It seems I am in a constant battle against clutter. Pieces of mail that accumulate when I don’t have time to file them or toss them. Clothing that no longer fits but I hang onto it anyway. Toys strewn all over the floor and tripped upon. Chargers and laptops all over the counter. School books stacked in haphazard piles. Socks and shoes thrown on the floor as people enter the house.
I try to live a simple lifestyle, having only what I need and getting rid of what I don’t so that someone else can use it. More recently I have had to take this one step further and fight against consumerism. Every time I “needed” something, I just jumped on Amazon and it landed on my porch a few days later. I noticed that my kids were constantly asking me for things and I realized I wasn’t giving them a very good example. I canceled my Prime subscription and decided there was nothing I couldn’t wait for until my weekly shopping trip. Not only is it a real necessity to keep things to a minimum having a large family in a small house, it has also saved our family money and increased our peace of mind.
In less than two weeks, we will be embarking on the season of Lent. It is such a great opportunity for us to not only declutter “things” but also declutter our minds and hearts in a spiritual sense. Just as more water will no longer fit into an already full glass, it is hard to fit spiritual enrichment in a mind already filled with other matters. Yet, Jesus longs to fill that glass to overflowing!
In today’s Gospel, the people brought a deaf man to Jesus so that he might be cured. Instead of making a spectacle in front of the crowds, Jesus took the man off by himself. He kept it simple. And instead of invoking the Father in a multitude of prayers, he spoke one word,”Ephphatha!” and the man was healed. He kept it simple. And after the man was healed, he did not seek praise or recognition, but instead asked him not to tell anyone. He kept it simple.
Jesus gives us such a great example in this passage. He shows us his mercy and divine power, but also his simplicity. He does not have physical or spiritual clutter. His focus is on the Father and fulfilling His will. May we follow in his footsteps.
Parece que estoy en una batalla constante contra el desorden. El correo que se acumula cuando no tengo tiempo para archivarlo o tirarlo. Ropa que ya no me queda bien, pero me la guardo de todos modos. Juguetes esparcidos por el suelo que nos causan tropezarnos. Cargadores y laptops en las mesas. Libros escolares amontonados desordenadamente. Calcetines y zapatos tirados al suelo cuando la gente entraba a la casa.
Trato de vivir un estilo de vida simple, teniendo solo lo que necesito y deshaciéndome de lo que no necesito para que alguien más pueda usarlo. Más recientemente he tenido que dar un paso más y luchar contra el consumismo. Cada vez que “necesitaba” algo, entraba a Amazon y la cosa aterrizaba enfrente de mi casa unos días después. Noté que mis hijos me pedían cosas constantemente y me di cuenta de que no les estaba dando buen ejemplo. Cancelé mi suscripción a Prime y decidí que no había nada que no pudiera esperar hasta la compra semanal. Con una familia numerosa en una casa pequeña no solo es una necesidad real mantener las cosas al mínimo, sino que también ha ahorrado dinero a nuestra familia y ha aumentado nuestra tranquilidad.
En menos de dos semanas, vamos a empezar la temporada de Cuaresma. Es una gran oportunidad para nosotros no solo de ordenar “cosas”, sino también de ordenar nuestras mentes y corazones en un sentido espiritual. Así como no cabe más agua en un vaso ya lleno, es difícil encajar el enriquecimiento espiritual en una mente ya llena de otros asuntos. ¡Sin embargo, Jesús anhela llenar ese vaso hasta rebosar!
En el evangelio de hoy, la gente le trajo un hombre sordollevó a Jesús para que lo curara. En lugar de hacer un espectáculo frente a la multitud, Jesús llevó al hombre solo a otro lado. Lo mantuvo sencillo. Y en lugar de invocar al Padre en multitud de oraciones, pronunció una sola palabra: “¡Ephatha!” y el hombre fue sanado. Lo mantuvo sencillo. Y después de que el hombre fue sanado, no buscó elogios ni reconocimiento, sino que le pidió que no se lo dijera a nadie. Lo mantuvo sencillo.
Jesús nos da un gran ejemplo en este pasaje. Nos muestra su misericordia y su poder divino, pero también su sencillez. No tiene desorden físico ni espiritual. Su enfoque está en el Padre y en cumplir Su voluntad. Que sigamos sus pasos.
Tami Urcia grew up in Western Michigan, a middle child in a large Catholic family. She spent early young adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves tackling projects, finding fun ways to keep her little ones occupied, quiet conversation with the hubby and finding unique ways to love. She works at for Christian Healthcare Centers, is a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net, runs her own blog at https://togetherandalways.wordpress.com and has been doing Spanish translations on the side for over 20 years.
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