What do I pray about and what does that say about me?
If you do a quick search of Bible commentaries, the consensus is that Jesus’ message for us in today’s parable is to be persistent in prayer. “Ask and you shall receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened.” We are to ask and keep on asking. We are to seek and keep on seeking. We are to knock and keep on knocking.
When our child or a loved one is sick, we find it easy to pray without ceasing. When we are in financial trouble or want a new job, we beg God for guidance and support. There is nothing wrong with praying in this way. God wants to be intimately acquainted with us, with the ups and downs, and ins and outs of our daily lives. But we are not simply physical beings who happen to have a soul. What does it say about us if most of our prayers are concerned with our physical well-being and often leave out our spiritual life?
Do we repeatedly and persistently ask God to bring us closer to Him? Do we seek determinedly to follow the whispering of the Holy Spirit? Do we pray without ceasing for the spiritual growth of others?
Jesus tells us to ask, seek and knock. Is he simply being redundant? In asking, we humbly present ourselves to God and request his action. In seeking, we ask, but we also act. In knocking, we act, but we also persevere. We are told to do all three! Are we? Taking time to reflect on our prayer life can be good for us, body and soul. Are we including all aspects of our life in prayer? Are we following up our prayer with action such as study and service? Are we persevering in our actions?
We ask God for wisdom and then we study the Bible and the Saints to plant the seeds of wisdom in our minds and hearts. We ask God to be close to us and then we spend time in prayer and quiet to give Him space to act within us. We ask God to help those we know to grow in faith and then we act in faith to grow alongside them.
Dear Jesus, please guide us this day and all our days. May we entrust all aspects of our lives to You and then have the courage to take our prayers and put them into action, modeled after you. May we never tire of asking, seeking and knocking so that we may serve you by serving those around us. Amen.
¿Sobre qué rezo y qué dice eso de mí?
Si hacemos una búsqueda rápida de comentarios bíblicos, el consenso es que el mensaje que Jesús nos da en la parábola de hoy es que debemos ser persistentes en la oración. “Pidan y se les dará, busquen y encontrarán, toquen y se les abrirá. Porque quien pide, recibe; quien busca, encuentra y al que toca, se le abre.” Debemos pedir y seguir pidiendo. Debemos buscar y seguir buscando. Debemos tocar y seguir tocando.
Cuando nuestro hijo o un ser querido está enfermo, nos resulta fácil orar sin cesar. Cuando tenemos problemas económicos o queremos un nuevo trabajo, le rogamos a Dios que nos guíe y nos apoye. No hay nada de malo en orar de esta forma. Dios quiere conocernos íntimamente, con los altibajos y los entresijos de nuestra vida diaria. Pero no somos simplemente seres físicos que tienen alma. ¿Qué dice de nosotros si la mayoría de nuestras oraciones se refieren a nuestro bienestar físico y a menudo dejan de lado nuestra vida espiritual?
¿Le pedimos a Dios repetida y persistentemente que nos acerque a Él? ¿Buscamos con determinación seguir el susurro del Espíritu Santo? ¿Rezamos sin cesar por el crecimiento espiritual de los demás?
Jesús nos dice que pidamos, busquemos y tocamos. ¿Está siendo simplemente redundante? Al pedir, nos presentamos humildemente a Dios y solicitamos su acción. Al buscar, pedimos, pero también actuamos. Al tocar, actuamos, pero también perseveramos. ¡Se nos dice que hagamos las tres cosas! ¿Lo hacemos? Tomarnos un tiempo para reflexionar sobre nuestra vida de oración puede ser bueno para nosotros, cuerpo y alma. ¿Estamos incluyendo todos los aspectos de nuestra vida en la oración? ¿Estamos siguiendo nuestra oración con acciones como el estudio y el servicio? ¿Estamos perseverando en nuestras acciones?
Pedimos sabiduría a Dios y luego estudiamos la Biblia y los Santos para plantar las semillas de la sabiduría en nuestras mentes y corazones. Pedimos a Dios que esté cerca de nosotros y luego pasamos tiempo en oración y silencio para darle espacio para actuar dentro de nosotros. Pedimos a Dios que ayude a quienes conocemos a crecer en la fe y luego actuamos en fe para crecer junto con ellos.
Querido Jesús, guíanos hoy y todos los días. Haz que te confiemos todos los aspectos de nuestra vida y que tengamos el valor de tomar nuestras oraciones y ponerlas en práctica, siguiendo tu ejemplo. Haz que nunca nos cansemos de pedir, buscar y tocar a tu puerta para que podamos servirte sirviendo a quienes nos rodean. Amén.
Sheryl’s first calling is to be wife and partner to Tom, who is a Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Kalamazoo. She also gets to live out her passion for teaching and learning by serving as a teaching principal at St. Therese Catholic School in Wayland, Michigan. Home is full with Carlyn, our goofy golden retriever, Lucy, our terrier mix wild child, and Mila, our rescue Bernese Mountain dog whose happy bouncing and wagging tail reminds us to find joy in every moment of every day.
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