Category: Ordinary Time

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As I was growing up in a family of eight children, with a hardworking dad and a stay at home mom, I just assumed I would follow in her footsteps. If I wasn’t called to be a nun, then I would care for my children at home. In my mind, these were the only two options. I had no desire to pursue higher education, nor did I see the need for it. But, as God often does, He turned my plans upside down. 

I ended up living both of these vocations for a time before settling into what God had in mind for me. I fought so hard against going into debt to continue my studies, yet I did it. I held on so tightly to the traditional family roles that I tried not to disrupt them, yet I did. And the only reason that I did was to follow His plan for my life. 

As I write, I am sitting in my home office staring out the window at a bright blue sky, wishing I could break free. I have only been at home two weeks, caring for my husband as he recovers from surgery, and caring for all of my children besides, and I already want to go back to work. There is a restlessness, a boredom, a need for a change from the ordinary, a rest from the noise. “And you wanted to be a stay at home mom!” my husband chuckles. We know now that it would have made all of us miserable. 

What is it that you wish to break free from? Is it your tendency to sin? Your mundane daily life? Your addictions? Your racing thoughts? The walls you put up to prevent you from intimacy with our Lord? What is stopping you from allowing those walls to crumble? 

In today’s Gospel, Herod the tetrarch wished he could eat his words. He wished he could roll back time and not have sworn so openly to give the daughter of his mistress whatever she wanted. He wanted to break free from his oath, yet his cowardice prevented him from doing so, and the result was deadly. 

When we fail to seek ways to break free from the chains that enslave us, we suffer a type of spiritual death. We cannot live the fullness of life that God has in mind for us. We can not taste the depth of the love that He has for us. 

Allow God to untie your knots today, to cut loose that which binds you. Welcome His unfathomable love into your heart and hear Him speak to you, “I, the Lord, am your God” (first reading).

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Al crecer en una familia de ocho hijos, con un padre trabajador y una madre ama de casa, tomé por hecho que iba a seguir sus pasos. Si no fuese llamada a ser monja, cuidaría de mis hijos en casa. En mi mente, estas eran las únicas dos opciones. No deseaba cursar estudios superiores ni veía la necesidad de hacerlo. Pero, como suele hacer Dios, volteó mis planes boca arriba.

Terminé viviendo ambas vocaciones por un tiempo antes de asentarme en lo que Dios tenía planeado para mí. Luché con todas mis fuerzas para no endeudarme para continuar mis estudios, pero lo hice. Me aferré tanto a los roles familiares tradicionales que intenté no interrumpirlos, pero lo hice. Y la única razón por la que lo hice fue para seguir Su plan para mi vida.

Mientras escribo, estoy sentada en mi oficina en casa mirando por la ventana a un cielo azul brillante, deseando liberarme. Llevo solo dos semanas en casa, cuidando a mi esposo mientras se recupera de la cirugía y, además, a todos mis hijos, y ya quiero volver al trabajo. Siento inquietud, aburrimiento, la necesidad de un cambio, de un descanso del ruido. “¡Y tú querías ser ama de casa!”, dice mi esposo riendo entre dientes. Ahora sabemos que nos habría hecho sentir miserables a todos.

¿Y tú? ¿De qué deseas liberarte? ¿De tu tendencia al pecado? ¿De tu vida cotidiana? ¿De tus adicciones? ¿De los pensamientos que no paran? ¿De los muros que levantas para evitar la intimidad con nuestro Señor? ¿Qué te impide dejar que esos muros se derrumben?

En el Evangelio de hoy, Herodes el tetrarca quiso poder tragarse sus palabras. Quiso poder retroceder en el tiempo y no haber jurado tan abiertamente darle a la hija de su amante todo lo que quisiera. Quería romper su juramento, pero su cobardía se lo impidió, y el resultado fue mortal. 

Cuando no buscamos la manera de liberarnos de las cadenas que nos esclavizan, sufrimos una especie de muerte espiritual. No podemos vivir la plenitud de vida que Dios tiene para nosotros. No podemos saborear la profundidad del amor que Él nos tiene.

Permite que Dios deshaga tus nudos hoy, que corte aquello que te ata. Acoge su amor insondable en tu corazón y escúchalo decirte: “Yo, el Señor, Dios de ustedes” (primera lectura).

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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I really struggle with the law of inertia. You know, that rule of physics that states that an object in motion tends to stay in motion and an object at rest tends to stay at rest. Yup, that’s me. If I am working on a project at my house I just want to keep going and going and don’t want to stop. Yet, if I’m sitting at my desk at work, I really don’t want to get up. Just let me stay there and do my job and don’t ask me to do anything else.

But the last few words of that law state, “unless acted upon by force.” Whether it be exhaustion from working all day causing me to sit down, or my boss asking me to get up and complete a task, some force motivates change.  

In our First Reading God sent his word through Jeremiah to enact change in the people of Judah: “Thus says the LORD: If you disobey me, not living according to the law I placed before you and not listening to the words of my servants the prophets, whom I send you constantly though you do not obey them, I will treat this house like Shiloh, and make this the city to which all the nations of the earth shall refer when cursing another.” Yet apparently they struggled with inertia even more than I do because instead of moving toward repentance they declared to Jeremiah, “You must be put to death!”

Our Gospel reading shows us an example of the exact opposite. The raising of Lazarus was one of the most amazing inertia-reversing moments in history. Through the force of our almighty God, a man was raised from the dead! 

Not many of us will face either of these two realities in our lifetime, yet we are consistently called upon to make changes to become more Christ-like. To change our attitudes, to change our words, to change our decision-making, to change our actions. Due to original sin, “inertia” makes it hard to focus our minds and hearts on God, but He is the “force” that can enact change in us. 

May we remember to call upon our amazing God every day, that He may grant us the grace to make changes in our lives for the better. Then perhaps that old law of physics won’t burden us so much anymore. 

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Batallo bastante con la ley de la inercia. Ya sabes, esa regla de la física que establece que un objeto en movimiento tiende a permanecer en movimiento y un objeto en reposo tiende a permanecer en reposo. Así soy yo. Si estoy trabajando en un proyecto en mi casa, solo quiero seguir y seguir y no quiero parar. Sin embargo, si estoy sentada en mi escritorio en el trabajo, realmente no quiero levantarme. Solo déjame quedarme allí a hacer mi trabajo y no me pidas que haga nada más.

Pero las últimas palabras de esa ley establecen, “a menos que se actúe por la fuerza”. Ya sea que el cansancio de trabajar todo el día me obligue a sentarme o que mi jefe me pida que me levante y complete una tarea, alguna fuerza motiva el cambio.

En la Primera Lectura, Dios envió su palabra a través de Jeremías para promulgar un cambio en el pueblo de Judá: “Esto dice el Señor: Si no me obedecen, ni cumplen la ley que he dado, ni escuchan las palabras de mis siervos, los profetas, que sin cesar les he enviado y a quienes ustedes no han escuchado, entonces yo trataré a este templo como al de Siló y haré que esta ciudad sirva de escarmiento para todos los pueblos de la tierra’”. Sin embargo, aparentemente batallaron con la inercia incluso más que yo porque en lugar de moverse hacia el arrepentimiento le declararon a Jeremías: “Este hombre debe morir”.

Nuestra lectura del Evangelio nos muestra un ejemplo de exactamente lo contrario. La resurrección de Lázaro fue uno de los mejores momentos de voltear a la inercia de toda la historia. ¡Por la fuerza de nuestro Dios todopoderoso, un hombre resucitó de entre los muertos!

Muchos de nosotros nunca vamos a enfrentar ninguna de estas dos realidades en la vida, sin embargo, constantemente estamos llamados a hacer cambios para asemejarnos más a Cristo. Cambiar nuestras actitudes, cambiar nuestras palabras, cambiar nuestra toma de decisiones, cambiar nuestras acciones. Debido al pecado original, la “inercia” hace que sea difícil enfocar nuestras mentes y corazones en Dios, pero Él es la “fuerza” que puede realizar el cambio en nosotros.

Acordémonos a invocar a nuestro Dios maravilloso todos los días, para que Él nos conceda la gracia de hacer cambios para mejor en nuestras vidas, para que esa antigua ley de la física ya no nos cueste tanto.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Over the winter, my husband asked me to buy a couple more shovels so all the boys could help clear the driveway. The first time he asked me, I said they could take turns and share. The second time he asked me I pretty much ignored him, and the third time I repeated the same response as the first: “Why do they all need their own shovel? Can’t they take turns and share? We already have three! How many more do we need?” But, to appease him, I proceeded to put two more in my shopping cart. 

When he went to pick up the grocery order, he was surprised to see them being loaded into the car. “We have two new shovels!” he exclaimed when he got home. I raised an eyebrow saying “just what I wanted to do, spend money on a couple pieces of plastic.” 

While I admit my reactions were less than saintly, the whole scenario reminded me once again of my brother’s oft repeated phrase to his kids: “You just don’t suffer enough.” We have lost our pride in hard work to the point that it has become old fashioned. We have lost the sense of satisfaction that comes with searching for answers to the hard questions because they can be found at the click of a button. We have lost the ability to share. And all of this has caused us to look more and more inward. 

One night,  my middle school son shared with me that they had covered the topic of loneliness at youth group. They discussed the difference between solitude and isolation. Solitude is taking time apart to reflect, pray, recharge and regroup. Isolation is purposefully excluding yourself from others, choosing to no longer associate with others.  For many, being alone is easier. It means you don’t have to put on any masks to be accepted by others. Yet, from the beginning of time God tells us that it is not good for man to be alone (see Gen 2:18). In relationship with others, we learn and grow, our hearts expand and yes, sometimes we suffer.

Englishman Ronald Knox, an Anglican convert to Catholicism, was a priest, theologian, author, and radio broadcaster. He was known to say that the first two gestures of the Sign of the Cross form the letter “I” and the last two cross it out. As a Christian, “I” am not the principal person in the equation. I must increase, be crossed out, so that Christ may increase in me for the good of others. 

We can look at our sacrifices and sufferings as the mustard seed and the yeast mentioned in today’s Gospel parables. The seed is planted and then grows; the yeast is mixed in and then rises. So too, every time we set our own desires aside and look for the good of the other, virtue and grace grow within us. In this way, we can bear fruit for the Kingdom of God, so that many others might also “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good” (Psalm Response).

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Durante el invierno, mi esposo me pidió que comprara unas palas de nieve más para que todos nuestros hijos pudieran ayudar a limpiar la entrada. La primera vez que me lo pidió, le dije que podían turnarse y compartir. La segunda vez que me lo pidió, prácticamente lo ignoré y la tercera vez repetí la misma respuesta que la primera: “¿Por qué necesitan todos su propia pala? ¿No pueden turnarse y compartir? ¡Ya tenemos tres! ¿Cuántas más necesitamos?” Pero, para apaciguarlo, procedí a poner dos más en mi carrito de compras.

Cuando fue a recoger el pedido de compras, mi esposo se sorprendió al ver que las estaban poniendo en el auto. “¡Tenemos dos palas nuevas!”, exclamó cuando llegó a casa. Levanté una ceja y dije: “Justo lo que quería hacer, gastar dinero en un par de piezas de plástico”.

Aunque admito que mis reacciones no fueron virtuosas, toda la situación me recordó una vez más la frase que mi hermano repete a menudo a sus hijos: “Ustedes simplemente no sufren lo suficiente”. Hemos perdido el orgullo por el trabajo duro hasta el punto de que se ha vuelto anticuado. Hemos perdido la sensación de satisfacción que viene con la búsqueda de respuestas a las preguntas difíciles porque se pueden encontrar con un solo clic. Hemos perdido la capacidad de compartir. Y todo esto nos ha hecho mirar cada vez más hacia adentro.

Una noche, mi hijo de la escuela secundaria me contó que habían tratado el tema de la soledad en su grupo de jóvenes. Hablaron sobre la diferencia entre la soledad y el aislamiento. La soledad es tomarse un tiempo a solas para reflexionar, orar, recargar energías y reagruparse. El aislamiento es excluirse deliberadamente de los demás, elegir no asociarse más con otros. Para muchos, estar solo es más fácil. Significa que no tienes que ponerte ninguna máscara para ser aceptado por los demás. Sin embargo, desde el principio de los tiempos Dios nos dice que no es bueno que el hombre esté solo (ver Génesis 2:18). Al relacionarnos con los demás, aprendemos y crecemos, nuestro corazón se expande y sí, a veces sufrimos.

El inglés Ronald Knox, anglicano convertido al catolicismo, fue sacerdote, teólogo, autor y locutor de radio. Era conocido por decir que los dos primeros gestos de la señal de la cruz forman la letra “I” (yo) y los dos últimos la tachan. Como cristiano, el “yo” no es la persona principal en la ecuación. Debo crecer, ser tachado, para que Cristo pueda crecer en mí para el bien de los demás.

Podemos ver nuestros sacrificios y sufrimientos como la semilla de mostaza y la levadura mencionadas en las parábolas del Evangelio de hoy. La semilla se siembra y luego crece; la levadura se mezcla y luego se levanta. Así también, cada vez que dejamos de lado nuestros propios deseos y buscamos el bien del otro, la virtud y la gracia crecen dentro de nosotros. De esta manera, podemos dar fruto para el Reino de Dios, para que muchos otros también puedan dar gracias al Señor, porque Él es bueno”.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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Several months ago, our pastor asked my husband and I to mentor couples who are preparing for marriage. As I read through his email, I chuckled to myself, thinking what a coincidence it was. My parents had mentored engaged couples for years. In fact, as a permanent deacon, that was my dad’s main ministry. Since his marriage to my mom was far from perfect, it gave me hope that maybe my husband and I could be of some help to the couples we are assigned to. In fact, perhaps we could be of more help due to our struggles, giving witness to our fidelity to each other despite the ups and downs of life. 

Even as we met with our first engaged couple for the first time, my husband was just a couple weeks away from his second major back surgery. Although it would eventually relieve him of some pain, it would also cause him pain. His three month recovery process would have him using a walker, then a cane, all the while wearing a restrictive back brace. He would need help using the restroom and showering, getting out of bed and getting dressed. All the while, I, his partner “in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health” was called to care for him, encourage him and support him. 

Jesus never promised it would be easy. He knew the reality of life on Earth. He lived through the hardship. And He promised to help us carry our burdens. 

Perhaps one of the heaviest burdens we bear is our sins. We make resolutions, and then break them. We try to be better and then fail. We try harder and then fail again. Perhaps the reason this burden becomes so heavy is because we try to carry it on our own. We forget about the power of prayer and the grace poured out in the sacrament of Confession. God wants to make “our yoke easy and our burden light” but sometimes we fail to call out to Him for help. 

We see God’s loving mercy so clearly in today’s readings. In the first reading, God promises to withhold destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah if He were to find only 10 just people therein. In the second reading, Paul reminds us, “even when you were dead in transgressions…he brought you to life along with him” through the forgiveness of sins. In the Gospel, Jesus assures us, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”  

Time and time again in the Scriptures, God tells us how much he wants to be there for us. Even though the actual weight of our burdens may not change, the fact that He is there by our side, makes them so much lighter. So whether we be living the ups and downs of married life or struggling through an illness or battling with a recurring sin, may we truly believe what we proclaim in today’s Psalm Response:  “Lord, on the day I called for help, you answered me.”

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Hace varios meses, el párroco nos pidió a mi esposo y a mí que sirviéramos de mentores a parejas que se estaban preparando para casarse por la Iglesia. Mientras leía su correo electrónico me dio risa, pensando en la coincidencia que era. Mis padres habían sido mentores de parejas comprometidas durante años. De hecho, como diácono permanente, ese era el ministerio principal de mi papá. Dado que su matrimonio con mi mamá estaba lejos de ser perfecto, me dio esperanza de que tal vez mi esposo y yo pudiéramos ser de alguna ayuda a las parejas que se nos asignan. De hecho, tal vez podríamos ser de mayor ayuda debido a nuestras batallas, dando testimonio de la fidelidad mutua a pesar de los altibajos de la vida.

Incluso cuando nos reunimos con una pareja comprometida por primera vez, mi esposo estaba a solo un par de semanas de su segunda cirugía grande de espalda. Si bien con el tiempo lo aliviaría un poco del dolor, también le causaría dolor. Su proceso de recuperación de tres meses lo haría utilizar un andador, luego un bastón, todo el tiempo con un corsé ortopédico restrictivo. Necesitaría ayuda para ir al baño y bañarse, levantarse de la cama y vestirse. Mientras tanto, yo, su compañera “en las buenas y en las malas, en la salud y en la enfermedad”, fui llamada a cuidarlo, animarlo y apoyarlo.

Jesús nunca prometió que sería fácil. Conocía la realidad de la vida terrenal. Vivió las dificultades. Y prometió ayudarnos a llevar nuestras cargas.

Tal vez una de las cargas más pesadas que llevamos son nuestros pecados. Hacemos resoluciones y luego las rompemos. Tratamos de ser mejores y luego fallamos. Nos esforzamos más y luego fallamos nuevamente. Tal vez la razón por la que esta carga se vuelve tan pesada es porque intentamos llevarla a solas. Nos olvidamos del poder de la oración y la gracia derramada en el sacramento de la Confesión. Dios quiere hacer “suave nuestro yugo y liviana nuestra carga”, pero a veces no le pedimos ayuda.

Vemos la misericordia amorosa de Dios tan claramente en las lecturas de hoy. En la primera lectura, Dios promete no destruir Sodoma y Gomorra si encuentra tan solo 10 personas justas allí. En la segunda lectura, Pablo nos recuerda que “estaban muertos por sus pecados…Pero él les dio una vida nueva con Cristo, perdonándoles todos los pecados”. En el Evangelio, Jesús nos asegura: “Pidan y se les dará, busquen y encontrarán, toquen y se les abrirá”.

Una y otra vez en las Escrituras, Dios nos dice cuánto quiere estar ahí para nosotros. Aunque el peso real de nuestras cargas no cambie, el hecho de que Él esté a nuestro lado las hace mucho más ligeras. Así que, ya sea que estemos viviendo los altibajos de la vida matrimonial o luchando contra una enfermedad o batallando con un pecado recurrente, proclamamos juntos con el salmista hoy: “te damos gracias, Señor, porque escuchaste nuestros ruegos”.

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Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.

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