We are created in the image and likeness of God, and the goal of life is to realize this image and likeness and act according to the truth of it. The first step is coming to some understanding of God Himself.
So, who and what is God? God is love. Not a sappy, superficial, social media kind of love, but a true, self-giving, self-sacrificing love that pours out everything for the good of the other. The more we open ourselves to this kind of love and the more we pour ourselves out for others, the more fulfilling our life will be. We must grow gradually into this true self that God created us to be.
How can we know we are growing in this love and living up to our high calling? It isn’t the size of our paycheck or calculated by the number of friends we have or the praises we receive from others; it isn’t gauged by the warmth of our sentiments or the intensity of our sacrifices or even the depth of our prayer. Jesus tells us that the way to identify the state of our hearts is by the way we treat others, especially those we consider enemies! We must be quick to give of our time, our talent, and our treasure even to those who are against us. We must be quick to act, to forgive, to excuse others and to speak well of them, and we must be slow to judge and condemn.
Why? Because that is the way to act as “children of the Most High, for he himself is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked.”
We cannot possibly do this on our own – our fallen nature has curled us in on ourselves and made us almost hopelessly selfward. But we are not on our own! God’s help is available to us for the asking, and empowers us to “be merciful, just as also your Father is merciful.” True mercy is love in the face of need, and does not consider whether the one to whom we give is “deserving,” because we cannot judge this! “Stop judging and you will not be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned.” Instead, forgive and give.
From whom do we withhold our love and forgiveness? Which places in our hearts do we feel the deepest need to guard and defend? How can we surrender those places to the light and fire of the Holy Spirit so that we are free at last to love others without holding back, even those who have hurt us in some way?
Today, on the Memorial of the Most Holy Name of Mary, let us ask her to intercede for us, so that our hearts might become more aligned with the merciful Heart of Jesus.
Somos creados a imagen y semejanza de Dios, y el objetivo de la vida es realizar esta imagen y semejanza y actuar de acuerdo con su verdad. El primer paso es llegar a cierta comprensión de Dios mismo.
Entonces, ¿quién y qué es Dios? Dios es amor. No un amor cursi, superficial y de las redes sociales, sino un amor verdadero, abnegado y sacrificado que lo da todo por el bien del otro. Cuanto más nos abrimos a este tipo de amor y cuanto más nos entregamos a los demás, más plena será nuestra vida. Debemos crecer gradualmente hacia este verdadero yo para el cual Dios nos creó.
¿Cómo podemos saber que estamos creciendo en este amor y cumpliendo con nuestro elevado llamamiento? No es el tamaño de nuestro sueldo ni se calcula por la cantidad de amigos que tenemos o los elogios que recibimos de los demás; no se mide por la calidez de nuestros sentimientos ni por la intensidad de nuestros sacrificios ni siquiera por la profundidad de nuestra oración. Jesús nos dice que la forma de identificar el estado de nuestro corazón es por la forma en que tratamos a los demás, ¡especialmente a aquellos que consideramos enemigos! Debemos ser rápidos en dar nuestro tiempo, nuestro talento y nuestro tesoro incluso a aquellos que están en contra de nosotros. Debemos ser rápidos para actuar, perdonar, disculpar a los demás y hablar bien de ellos, y debemos ser lentos para juzgar y condenar.
¿Por qué? Porque esa es la manera de actuar como “hijos del Altísimo, porque él es bueno hasta con los malos y los ingratos”.
No es posible hacer esto por nuestra propia cuenta: nuestra naturaleza caída nos ha encerrado en nosotros mismos y nos ha vuelto casi irremediablemente egoístas. ¡Pero no estamos solos! La ayuda de Dios está disponible para nosotros con solo pedirla y nos capacita para ser “misericordiosos, como su Padre es misericordioso”. La verdadera misericordia es amar ante la necesidad, y no considera si la otra persona lo “merece”, ¡porque no podemos juzgar esto! “No juzguen y no serán juzgados; no condenen y no serán condenados.” En cambio, perdona y da.
¿A quién negamos nuestro amor y perdón? ¿Qué lugares de nuestro corazón sentimos la más profunda necesidad de guardar y defender? ¿Cómo podemos entregar esos lugares a la luz y al fuego del Espíritu Santo para que por fin seamos libres de amar a los demás sin reprimirnos, incluso a aquellos que nos han herido de alguna forma?
Hoy, en la Memoria del Santísimo Nombre de María, pidámosle que interceda por nosotros, para que nuestros corazones estén más alineados con el Corazón misericordioso de Jesús.
Kathryn Mulderink, MA, is married to Robert, Station Manager for Holy Family Radio. Together they have seven children (including Father Rob), and eight grandchildren. She is President of the local community of Secular Discalced Carmelites and has published five books and many articles. Over the last 30 years, she has worked as a teacher, headmistress, catechist, Pastoral Associate, and DRE, and as a writer and voice talent for Catholic Radio. Currently, she serves the Church by writing and speaking, and by collaborating with various parishes and to lead others to encounter Christ and engage their faith. Her website is www.KathrynTherese.com
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