I find this Gospel comforting because it gives me permission to be persistent, which I sometimes fear is nagging. But Jesus is so clear that we should ask, we should seek, we should knock. And not only should we do these things but they are efficacious. They will work. There is great comfort in that when faced with a situation where the only thing we can do is pray.
When one of my friends was diagnosed with cancer and dying, the only thing I could do was pray. I couldn’t fix him. As much as I wished I could take his suffering, and that of his wife and children away, I was helpless. I prayed and prayed and worried that I was nagging but it was in that daily plea to Jesus that I found what I needed to watch someone I love die and not go to pieces myself.
My husband is a one-and-done guy. He has full faith that his prayer, offered once (or maybe twice) will be answered and is at peace with that. I am the type of person that needs to reiterate my prayer often but over time I’ve realized that is for my benefit not God’s. Being God, he already knows what we need. He doesn’t need me to bombard him with it. Being my Father, he allows and encourages me to ask again and again, to be the proverbial broken record, because in my desire to do in a situation where there is no doing to be done, I find solace in the prayer. I know that the prayer will be answered just as Jesus says in the Gospel.
“For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” (Luke 11:10)
In times of suffering and sadness, or even times of great joy and thanksgiving, I’m glad our God encourages persistence. I’m glad he’s ok with what could be framed as nagging. I’m also glad that we can trust that he will answer with goodness, not a scorpion.
Este Evangelio me consuela porque me da permiso de ser persistente, lo que a veces siento que molesta. Pero Jesús es tan claro que debemos pedir, debemos buscar, debemos llamar. Y no sólo debemos hacer estas cosas sino que son eficaces. Van a funcionar. Eso nos consuela bastante cuando nos enfrentamos con una situación en la que lo único que podemos hacer es rezar.
Cuando a uno de mis amigos le diagnosticaron cáncer y se estaba muriendo, lo único que podía hacer era rezar. No pude arreglarlo. Por mucho que deseara poder quitarle su sufrimiento y el de su esposa e hijos, era incapaz de hacerlo. Rezaba y rezaba y me preocupaba que estaba molestando, pero era en esa súplica diaria a Jesús que encontraba lo que necesitaba para ver morir a alguien que amaba y no deshacerme yo misma.
Mi esposo es el tipo de persona que pide una sola vez y eso le basta. Tiene plena fe en que su oración, ofrecida una sola vez (o tal vez dos veces), va a ser respondida y queda tranquilo. Mientras yo soy el tipo de persona que necesita reiterar mi oración con frecuencia, pero con el tiempo me he dado cuenta de que es para mi beneficio y no para el de Dios. Siendo Dios, ya sabe lo que necesitamos. No necesita que lo bombardee con eso. Siendo mi Padre, me permite y me alienta a pedir una y otra vez, a ser el disco rayado proverbial, porque cuando deseo hacer algo en una situación donde no hay nada que hacer, encuentro consuelo en la oración. Sé que la oración será contestada tal como dice Jesús en el Evangelio.
“Porque quien pide, recibe; quien busca, encuentra y al que toca, se le abre. ” (Lucas 11,10)
En tiempos de sufrimiento y tristeza, o incluso en tiempos de gran alegría y acción de gracias, me alegra que nuestro Dios nos motiva a ser perseverantes. Me alegro que esté de acuerdo con lo que podría llamarse una molestia. También me alegra que podamos confiar en que va a responder con bondad y no con un escorpión.
Merridith Frediani loves words and is delighted by good sentences. She also loves Lake Michigan, dahlias, the first sip of hot coffee in the morning, millennials, and playing Sheepshead with her husband and three kids. She writes for Catholic Mom, Diocesan.com, and her local Catholic Herald. Her first book Draw Close to Jesus: A Woman’s Guide to Adoration is available at Our Sunday Visitor and Amazon. You can learn more at merridithfrediani.com.
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