The joyful season of Easter is upon us! The weather is warmer, the flowers are blooming and soccer season is in full swing. Oh, and Jesus, the Savior of the world who suffered and died for us rose from the dead. Oh yeah, that too…
Does it ever feel like life just swallows you up sometimes? Like the liturgical celebrations, saints feast days and holy days become an afterthought? If so, I know that feeling, and I can’t say that I like it.
We hear it said over and over all around us. “I’m just sooo busy.” “I have sooo much going on right now.” “I’m just barely keeping my head above water.” Yet often we see this busyness as some sort of status symbol. The more I “do”, the better I am. The more extracurriculars my kids are involved in, the better mom I am. The more I run myself ragged to please my husband, the better wife I am. But is that really what it’s all about??
I constantly struggle with this internal battle between “doing” and “being”. My daughter wants me to relax and watch cartoons with her, but I have to fold laundry. My son wants me to play ping pong with him, but I have to bake a dessert. My husband wants me to sit down next to him for a bit but I have to make lesson plans…
Now granted, there are things that just have to get done, but how often do we just stop and let ourselves be? How often do we find that internal silence to simply enjoy an intimate moment in front of the fire with our husband, a tickle attack with our little ones, or a profound conversation with our teens? There are very few things on our to-do list that are truly urgent, yet deepening our relationships is. Every moment with our loved ones is a gift, one we often fail to open.
In today’s Gospel Jesus says: “What is born of flesh is flesh and what is born of spirit is spirit…You must be born from above.” What a great reminder to us of what is truly important! The things of the flesh will wither and fade (including our to-do list). The things of the spirit are eternal. Our hearts must be transformed by the One above so that our souls long to live a life of love.
I invite you during the rest of this Easter season to choose a time each day to just be. Bask in the presence of your loved ones. Bask in the silence. Bask in God’s loving presence.
¡Ya ha llegado la alegre temporada de Pascua! El clima es más cálido, las flores están brotando y la temporada de soccer está en pleno apogeo. Ah, y Jesús, el Salvador del mundo que sufrió y murió por nosotros, resucitó de entre los muertos. Ah, sí, eso también…
¿Alguna vez sientes que la vida te consume? ¿Como si las celebraciones litúrgicas, los días festivos y los días sagrados se convirtieran en una ocurrencia de último momento? Si es así, conozco esa sensación y no puedo decir que me guste.
Escuchamos eso una y otra vez a nuestro alrededor. “Estoy taaaan ocupada”. “Tengo tantas cosas que hacer en este momento”. “Apenas puedo mantenerme a flote”. Sin embargo, a menudo podemos verlo como una especie de estatus. Cuanto más “hago”, mejor soy. Cuanto más actividades extracurriculares realizan mis hijos, mejor madre soy. Cuanto más me esfuerzo por complacer a mi esposo, mejor esposa soy. Pero, ¿de eso realmente se trata?
Lucho constantemente con esta batalla interna entre “hacer” y “ser”. Mi hija quiere que me relaje y vea caricaturas con ella, pero tengo que doblar la ropa. Mi hijo quiere que juegue al ping pong con él, pero tengo que preparar un postre. Mi esposo quiere que me siente a su lado un rato, pero tengo que preparar el curriculum para las clases…
Ahora bien, es cierto que hay cosas que simplemente hay que hacer, pero ¿con qué frecuencia nos detenemos para simplemente estar quietos? ¿Con qué frecuencia encontramos ese silencio interno para simplemente disfrutar de un momento íntimo frente al fuego con nuestro esposo, un ataque de cosquillas con nuestros pequeños o una conversación profunda con nuestros adolescentes? Hay muy pocas cosas en nuestra lista de cosas por hacer que sean realmente urgentes, pero profundizar las relaciones interpersonales sí lo es. Cada momento con nuestros seres queridos es un regalo, uno que a menudo no llegamos a abrir.
En el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús dice: “Lo que nace de la carne, es carne; lo que nace del Espíritu, es espíritu…Tienen que renacer de lo alto”. ¡Qué gran recordatorio para nosotros de lo que es verdaderamente importante! Las cosas de la carne se marchitarán y se desvanecerán (incluida nuestra lista de cosas por hacer). Las cosas del espíritu son eternas. Nuestros corazones deben ser transformados por Aquel que está arriba para que nuestras almas anhelen vivir una vida de amor.
Te invito a que durante el resto de esta temporada de Pascua elijas un momento cada día para simplemente estar quieto. Disfruta de la presencia de tus seres queridos. Disfruta del silencio. Disfruta de la presencia amorosa de Dios.
Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.
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