It’s hard to believe, but summer is winding down already. It seems like just yesterday that the snow was finally behind us and my kids were actually ASKING to go outside, instead of us telling them to. It was as if the higher temperatures and sunshine beckoned us out to take part in it, to receive the warmth of God’s love in the beauty of nature.
But by now we may be on the opposite end of the spectrum. Tired of being hot and sweaty. Tired of the lack of a more structured schedule. Tired of trying to entertain our kids in order to avoid that oh-so-frequent complaint of “I’m booored!” Tired of paying the elevated electric bill. Tired of being tired.
Or maybe we are feeling a sense of sadness for all the opposite reasons. Maybe we don’t want the summer to end. Maybe we love the heat. Maybe we have a pool or live on a lake and are able to enjoy the short summer months to the fullest. Maybe we feel more fully alive from all the extra Vitamin D.
Yet, whether we are feeling relieved or a little depressed, we are able to understand that this, like many things in life, is a season. A season that is only for a time, one that will transform and change into another season, much like the leaves change on the trees. And each of these seasons offer us an opportunity to lean into all the graces they offer. They offer us the opportunity for personal growth and growth in our personal relationship with God.
Lately, I have been trying to teach my kids to be grateful. Not to ask me for more and more, or to complain about what they want, but to simply be grateful for all that they have. I would encourage you to do the same during this time of changing seasons. Let us exclaim with the Psalmist: “I will give thanks to you, O LORD, with all my heart, for you have heard the words of my mouth; in the presence of the angels I will sing your praise; I will worship at your holy temple. I will give thanks to your name, because of your kindness and your truth: When I called, you answered me; you built up strength within me.”
And once our mindset has transformed into an attitude of gratitude, we can spontaneously proclaim like St. Paul in our second reading: “Oh, the depth of the riches and wisdom and knowledge of God!”
Es difícil de creer, pero el verano ya está llegando a su fin. Parece que fue ayer cuando finalmente dejamos atrás la nieve y mis hijos PEDÍAN salir a jugar afuera en lugar de que nosotros les dijéramos que lo hicieran. Fue como si las altas temperaturas y la luz del sol nos invitaran a participar, a recibir el calor del amor de Dios en la belleza de la naturaleza.
Pero ahora podemos estar en el extremo opuesto del espectro. Cansados de estar caliente y sudoroso. Cansados de la falta de un horario más estructurado. Cansados de tratar de entretener a nuestros hijos para evitar esa queja tan frecuente de “¡Estoy aburriiiido!” Cansados de pagar la factura eléctrica elevada. Cansados de estar cansados.
O tal vez estamos sintiendo una sensación de tristeza por todas las razones opuestas. Tal vez no queremos que termine el verano. Tal vez nos encanta el calor. Tal vez tengamos una piscina o vivamos al borde de un lago y podamos disfrutar al máximo de los cortos meses de verano. Tal vez nos sentimos más vivos con toda la vitamina D adicional.
Sin embargo, ya sea que nos sintamos aliviados o un poco deprimidos, podemos entender que esto, como muchas cosas en la vida, es una temporada. Una estación que es solo por un tiempo, una que se transformará y cambiará en otra estación, al igual que las hojas cambian en los árboles. Y cada una de estas estaciones nos ofrece la oportunidad de apoyarnos en todas las gracias que ofrecen. Nos ofrecen la oportunidad de crecimiento personal y crecimiento en nuestra relación personal con Dios.
Últimamente, he estado tratando de enseñar a mis hijos a ser más agradecidos. Para dejar de pedirme más y más, y dejar de quejarse de lo que quieren, y simplemente ser agradecidos de todo lo que sí tienen. Les animo a que hagan lo mismo durante este tiempo de cambio de estaciones. Exclamemos con el salmista: “De todo corazón te damos gracias, Señor, porque escuchaste nuestros ruegos. Te cantaremos delante de tus ángeles, te adoraremos en tu templo. Señor, te demos gracias por tu lealtad y por tu amor; siempre que te invocamos, nos oíste y nos llenaste de valor.”
Y una vez que nuestra mentalidad se haya transformado en una actitud de gratitud, podemos proclamar espontáneamente como San Pablo en nuestra segunda lectura: “¡Qué inmensa y rica es la sabiduría y la ciencia de Dios!”
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Tami Urcia grew up in Western Michigan, a middle child in a large Catholic family. She spent early young adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves tackling projects, finding fun ways to keep her little ones occupied, quiet conversation with the hubby and finding unique ways to love. She works full time, is a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net, and has been doing Spanish translations on the side for over 20 years.


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