In today’s Responsorial Psalm, we hear, “Blessed be God who filled my soul with fire! Come and see the works of God, his tremendous deeds among the children of Adam.”
God does so much for us! We cannot even begin to count the wondrous deeds He has done for us throughout our lives. Yet sometimes we tend to focus on the things we want instead of the things we have.
It’s so difficult to pray for something we want, to desire something so intensely, to even believe that this thing is what’s best for us, and then to not receive it. We often wonder why God isn’t answering our prayers.
But if we think about it, we know that God doesn’t forget about us. He doesn’t ignore us or just not respond. He gives one of three answers: “yes”, “no”, or “not yet”.
The “no” and “not yet” answers are the ones that are hard to accept. But if we truly want our soul to be on fire, we must focus on the “yes” and trust that the “no” and “not yet” answers are because God knows what is best for us.
When we focus on the gifts that we have, we start to see the world in a different way. We become more thankful and more appreciative, and then the yeses we receive—even the small ones—begin to mean so much more.
So let us resolve to focus on the blessings in our lives. Let us start every day with a prayer of thanks and then end every day with a few minutes of reflection on all of the blessings—big and small—that God gifted us throughout the day.
The easiest way to allow God to set our hearts on fire is to be thankful for His gifts, to acknowledge that thankfulness, and to surrender our will to His, knowing that He loves us so much more than we could ever imagine.
En el Salmo Responsorial de hoy, escuchamos: “Bendito sea el Señor. Admiremos las obras del Señor, los prodigios que ha hecho por los hombres.”
¡Dios hace tanto por nosotros! Ni siquiera podemos comenzar a contar las obras maravillosas que ha hecho por nosotros a lo largo de nuestras vidas. Sin embargo, a veces tendemos a centrarnos en las cosas que queremos en lugar de las cosas que tenemos.
Es tan difícil orar por algo que queremos, desear algo tan intensamente, incluso creer que eso es lo mejor para nosotros, y luego no recibirlo. A menudo nos preguntamos por qué Dios no responde nuestras oraciones.
Pero si lo pensamos bien, sabemos que Dios no se olvida de nosotros. No nos ignora o simplemente no responde. Da una de tres respuestas: “sí”, “no”, o “todavía no”.
Las respuestas “no” y “todavía no” son las que son difíciles de aceptar. Pero si realmente queremos que nuestra alma arda, debemos enfocarnos en el “sí” y confiar en que el “no” y el “todavía no” son respuestas porque Dios sabe lo que es mejor para nosotros.
Cuando nos enfocamos en los dones que tenemos, comenzamos a ver el mundo de una manera diferente. Nos volvemos más agradecidos y luego los “sí” que recibimos, incluso los pequeños, comienzan a significar mucho más.
Así que tomemos la decisión de concentrarnos en las bendiciones de nuestra vida. Comencemos cada día con una oración de agradecimiento y luego terminemos cada día con unos minutos de reflexión sobre todas las bendiciones, grandes y pequeñas, que Dios nos ha regalado a lo largo del día.
La forma más fácil de permitir que Dios encienda nuestros corazones es estar agradecido por sus dones, reconocer ese agradecimiento y rendir nuestra voluntad a la suya, sabiendo que nos ama mucho más de lo que podríamos imaginar.
Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at slochner0.wixsite.com/website.
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