I have really been drawn to the lives of the saints lately. It amazes me how much they were willing to suffer and offer up that suffering, but even more so, how they were able to use their suffering as a way to unite themselves to Christ.
I don’t pretend to suffer nearly as much as many others do, but one day I had a pretty bad headache. It was making me cranky and I stepped into our home office for a quiet moment of prayer. As I closed my eyes, I asked Jesus to unite me to Him through that small suffering. For a split second, I envisioned my head as Jesus’ head, covered with the crown of thorns, dripping with blood. I realized then and there how small my headache really was.
Suffering is a funny thing. It can make us so unhappy, downright miserable at times, yet there is a whole other dimension to it. When I was a kid, my parents often told me to “offer it up”, when I grumbled about this, that or the other thing. At the time, it seemed like a flippant way to get me off their back. But as an adult, I see the real merit in offering up our hardships for a special intention. Suffering in and of itself is torture, but united with Christ, becomes a means of sanctification. Afterall, it was through His suffering that the gates of Heaven were opened to us once again.
Today we celebrate the Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul. Both of these great Apostles suffered tremendously for their faith, yet chose consistently and persistently to follow the Lord. Peter suffered persecution, imprisonment, temptation and ultimately death by crucifixion, which the Lord foretells in the Gospel: “Amen, amen, I say to you, when you were younger, you used to dress yourself and go where you wanted; but when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go.” But perhaps the greatest pain he endured was the guilt from denying our Lord. Paul suffered beatings, imprisonment, shipwrecks and illness as well as the emotional pain of mockery and false accusations. But perhaps the greatest pain he endured was the guilt from persecuting so many Christians before his conversion.
These two great men both teach us the same thing. God can transform suffering and use it for His glory. The whole of Christianity was built upon the courageous endurance of these and so many others who literally gave their lives to spread the Gospel. Their chains have allowed us to know true freedom in Christ. The shedding of their blood has shown us what it means to truly live. Their sufferings, endured with patience and love, teach us how to suffer gracefully.
So the next time you get a headache, remember all those saints who have gone before you, and unite your sufferings to the One who has suffered so greatly out of love for you.
Últimamente me ha llamado mucho la atención la vida de los santos. Me sorprende lo mucho que estaban dispuestos a sufrir y ofrecer ese sufrimiento, pero aún más, cómo eran capaces de utilizar su sufrimiento como una forma de unirse a Cristo.
No pretendo sufrir tanto como muchos otros, pero un día tuve un fuerte dolor de cabeza. Me estaba poniendo de mal humor y entré a la oficina de nuestra casa para un momento de oración en silencio. Mientras cerraba los ojos, le pedí a Jesús que me uniera a Él a través de ese pequeño sufrimiento. Por un segundito, imaginé mi cabeza como la cabeza de Jesús, cubierta con la corona de espinas, goteando sangre. En ese momento me di cuenta de lo verdaderamente pequeño que era mi dolor de cabeza.
El sufrimiento es algo curioso. Puede hacernos muy infelices, absolutamente miserables a veces, pero tiene otra dimensión por completo. Cuando era niña, mis padres me decían con frecuencia que lo “ofreciera a Dios”, cuando me quejaba de esto, aquello o lo otro. En ese entonces, me pareció una forma superficial de que dejara de quejarles. Pero ahora que soy grande, veo el verdadero mérito de ofrecer las dificultades por una intención especial. El sufrimiento en sí mismo es una tortura, pero unido a Cristo, se convierte en un medio de santificación. Después de todo, fue a través de su sufrimiento que las puertas del Cielo se abrieron para nosotros de nuevo.
Hoy celebramos la solemnidad de San Pedro y San Pablo. Ambos grandes apóstoles sufrieron tremendamente por su fe, pero eligieron seguir al Señor de manera constante y persistente. Pedro sufrió persecución, prisión, tentación y, finalmente, muerte por crucifixión, lo cual el Señor predice en el Evangelio: “Yo te aseguro: cuando eras joven, tú mismo te ceñías la ropa e ibas a donde querías; pero cuando seas viejo, extenderás los brazos y otro te ceñirá y te llevará a donde no quieras”. Pero tal vez el mayor dolor que soportó fue la culpa por negar a nuestro Señor. Pablo sufrió palizas, encarcelamiento, naufragios y enfermedades, así como el dolor emocional de las burlas y las acusaciones falsas. Pero quizás el mayor dolor que soportó fue la culpa por haber perseguido a tantos cristianos antes de su conversión.
Estos dos grandes hombres nos enseñan lo mismo: Dios puede transformar el sufrimiento y utilizarlo para Su gloria. Todo el cristianismo se construyó sobre la valiente resistencia de estos y tantos otros que literalmente dieron su vida para difundir el Evangelio. Sus cadenas nos han permitido conocer la verdadera libertad en Cristo. El derramamiento de su sangre nos ha mostrado lo que significa verdaderamente vivir. Sus sufrimientos, soportados con paciencia y amor, nos enseñan a sufrir con gracia.
Así que la próxima vez que te duela la cabeza, recuerda a todos los santos que te han precedido y une tus sufrimientos a Aquel que ha sufrido tanto por amor a ti.
Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.
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