Social media is wonderful. We now have a convenient means to stay connected or reconnect with family and friends across the globe. We can be entertained, inspired, and informed instantly and in ways never before available or imagined. I love social media so much that I’ve made it my career, using the digital continent to spread the good news as the Director of Digital Evangelization for Family Rosary.
I see power and grace in new media; however, I’ve also witnessed and experienced the dangers to our souls inherent in a constant public display of ego and vice. “Vanity of vanities,” King Solomon writes in Ecclesiastes. Where goodness and beauty exist, there is also, thanks to our free will and fallen human nature, an opportunity to sin and the ugliness of pride, vanity, envy, greed, and the rest of the seven deadly sins plus their friends.
“What concern is it of yours? You follow me.” Jesus said to Peter as he pondered aloud what benefit or blessing John the Evangelist might receive from Jesus that he might not. Equivalent to that death scroll of our social media news feeds when we can, quite unconsciously, become fixated with the lives of all those other people—some we know well, some only virtually, and some not at all—and begin to ponder what’s to become of them. What blessing will they receive or enjoy that I won’t? We can get quickly wrapped in jealousy, envy, judgment, and even dismay and despair as we spiral deeper into comparison, which is the thief of all joy. We become over-concerned for the business of others, which is never healthy, and is quite different from the virtue of charity that is concerned with the well-being of the other.
Jesus’ cautionary words to Peter are as valid today as when they were spoken over 2,000 years ago. Don’t put your energy into worrying about your neighbor or your neighbor’s affairs. Instead, give that attention to growing yourself in holiness and righteousness. Follow Jesus, concern yourself with how Jesus conducts His life and interacts with others and how you might become more like Him. We should concern ourselves far more with what His life is to us and how we can take it up and follow Him, not getting distracted by the lives of the people around us. We should hope for the utmost good for them and not worry about what we will be missing out on, knowing that God has an equal good for us in some other way.
Consider the great treasure that Jesus, after His Resurrection, would offer St. Peter. Peter was handed the keys to the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 16:18-19)—that’s a pretty astounding honor. What glorious treasures and honors await each of us who heed Jesus’ lesson to fixate less on the accolades and achievements of others and focus more on following Him who bestows them all.
Las redes sociales son maravillosas. Ahora tenemos un medio conveniente para mantenernos conectados o reconectarnos con familiares y amigos por todo el mundo. Podemos entretenernos, inspirarnos e informarnos al instante y de maneras que nunca antes estaban disponibles o imaginadas. Me encantan tanto las redes sociales que las he convertido en mi carrera, utilizando el continente digital para difundir las buenas noticias como Directora de Evangelización Digital para Family Rosary.
Veo poder y gracia en los nuevos medios de comunicación; sin embargo, también he presenciado y experimentado los peligros para nuestras almas con una constante exhibición pública de ego y vicio. “Vanidad de vanidades”, escribe el rey Salomón en Eclesiastés. Donde existe la bondad y la belleza, también hay, gracias al libre albedrío y a la naturaleza humana caída, una oportunidad para el pecado y la fealdad del orgullo, la vanidad, la envidia, la avaricia y el resto de los siete pecados capitales más sus amigos.
“¿A ti qué? Tú sígueme”. Jesús le dijo a Pedro mientras reflexionaba en voz alta sobre qué beneficio o bendición podría recibir Juan el Evangelista de Jesús que no recibiría él. Equivale a ese scroll fatal que hacemos en las redes sociales cuando, inconscientemente, nos obsesionamos con las vidas de todas esas otras personas (algunas que conocemos bien, otras que solo conocemos virtualmente y otras que ni las conocemos) y comenzamos a reflexionar sobre qué será de ellas. ¿Qué bendición recibirán o disfrutarán ellas que yo no? Podemos vernos rápidamente envueltos en celos, envidia, juicio e incluso consternación y desesperación a medida que nos hundimos más en la comparación, que es la ladrona de toda alegría. Nos preocupamos demasiado por los asuntos de los demás, lo cual nunca es saludable y es muy diferente de la virtud de la caridad que se preocupa por el bienestar del otro.
Las palabras de advertencia de Jesús a Pedro son tan válidas hoy como fueron hace más de 2000 años. No pongas tu energía en preocuparte por el prójimo ni los asuntos del prójimo. En cambio, dedica esa atención a crecer en la santidad y la virtud. Sigue a Jesús, preocúpate por cómo Jesús conduce su vida e interactúa con los demás y cómo puedes llegar a ser más como Él. Deberíamos preocuparnos mucho más por lo que Su vida es para nosotros y cómo podemos asumirla y seguirlo, sin distraernos con las vidas de las personas que nos rodean. Deberíamos esperar el mayor bien para ellos y no preocuparnos por lo que nos perderemos, sabiendo que Dios tiene un bien igual para nosotros de alguna otra forma.
Considera el gran tesoro que Jesús, después de Su resurrección, ofrecería a San Pedro. A Pedro se le entregaron las llaves del reino de los cielos (Mateo 16,18-19), ese es un honor bastante asombroso. ¡Qué gloriosos tesoros y honores nos esperan a cada uno de nosotros que prestamos atención a la lección de Jesús de fijarnos menos en los elogios y logros de los demás y concentrarnos más en seguir a Aquel que los otorga todos!
Allison Gingras (www.ReconciledToYou.com ) shares an everyday Catholic faith with humor and honesty. Her writing includes The Handy Little Guide to Novenas (OSV), Encountering Signs of Faith (Ave Maria Press), and the Stay Connected Journals for Catholic Women (Our Sunday Visitor), with a new edition “Jesus Heals,” coming in 2025. Allison is the Director of Digital Evangelization for Family Rosary USA.Feature Image Credit: Wal_172619, pixabay.com/photos/victory-wreath-oak-leaves-wreath-5128769/
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