Come and see. When I heard this phrase for the first time, it was used in the context of a discernment retreat. A “Come and See” retreat is an opportunity offered to discerners to do exactly that: come and see. Come to a seminary or a monastery or a convent and see what their life is like for yourself. Pray with them, talk to them, eat with them, share their life with them for a day or a weekend. It is an important step in discernment if a man or woman ultimately decides to enter seminary or religious life.
We can take this same “come and see” concept and practice it outside the walls of a convent or a seminary. It applies to all of us and we can use it for more than just vocational discernment. Rather, come and see is one of the basic tenets of discipleship and evangelization – what we are all called to do as Catholic Christians.
Today’s Gospel gives us a firsthand look at this practice. In the first chapter of the Gospel according to John, Jesus personally invited Philip to follow Him, to come and see for himself, and so Philip became one of the first disciples. Then Philip went to Nathanael and extended the invitation himself – come and see. Philip brought Nathanael to Jesus and Nathanael became a disciple. And so on and so on, all the way up to you and I today.
We share this same mission. By virtue of our Baptism, we have the same call as the first disciples. Sometimes we shirk away from the responsibility but sometimes we take it on and we make the task so much more difficult than it has to be. All we have to do to start is extend the invitation: come and see.
First, take a moment of prayerful consideration: who in your life needs to hear this invitation? Once you have identified that person, consider what kind of invitation you will make, what come and see you will offer: “Come to Mass with me and see” or “come and join me in a moment of prayer and see” or something different? And then be ready to accompany that individual in their journey of discipleship. After Jesus invited Philip and Philip invited Nathanael, they didn’t just leave them on their own.
Disciples making more disciples. And it starts with an invitation.
Ven y verás. Cuando escuché esta frase por primera vez, era en el contexto de un retiro de discernimiento. Un retiro de “Ven y verás” es una oportunidad que se ofrece a los discernidores para hacer exactamente eso: venir y ver. Ven a un seminario o a un monasterio o a un convento y mira cómo es su vida por ti mismo. Oren con ellos, hablen con ellos, coman con ellos, compartan su vida con ellos por un día o un fin de semana. Es un paso importante en el discernimiento si un hombre o una mujer finalmente decide ingresar al seminario o a la vida religiosa.
Podemos tomar este mismo concepto de “ven y verás” y practicarlo fuera de los muros de un convento o un seminario. Se aplica a todos nosotros y podemos usarlo para algo más que el discernimiento vocacional. Más bien, ven y verás es uno de los principios básicos del discipulado y la evangelización, lo que todos estamos llamados a hacer como cristianos católicos.
El Evangelio de hoy nos da una mirada de primera mano a esta práctica. En el primer capítulo del Evangelio según Juan, Jesús invitó personalmente a Felipe a que lo siguiera, a que viniera y viera por sí mismo, y así Felipe se convirtió en uno de los primeros discípulos. Entonces Felipe fue donde Natanael y él mismo le extendió la invitación: ven y verás. Felipe trajo a Natanael a Jesús y Natanael se hizo discípulo. Y así sucesivamente, hasta llegar a ti y a mí hoy.
Compartimos esta misma misión. En virtud de nuestro Bautismo, tenemos la misma llamada que los primeros discípulos. A veces eludimos la responsabilidad, pero a veces la asumimos y hacemos que la tarea sea mucho más difícil de lo que tiene que ser. Todo lo que tenemos que hacer para comenzar es extender la invitación: ven y verás.
Primero, tome un momento de para considerar en la oración: ¿quién en su vida necesita escuchar esta invitación? Una vez que hayas identificado a esa persona, considera qué tipo de invitación harás, qué “ven y verás” que ofrecerás: “Ven a Misa conmigo y verás” o “ven y únete a mí en un momento de oración y verás” o algo diferente. Y luego esté preparado para acompañar a esa persona en su camino del discipulado. Después de que Jesús invitó a Felipe y Felipe invitó a Natanael, no los dejaron solos.
Discípulos haciendo más discípulos. Y comienza con una invitación.
Erin is a Cleveland native and graduate of Franciscan University of Steubenville. She is passionate about the Lord Jesus, all things college sports and telling stories and she is blessed enough to get paid for all three of her passions as a full-time youth minister and a freelance sports writer.
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