro refugio: nuestro propio hogar.
En el Evangelio de hoy, vislumbramos el corazón de José, el hombre justo y honorable elegido para ayudar a criar al Hijo de Dios. Vemos su santidad, su deseo de respetar a los demás y su obediencia a Dios.
San José, como descendiente del rey David, conocías tu identidad. Conociste tu pequeñez, pero reconociste que siempre estabas protegido en los brazos de Dios. Entendiste que Dios está con nosotros. Mirándote como ejemplo, también podemos tener fe en que prevaleceremos a pesar de cualquier batalla terrenal. Desde la incertidumbre familiar hasta tener que huir de tu tierra natal, confiaste en Dios con una firmeza que espero emular. Fiel y virtuoso, tu compromiso con los demás antepuso tus propias necesidades.
San José, patrono de las familias, ayúdame a ser como tú. Ayúdame a ser humilde, a tener paz interior. Enséñame que el amor es, ante todo, sacrificarme para poner las necesidades de los demás ante las mías. Muéstrame cómo ser manso, pobre de espíritu, pacificador – como enseñó tu amado Hijo – pues esta es la verdadera riqueza. Ayúdame a estar en silencio, a reflexionar, a escuchar —no a reclamar— a ser reflexiva en lugar de reactiva. Crea en mí un espíritu de contentamiento y ablanda mi corazón para que pueda dar cabida a mi Señor Jesús.
Dr. Alexis Dallara-Marsh is a board-certified neurologist who practices in Bergen County, NJ. She is a wife to her best friend, Akeem, and a mother of four little ones on Earth and two others in heaven above.
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