So often, it’s easy to justify our sins and rule-breaking. We can tell ourselves all kinds of excuses: they wouldn’t mind so I don’t need permission. I’ll make up for it later. No one really cares. I’m following the spirit of the law. It’s no big deal. I deserve a break. It’s a dumb rule…The list of excuses we can tell ourselves goes on and on.
In today’s Gospel, though, Jesus is reminding us that God’s commands and laws are important and not to be dismissed off-hand. His laws serve a purpose; some are for strengthening character, some are for our own spiritual wellbeing and protection, some help us order our lives and our hearts properly.
I’ve found in my personal experience that the closer I am to God, the easier His laws are to follow. The desire to please Him is a great motivator when I am praying and participating in the sacraments regularly. Following the law flows more naturally from the love overflowing in my heart. When I’m wrapped up in worldly pursuits and distractions, God’s laws feel much more burdensome.
So when we find ourselves struggling to follow God’s law or tempted to teach others not to follow it, let us seek out the Author of the Law to give us hearts full of His grace.
Muy a menudo, es fácil justificar nuestros pecados y romper las reglas. Podemos darnos todo tipo de excusas: no les va a importar, así que no necesito permiso. Lo compensaré más tarde. A nadie realmente le importa. Estoy siguiendo el espíritu de la ley. No es gran cosa. Merezco un descanso. Es una regla tonta… La lista de excusas que podemos decirnos a nosotros mismos sigue y sigue.
Sin embargo, en el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús nos recuerda que los mandamientos y las leyes de Dios son importantes y no se deben descartar de inmediato. Sus leyes tienen un propósito; algunos son para fortalecer el carácter, algunos son para nuestro propio bienestar espiritual y protección, algunos nos ayudan a ordenar nuestras vidas y nuestros corazones correctamente.
He descubierto en mi experiencia personal que cuanto más cerca estoy a Dios, más fácil es seguir Sus leyes. El deseo de agradarle es un gran motivador cuando rezo y participo en los sacramentos con regularidad. Seguir la ley fluye más naturalmente del amor que desborda en mi corazón. Cuando estoy envuelto en actividades y distracciones mundanas, las leyes de Dios se sienten mucho más pesadas.
Entonces, cuando nos encontremos luchando por seguir la ley de Dios o tentados a enseñar a otros a no seguirla, busquemos al Autor de la Ley para que nos dé corazones llenos de Su gracia.
J.M. Pallas has had a lifelong love of Scriptures. When she is not busy with her vocation as a wife and mother to her “1 Samuel 1” son, or her vocation as a public health educator, you may find her at her parish women’s bible study, affectionately known as “The Bible Chicks.”
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Elizabeth Tomlin is the author of Joyful Momentum: Building and Sustaining Vibrant Women’s Groups and contributing author to the Ave Prayer Book for Catholic Mothers. She is General Counsel for the Archdiocese for the Military Services, USA. Elizabeth is an Army wife and mother of three and currently lives in the DC area. She blogs at
Kathryn Mulderink, MA, is married to Robert, Station Manager for Holy Family Radio. Together they have seven children (including Father Rob), and seven grandchildren. She is President of the local community of Secular Discalced Carmelites and has published five books and many articles. Over the last 30 years, she has worked as a teacher, headmistress, catechist, Pastoral Associate, and DRE, and as a writer and voice talent for Catholic Radio. Currently, she serves the Church by writing and speaking, and by collaborating with various parishes and to lead others to encounter Christ and engage their faith. Her website is
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Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at




Sheryl is happy to be the number 1 cheerleader and supporter for her husband, Tom who is a candidate for the Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Kalamazoo. They are so grateful for the opportunity to grow together in this process. Sheryl’s day job is serving her community as the principal for St. Therese Catholic School in Wayland, Michigan. Since every time she thinks she gets life all figured out, she realizes just how far she has to go, St. Rita of Cascia is her go-to Saint for intercession and help. Home includes Carlyn, a very, very goofy Golden Retriever and Lucy, our not-so-little rescue puppy.