As a parent of six children, having catch phrases that can immediately clue my kids into modifying their behavior has been critical to my sanity. Some examples are, “The giver chooses when to share,” “It’s my turn to be speaking right now,” and “Celia’s eating blackberries.” I imagine you can infer what might have been happening which caused me to use the first two phrases, but that last one is a bit trickier.
There is a children’s book that our family has read as part of our homeschool curriculum entitled, “Celia’s Eating Blackberries.” In the story, two sisters are playing in the backyard. The older sister, Alice, entices her younger sister, Celia, to stand on a bucket and pluck forbidden blackberries from over the fence. Then, Celia hands them to her sister who promptly eats them. Celia ends up covered in berry juice, but Alice is perfectly clean. In the end, Alice gets in trouble for leading her sister to wrongdoing while trying to cover up her own sin.
Today’s reading brought this story of Celia and Alice to mind. Jesus tells us, “The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will collect out of his Kingdom all who cause others to sin and all evildoers” (Matt 13:41). Notice it’s not just those who have done evil, but also those who cause others to sin. Whether by omission or commission, I think we can all think of a time when we were the reason someone else sinned.
Jesus is reminding us that we were made for community. We each have the opportunity to positively or negatively impact the souls of the people around us. The weeds and the wheat grow together among people too. Our actions can have far-reaching consequences, beyond what we can even imagine. Have you ever considered that your kindness, generosity, selflessness, or compassion today could be the spark someone needs to begin a path toward God? When was the last time you thanked someone for leading you on a path toward holiness, when they could have done the opposite?
Como madre de seis hijos, tener frases que puedan indicar inmediatamente a mis hijos que cambien su comportamiento ha sido fundamental para mi salud mental. Algunos ejemplos son: “El donante elige cuándo compartir”, “Ahora me toca a mí hablar” y “Celia está comiendo zarzamoras”. Me imagino que puedes inferir lo que estaba sucediendo que me llevó a usar las dos primeras frases, pero la última es un poco más complicada.
Hay un libro para niños que nuestra familia ha leído como parte de nuestro currículo de educación en casa titulado “Celia’s Eating Blackberries” (Celia está comiendo zarzamoras). El cuento se trata de dos hermanas juegan en el patio trasero. La hermana mayor, Alice, incita a su hermana menor, Celia, a subirse a un cubo y arrancar zarzamoras prohibidas por encima de la reja. Luego, Celia se los entrega a su hermana, quien rápidamente se los come. Celia termina cubierta de jugo de bayas, pero Alice está perfectamente limpia. Al final, Alice se mete en problemas por llevar a su hermana a cometer delitos mientras intenta encubrir su propio pecado.
La lectura de hoy me hizo acordar de esta historia de Celia y Alice. Jesús nos dice: “el Hijo del hombre enviará a sus ángeles para que arranquen de su Reino a todos los que inducen a otros al pecado y a todos los malvados” (Mateo 13,41). Se darán cuenta que no sólo son los que han hecho el mal, sino también aquellos que hacen que otros pequen. Ya sea por omisión o por comisión, creo que todos podemos pensar en algún momento en el que fuimos la razón por la que alguien más pecó.
Jesús nos recuerda que fuimos hechos para la comunidad. Cada uno de nosotros tenemos la oportunidad de impactar positiva o negativamente a las almas de las personas que nos rodean. La cizaña y el trigo también crecen juntos entre las personas. Nuestras acciones pueden tener consecuencias de mucho alcance, más allá de lo que podemos imaginar. ¿Alguna vez has considerado que tu bondad, generosidad, altruismo o compasión hoy podrían ser la chispa que alguien necesita para comenzar un camino hacia Dios? ¿Cuándo fue la última vez que agradeciste a alguien por guiarte por el camino de la santidad, cuando podría haber hecho lo contrario?
Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife and mother. She is blessed to be able to homeschool, bake bread and fold endless piles of laundry. When not planning a school day, writing a blog post or cooking pasta, Kate can be found curled up with a book or working with some kind of fiber craft. Kate blogs at DailyGraces.net.
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