John tells us in today’s Gospel that the long-awaited Christ would baptize not only with water but also with fire. Some of us may have been baptized as infants, some as adults, and while we have fresh, living water poured over us, no one talks about the fire that inevitably comes, testing our spirits and our faith.
“[W]ith you I am well pleased.” What lovely words that our hearts long to hear, whether from parents, spouses, teachers or friends, our humanity craves affirmation, which often leads us to look for it in unreliable things. Some of us do find this affirmation in the places we search for it: money, successful careers, likes on social media, until we need so much that nothing will ever be enough. Like inching closer and closer to a cliff without ropes to catch us, a fall will come. A parent might pass away, a child could stop speaking to us, a friend could betray us, and the people we so often rely on for affirmation become the sparks of our trials by fire.
These flames of purification can seem unending, unbearable, and cause our hearts to question: how can this be the “love” Christ wants for my life? We see other Christians who pick and choose what they stand for, who only embrace their baptismal vows when it is most convenient and comfortable, and who never survive their personal trek through the desert.
However, for those who cling to Christ, through the fire, through the questions, through the struggles of detachment from worldly goods, and fulfill our baptismal vows, there is a life-saving and refreshing river, where Christ waits for us with words that only fulfill our hearts when they are spoken from His mouth: “You are my beloved…with you I am well pleased.”
Juan nos dice en el Evangelio de hoy que el Cristo tan esperado no solo bautizaría con agua sino también con fuego. Algunos de nosotros tal vez hayamos sido bautizados cuando éramos bebés, otros cuando ya éramos adultos, y aunque recibimos agua fresca y viva, nadie habla del fuego que inevitablemente llega y pone a prueba nuestro espíritu y nuestra fe.
“[E]n ti me complazco”. Qué hermosas palabras, y unas que nuestro corazón anhela escuchar, ya sea de nuestros padres, esposos, maestros o amigos. Nuestra humanidad anhela la afirmación, lo que a menudo nos lleva a buscarla en cosas poco confiables. Algunos de nosotros encontramos la afirmación en los lugares donde la buscamos: dinero, carreras exitosas, los “likes” en las redes sociales, hasta que necesitamos tanto que nada será suficiente. Es como si nos acercáramos cada vez más a un precipicio sin cuerdas para detenernos, en algún momento vamos a caer. Un padre puede morir, un hijo puede dejar de hablarnos, un amigo puede traicionarnos y las personas en las que tan frecuentemente confiamos para recibir afirmación se convierten en las chispas de nuestras pruebas de fuego.
Estas llamas de purificación pueden parecer interminables, insoportables y hacer que nuestro corazón se pregunte: ¿cómo puede ser este el “amor” que Cristo quiere para mi vida? Vemos a otros cristianos que eligen lo que defienden y que no, que solo viven sus promesas bautismales cuando les resulta más conveniente y cómodo, que al final no sobreviven a su caminata personal por el desierto.
Sin embargo, para aquellos que se aferran a Cristo, a través del fuego, a través de las preguntas, a través de las luchas del desapego de los bienes mundanos, y cumplen con sus votos bautismales, hay un río que salva vidas y nos refresca, donde Cristo nos espera con palabras que solo llenan nuestro corazón cuando salen de Su boca: “Tú eres mi Hijo, el predilecto; en ti me complazco”.
Lily, age 23, is a Michigan native and cradle Catholic who has spent most of her life exploring her own reasons to embrace her faith fully. She attended Franciscan University of Steubenville, where she discovered the beauty of her personal relationship with Christ and the Church. After college, she worked in Montessori Education for three years and recently transitioned to nannying. She is excitedly preparing for marriage in May 2025 and spends most of her time reading, wedding planning, and enjoying her dog and family!
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