Each of the women in today’s Gospel would have had every reason to be preoccupied with her own situation; both are unexpectedly pregnant under extraordinary circumstances. Despite that, each of these women show remarkable selflessness and focus on the other’s condition.
It would have been perfectly reasonable for Mary to have wanted to stay put and figure out what she was going to do now that she was miraculously pregnant. She may have even been dealing with some of the discomforts of the first trimester of pregnancy. Nevertheless, she sets out “with haste” to help Elizabeth and share in her joy.
Elizabeth, after years of the disappointment of infertility, would naturally be eager to tell the good news of the blessing of her long-awaited pregnancy to anyone she meets. I know my own personal struggles with infertility made me eager to announce my pregnancies, when they did finally happen. Yet the first thing Elizabeth says when she hears Mary’s greeting is “blessed are you!”
Especially this time of year, I know it can be easy for us to get caught up in our own circumstances, joyous or otherwise. Let us remember Mary and Elizabeth’s examples to us, and keep our eyes open to the circumstances of those around us.
Las dos mujeres en el Evangelio de hoy habrían tenido muchas razones para estar preocupadas por su propia situación; ambas se encontraban inesperadamente embarazadas en circunstancias extraordinarias. A pesar de eso, cada una de estas mujeres muestra un desinterés notable y se enfoca en la condición del otro.
Habría sido perfectamente razonable que María hubiera querido quedarse quieta y averiguar qué iba a hacer ahora que estaba milagrosamente embarazada. Es posible que incluso haya estado lidiando con algunas de las molestias del primer trimestre del embarazo. Sin embargo, salió “presurosa” para ayudar a Isabel y compartir su alegría.
Isabel, después de sufrir muchos años de infertilidad, naturalmente estaría ansiosa por contar las buenas noticias de la bendición de su tan esperado embarazo a cualquiera que conozca. Sé que mis propias batallas personales con la infertilidad me pusieron ansiosa por anunciar mis embarazos, cuando finalmente ocurrieron. Sin embargo, lo primero que dice Isabel cuando escucha el saludo de María es “¡bendita tú!”
Especialmente en esta época del año, sé que puede ser fácil quedarnos atrapados en nuestras propias circunstancias, gozosas o no. Recordemos los buenos ejemplos de María e Isabel y mantengamos los ojos abiertos a las circunstancias de quienes nos rodean.
J.M. Pallas has had a lifelong love of Scriptures. When she is not busy with her vocation as a wife and mother to her “1 Samuel 1” son, or her vocation as a public health educator, you may find her at her parish women’s bible study, affectionately known as “The Bible Chicks.”
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Christine Hanus currently lives in Upstate, NY. Though she enjoys writing and her work as a catechist, Christine is primarily a wife, mother, and more recently, grandmother!

Mike Karpus is a regular guy. He grew up in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula, graduated from Michigan State University and works as an editor. He is married to a Catholic school principal, raised two daughters who became Catholic school teachers at points in their careers, and now relishes his two grandchildren, including the older one who is fascinated with learning about his faith. He also has served on a Catholic school board, a pastoral council and a parish stewardship committee. He currently is a lector at Mass, a Knight of Columbus, Adult Faith Formation Committee member and a board member of the local Habitat for Humanity organization. But mostly he’s a regular guy.

Kathryn Mulderink, MA, is married to Robert, Station Manager for Holy Family Radio. Together they have seven children (including Father Rob), and seven grandchildren. She is President of the local community of Secular Discalced Carmelites and has published five books and many articles. Over the last 30 years, she has worked as a teacher, headmistress, catechist, Pastoral Associate, and DRE, and as a writer and voice talent for Catholic Radio. Currently, she serves the Church by writing and speaking, and by collaborating with various parishes and to lead others to encounter Christ and engage their faith. Her website is
Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at
Tami Urcia grew up in Western Michigan, a middle child in a large Catholic family. She spent early young adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves tackling projects, finding fun ways to keep her little ones occupied, quiet conversation with the hubby and finding unique ways to love. She works full time, is a guest blogger on
Emily Jaminet is a Catholic author, speaker, radio personality, wife, and mother of seven children. She earned a bachelor’s degree in mental health and human services from the Franciscan University of Steubenville. She is the co-founder of

Elizabeth Tomlin is the author of Joyful Momentum: Building and Sustaining Vibrant Women’s Groups and contributing author to the Ave Prayer Book for Catholic Mothers. She is General Counsel for the Archdiocese for the Military Services, USA. Elizabeth is an Army wife and mother of three and currently lives in the DC area. She blogs at 





