They say, “When the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail.” I think we see this mentality in James and John in today’s Gospel.
Jesus and the disciples are passing through Samaria. The dislike between the Samaritans and the Jews is well documented, so it is not surprising that there would have been some hard feelings and even aggression towards Jesus and the disciples. Neither is James and John’s reaction surprising. Aggression is their hammer and they are ready for a fight.
But Jesus has other tools available to him and number one on today’s list is time. Jesus not only picks his battles, he doesn’t even see every interaction as a battle. Jesus is focused on relationships and building connections. So when he encounters Samaritans who don’t welcome him, he doesn’t retaliate, he simply moves on to where his message is welcomed. He doesn’t use a hammer, because the problem isn’t a nail.
How often do I react like James and John? When I or my ideas are not welcome, do I grab my hammer and view the situation as a nail to be pounded or do I maintain my composure and step back and consider other options? Do I stand up for myself first or do I reach out in love, even when that love is not welcome? Do I view others with mercy or as problems to be solved?
We have an advantage that James and John didn’t have. We know that love prevails. We know that in the end, no matter what we struggle through in this life, God prevails. The war has been won. Perhaps it is time to put our hammers down and look for other tools to aid in our daily trials. It isn’t about pounding the world to bend to our will, it’s about allowing God to temper our will to match his own. We can follow Jesus’s example and journey on to love another day.
Dicen: “Cuando la única herramienta que tienes es un martillo, todos los problemas parecen un clavo”. Creo que vemos esta mentalidad en Santiago y Juan en el Evangelio de hoy.
Jesús y los discípulos están de paso por Samaria. La aversión entre los samaritanos y los judíos está bien documentada, por lo que no es de extrañar que hubiera algunos resentimientos e incluso agresiones hacia Jesús y los discípulos. Tampoco sorprende la reacción de Santiago y Juan. La agresión es su martillo y están listos para la pelea.
Pero Jesús tiene otras herramientas a su disposición y la número uno en la lista de hoy es el tiempo. Jesús no sólo elige sus batallas, ni siquiera ve cada interacción como una batalla. Jesús se centra en las relaciones y la construcción de conexiones. Entonces, cuando se encuentra con samaritanos que no le dan la bienvenida, no toma represalias, simplemente avanza hacia donde su mensaje es bienvenido. No usa un martillo, porque el problema no es un clavo.
¿Con qué frecuencia reacciono como Santiago y Juan? Cuando yo o mis ideas no son bienvenidos, ¿tomo mi martillo y veo la situación como un clavo para clavar o mantengo la compostura y doy un paso atrás y considero otras opciones? ¿Me defiendo primero a mí mismo o tiendo la mano con amor, incluso cuando ese amor no es bienvenido? ¿Veo a los demás con misericordia o como problemas a resolver?
Tenemos una ventaja que Santiago y Juan no tenían. Sabemos que el amor prevalece. Sabemos que al final, no importa por lo que luchemos en esta vida, Dios prevalece. La guerra ha sido ganada. Tal vez sea hora de dejar nuestros martillos y buscar otras herramientas para ayudar en nuestras pruebas diarias. No se trata de golpear al mundo para que se doblegue a nuestra voluntad, se trata de permitir que Dios modere nuestra voluntad para que coincida con la suya. Podemos seguir el ejemplo de Jesús y seguir adelante para amar otro día.
Sheryl is happy to be the number 1 cheerleader and supporter for her husband, Tom who is a candidate for the Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Kalamazoo. They are so grateful for the opportunity to grow together in this process. Sheryl’s day job is serving her community as the principal for St. Therese Catholic School in Wayland, Michigan. Since every time she thinks she gets life all figured out, she realizes just how far she has to go, St. Rita of Cascia is her go-to Saint for intercession and help. Home includes Carlyn, a very, very goofy Golden Retriever and Lucy, our not-so-little rescue puppy.
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