This is one of those Gospel passages that can be intimidating to write reflections about because so much has been said already. A popular passage, especially for women, this Gospel story provides a quick sketch of how we ought to prioritize our time.
As I was reflecting on this reading, I was reminded of a podcast I listened to last year which was talking about a completely different topic, but this phrase stood out at the time and I’ve continued to ponder it: “If it’s raining, put down the bucket.” The story went like this: We are gardeners, working to tend to the garden of our lives. There is a lot of work to do, and one of the primary things needed is water. We can’t control the sunlight, but we can fill a bucket and bring it to our tender sprouts. But, if we get so wrapped up in filling our bucket and carting the water back and forth, we might not even notice when the mist starts to fall. As a gardener, there is nothing more to do at that moment; the rain has come. It is time for stillness. Put down the bucket and let the rain fall.
Applying these thoughts to our reading, Martha was a diligent gardener as she tended to her guests. She was so focused on the proverbial bucket, she neglected to notice the sustenance present.
I like this way of thinking of this story, because it acknowledges that work is good and necessary. If the gardener left the plants to their own devices, there is the risk the garden would fail. If we leave our spiritual lives to wander or lay fallow, we won’t progress far. We have work to do when it comes to study, prayer, service. However, we cannot forget that God is the master, and there will be times in our lives when we are asked to be still, to wait, to simply be in His presence. He will bring the rain needed to sustain this period.
But how can we know when to be still and when to work? Ecclesiastes tells us there is a time for everything, for work and rest, for laughter and sorrow. What is this moment for – is it for listening with my full attention to my child, or to ask them to wait while I finish preparing dinner so our family can eat on time. Is it to stay late at work because a colleague is in need, or to go home at my usual time to see my family.
None of these are easy questions and either answer could be correct. It takes prayer and practice to discern God’s will. Martha was doing good work. She was serving her guests, attending to their needs and caring for their physical wellbeing. But in that moment, Mary discerned the better choice by putting down her “bucket”, being still, and listening to Jesus’ every word.
Este es uno de esos pasajes del Evangelio sobre los que puede resultar intimidante escribir reflexiones porque ya se ha dicho mucho sobre ello. Este pasaje popular, especialmente entre las mujeres, ofrece un esquema rápido de cómo debemos priorizar nuestro tiempo.
Mientras reflexionaba sobre esta lectura, me acordé de un podcast que escuché el año pasado que hablaba de un tema completamente diferente, pero esta frase me llamó la atención en ese momento y he seguido reflexionando sobre ella: “Si está lloviendo, deja la cubeta en el suelo”. La historia era así: Somos jardineros, trabajamos para cuidar el jardín de nuestras vidas. Hay mucho trabajo por hacer, y una de las cosas principales que necesitamos es agua. No podemos controlar la luz del sol, pero podemos llenar una cubeta y llevarlo a nuestros tiernos brotes. Pero, si nos concentramos tanto en llenar la cubeta y llevar el agua de un lado a otro, es posible que ni siquiera nos demos cuenta de que comienza a caer la lluvia. Como jardineros, no hay nada más que hacer en ese momento; ha llegado la lluvia. Es tiempo de quietud. Dejemos la cubeta y dejamos que llueva.
Aplicando estos pensamientos a la lectura de hoy, Marta era una jardinera diligente mientras atendía a sus invitados. Estaba tan concentrada en la cubeta proverbial que descuidó notar el sustento presente.
Me gusta esta manera de pensar en esta historia, porque reconoce que el trabajo es bueno y necesario. Si el jardinero deja que las plantas se las arreglen solas, existe el riesgo de que el jardín fracase. Si dejamos que nuestra vida espiritual vague o quede en barbecho, no progresaremos mucho. Tenemos trabajo que hacer en lo que respecta al estudio, la oración y el servicio. Sin embargo, no podemos olvidar que Dios es el amo, y habrá momentos en nuestras vidas en los que se nos pedirá que estemos quietos, que esperemos, que simplemente estemos en Su presencia. Él traerá la lluvia necesaria para sostener este período.
Pero, ¿cómo podemos saber cuándo estar quietos y cuándo trabajar? Eclesiastés nos dice que hay un tiempo para todo, para el trabajo y el descanso, para la risa y la tristeza. ¿Para qué sirve este momento en particular? ¿Para escuchar con toda mi atención a mi hijo o para pedirle que espere mientras termino de preparar la cena para que nuestra familia pueda comer a tiempo? ¿Para quedarme hasta tarde en el trabajo porque un colega está en necesidad o para ir a casa a mi hora habitual para ver a mi familia?
Ninguna de estas son preguntas fáciles y cualquiera de las dos respuestas podría ser correcta. Se necesita oración y práctica para discernir la voluntad de Dios. Marta estaba haciendo un buen trabajo. Estaba sirviendo a sus invitados, atendiendo sus necesidades y cuidando su bienestar físico. Pero en ese momento, María discernió la mejor opción al dejar su “cubeta”, quedarse quieta y escuchar cada palabra de Jesús.
Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife and mother. She is blessed to be able to homeschool, bake bread and fold endless piles of laundry. When not planning a school day, writing a blog post or cooking pasta, Kate can be found curled up with a book or working with some kind of fiber craft. Kate blogs at DailyGraces.net.
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