St. Paul’s discourse on love in today’s first reading might be the most famous discussion of love in the world, and far more learned people than I have reflected on it throughout the ages. There’s probably nothing worthwhile that I could ever add to that great collection of reflections and analyses, but I will say this: Paul has not only outlined for us what true love is like, but what it actually is. And we human beings rarely, if ever, measure up to it because such true love resides in God alone, who is love and who gives love unceasingly.
However, our failure to measure up should never keep us from trying and continuing to try. To love completely, the way God loves, is His goal for each of us. He knows our faults and our weaknesses, and He is ready to help us if we only ask for the love and grace we need to love as He loves. It may take our whole lives, it might not even happen by the time we reach our deathbed, but to love and love and love and to keep on trying to love is all we can do, and all we should do. And our greatest example, of course, is Jesus.
In today’s Gospel from Luke, Jesus is almost scolding the people who, like children, won’t dance to a happy tune or weep to a sad one. He is basically calling them out for indifference, for not caring enough to react to what’s really happening. He also calls them out for treating John the Baptist’s ascetic way as if it were evil, and His way of engaging with people where they are as if it were a character flaw. Being indifferent or critical of something is an easy way out, to keep us from engaging, to keep us from thinking. It keeps us from looking within and really analyzing ourselves. Are we good people? Are we loving and giving? Or do we think only about ourselves? Or, maybe worst of all, are we nihilistic, rejecting things of meaning, value, knowledge and holiness?
Jesus came to tell us that life does have meaning and purpose. It has value when we love, when we give of ourselves for the sake of others, when we engage with each other and care about each other’s well-being — even those who might not engage with or care about us. Today’s Gospel ends with the line “But wisdom is vindicated by all her children.” We who believe know that Jesus Christ himself is true wisdom, and He and His teachings of love of the Father and service to others are vindicated — that is, proven true — by those who follow Him, because the reward of true love and true wisdom is heavenly indeed. Let’s all keep trying to love as Jesus our wisdom calls us to love.
El discurso de San Pablo sobre el amor en la primera lectura de hoy podría ser el más famoso del mundo sobre el amor, y muchas personas más eruditas que yo han reflexionado sobre él a lo largo de los siglos. Probablemente no haya nada que valga la pena que pueda agregar a esa gran colección de reflexiones y análisis, pero diré esto: Pablo no sólo nos ha descrito cómo es el verdadero amor, sino también lo que realmente es. Y nosotros, los seres humanos, rara vez, o nunca, estamos a la altura, porque ese amor verdadero reside únicamente en Dios, que es amor y que da amor incesantemente.
Sin embargo, nuestra incapacidad para estar a la altura nunca debería impedirnos intentarlo y seguirlo intentando. Amar completamente, como Dios ama, es su objetivo para cada uno de nosotros. Él conoce nuestras faltas y nuestras debilidades, y está dispuesto a ayudarnos si sólo le pedimos el amor y la gracia que necesitamos para amar como Él ama. Puede que nos lleve toda la vida, puede que ni siquiera suceda cuando lleguemos al lecho de muerte, pero amar, amar, amar y seguir intentando amar es todo lo que podemos hacer y todo lo que debemos hacer. Y nuestro mayor ejemplo, por supuesto, es Jesús.
En el Evangelio de hoy según Lucas, Jesús casi está regañando a las personas que, como los niños, no bailan con una melodía alegre ni lloran con una triste. Básicamente los está llamando la atención por su indiferencia, por no preocuparse lo suficiente como para reaccionar ante lo que realmente está sucediendo. También los critica por tratar la manera ascética de Juan el Bautista como si fuera mala, y su manera de relacionarse con las personas donde están como si fuera un defecto de carácter. Ser indiferente o crítico con algo es una salida fácil, para impedir que nos involucremos, para impedirnos pensar. Nos impide mirar hacia dentro y analizarnos realmente a nosotros mismos. ¿Somos buenas personas? ¿Estamos amando y entregándonos? ¿O pensamos solamente en nosotros mismos? O, quizás lo peor de todo, ¿somos nihilistas y rechazamos las cosas que tienen significado, valor, conocimiento y santidad?
Jesús vino a decirnos que la vida sí tiene significado y propósito. Tiene valor cuando amamos, cuando nos entregamos por el bien de los demás, cuando nos relacionamos unos con otros y nos preocupamos por el bienestar de los demás, incluso de aquellos que quizás no se relacionen con nosotros ni se preocupen por nosotros. El evangelio de hoy termina con la frase “Pero sólo aquellos que tienen la sabiduría de Dios, son quienes lo reconocen.” Nosotros, los que creemos, sabemos que Jesucristo mismo es la verdadera sabiduría, y que Él y Sus enseñanzas de amor al Padre y servicio a los demás son vindicados (es decir, probados como verdaderos) por aquellos que lo siguen, porque la recompensa del verdadero amor y la verdadera sabiduría es realmente celestial. Sigamos todos intentando amar como Jesús nuestra sabiduría nos llama a amar.
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