Today we begin Holy Week, when we walk beside Jesus during the long and painful journey of His Passion, Death and Resurrection. Today we read the account of the Passion, and it can seem as long as this week. We don’t like to face the hard, the difficult and the painful, but if we want to grow, it is necessary.
One thing that strikes me is how they ripped off Jesus’ clothes before crucifying Him. He was a person who respected Himself and others. He was a man of modesty, and they left him hanging there naked. I can’t imagine the humiliation He suffered, all for us… at the same time it makes me think of how our society no longer values modesty, and it makes me even more sad.
We should dress appropriately according to where we are, but we should always have respect for ourselves and others. A phrase from the philosopher Confucius comes to mind: “Respect yourself so that others will respect you.” Also, the second great commandment our Lord gave us is “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Many phrases from different sources could be analyzed more deeply regarding this topic and conclusions can be drawn.
I once heard a priest say in one of his homilies, “Girls come to church naked and boys come in shorts and sandals!” It may sound harsh, but the reality is that we should go to church to seek God, not a boyfriend or more attention by wearing short clothing, showing more skin than necessary or very short or tight shirts that leave nothing to the imagination. I have even noticed how uncomfortable many girls are, pulling down on their skirts or shorts to see if they will stretch any further.
Although all this may be controversial, it seems to me like sin at its finest. I understand that we are all different and not everyone has the same intentions, but dressing like this can be a temptation for those around them and a poor example for younger girls.
If we leave the church environment and go out into the “real world”, many will view them as sexual objects, a means to satisfy the flesh. There are many wolves in sheep’s clothing looking for their prey. So if you dress provocatively at church what can you expect when you are out in the world? Do not wait until you have a horrible experience to dress modestly. Although many think they know everything when they are young, they should listen to their closest relatives and true friends who will tell them the truth.
In conclusion, love yourselves more, so that others will respect you. Look at Jesus Christ on the cross to realize what true love is. He will help you love yourself more and find pure love with someone who loves you for who you are, not because you have shown off parts of your body. May the outpouring of grace from Christ’s Passion and Death help us to love God and love ourselves more.
Hoy empezamos la semana santa, cuando caminamos al lado de Jesús en el camino largo y doloroso de su pasión, muerte y resurrección. Hoy leemos el relato de la pasión, y puede parecer tan largo como esta semana. No nos gusta enfrentar lo duro, lo difícil y lo doloroso, pero si queremos crecer, es necesario.
Una cosa que me llama la atención es cómo le arrancaron la ropa a Jesus antes de crucificarlo. Era una persona que se respetaba a sí mismo y a los demás. Era un hombre de pudor, y lo dejaron colgado allí desnudo. No puedo imaginarme la humillación que sufrió, todo por nosotros… y al mismo tiempo me hace pensar en cómo nuestra sociedad ya no valora la modestia, y me pone mas triste aun.
El modo de vestir debe ser de acuerdo al lugar donde vayas, pero siempre debe haber un respeto para uno mismo y los demás. Una frase del filósofo Confucius “Respetate a ti mismo para que los demás te respeten” me viene a la mente. El segundo gran mandamiento que el Señor nos dio dice “Ama a tu prójimo cómo a ti mismo”. Varias frases al respeto se podrían analizar más profundamente para sacar conclusiones.
Había un sacerdote que decía en una de sus homilías, “¡Las chicas vienen calatas a la iglesia y los chicos vienen en short y sandalias!” Puede sonar rudo, pero la realidad es que ir a la iglesia es ir en busca de Dios y no buscar novio o estar llamando la atención con la vestimenta corta, mostrando la pierna más de lo debido o polos muy cortos o pegados que no dejan nada a la imaginación. Hasta se ve a muchas chicas incómodas para sentarse o pararse, y se están jalando la faldita o short para abajo para ver si se estira más.
Aunque puede ser controversial todo esto, pareciera el pecado en su máxima expresión. Entiendo que no todos son iguales y tampoco todos tienen las mismas intenciones, pero vistiéndose así se vuelven tentación para los que están alrededor y mal ejemplo para las niñas más jóvenes.
Si salimos del ambiente de la iglesia, y salimos al “mundo real”, muchos van a verlas cómo un objeto sexual, el cual el objetivo es satisfacer la carne. Hay muchos lobos vestidos de corderos buscando su presa para saciarse. Entonces si en la iglesia se visten “llamativamente” ¿qué se puede esperar cuando están afuera? No esperen tener esa horrible experiencia para recién volver a la modestia. Aunque muchas piensan saberlo todo por la juventud, hay que escuchar a los familiares más cercanos y los verdaderos amigos que te dicen la verdad.
En conclusión, ámense más, para que los demás te respeten. Miren a Jesucristo en la cruz y dense cuenta de lo que es el verdadero amor de Dios. Él te ayudará a quererte más y a encontrar el amor verdadero en una persona que te ame por quien eres, no porque has demostrado partes de tu cuerpo. Que la efusión de gracia de la pasión y muerte de Cristo nos ayude a amar a Dios y a amarnos más a nosotros mismos.
Felix Urcia was born in Lima, Peru. He emigrated the U.S. to complete his college degree in Computer Science at Northern Kentucky University. He is passionate about his faith, his family, education and soccer. When he is not homeschooling and caring for his young children he enjoys personal programing projects and sports analysis. He and wife live in a small town in Western Michigan where they enjoy spending time with their five children.
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