In the midst of our Lord’s passion, Peter denied knowing Jesus three times. In today’s Gospel, we hear Peter affirm his love for Jesus three times. Three denials, three affirmations of love. St. Augustine commented that Jesus asks Peter three times so that he who had thrice denied through fear might thrice confess through love.
How many times have I, like Peter, denied Jesus through fear? I lead a well-blessed life and I have never feared for my life, but I have denied Jesus through fear. There was the time I was working in an area dominated by another faith and was warned to tuck my crucifix into my sweater so they wouldn’t know I was Catholic. I am sad to say, I complied. I have watched something happen that I knew was wrong, but I didn’t speak up out of fear of being ridiculed or laughed at. I have seen someone in need, but I told myself it wasn’t safe in this day and age to stop and help.
Knowing that I have acted out of fear, I can choose now to act out of love. How do I make this change? How can love overcome fear? In order to be prepared to choose love at the moment of decision, we need to prepare our will to choose the good. This is not something we can consistently do from our own strength or desire. We need to be open to God’s grace. We are given all the grace we need to follow Jesus at our baptism, but that grace is like a wrapped gift. We must take the time to unwrap and open the gift in order to enjoy the benefits.
We unwrap the gift of grace when…
- we encounter Him in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. We can take all of those times we acted out of fear to Him and He will wipe the slate clean. This opens us up to the grace to behave differently in the future.
- we humble ourselves to pray on our knees. This gives God’s grace the room to work within us. So rather than just mumbling my evening prayers as I drop off to sleep, I can actually kneel by my bed, evoking with my body the humility I desire in my soul.
- we practice putting others first. Let someone go ahead of you in line at the grocery store, let that car in on the highway on ramp, open the door for someone. These tiny, seemingly insignificant acts predispose our will to act in love when the choices are tougher.
Dear Lord, help me today, right now, to turn away from acting in fear and like Peter, choose instead to affirm my love for you over and over.
En medio de la pasión de nuestro Señor, Pedro negó conocer a Jesús tres veces. En el Evangelio de hoy, escuchamos a Pedro afirmar su amor por Jesús tres veces. Tres negaciones, tres afirmaciones de amor. San Agustín comentó que Jesús le pregunta tres veces a Pedro para que él, que había negado tres veces por miedo, pudiera confesar tres veces por amor.
¿Cuántas veces, como Pedro, he negado a Jesús por miedo? Tengo una vida muy bendecida y nunca he temido por mi vida, pero he negado a Jesús por miedo. Hubo una vez en que estaba trabajando en un área dominada por otra fe y me advirtieron que metiera mi crucifijo en mi suéter para que no supieran que era católica. Me da tristeza decir que lo hice. He visto suceder algo que sabía que estaba mal, pero no dije nada por miedo a ser ridiculizada o que se rieran de mí. He visto a un necesitado, pero me convencí que no era seguro en estos días detenerme y ayudar.
Sabiendo que he actuado por miedo, ahora puedo elegir actuar por amor. ¿Cómo hago este cambio? ¿Cómo puede el amor vencer al miedo? Para estar preparados a elegir el amor en el momento de la decisión, tenemos que preparar nuestra voluntad para elegir el bien. Esto no es algo que podamos hacer constantemente con nuestras propias fuerzas o deseos. Tenemos que estar abiertos a la gracia de Dios. Recibimos toda la gracia que necesitamos para seguir a Jesús en nuestro bautismo, pero esa gracia es como un regalo envuelto. Debemos tomarnos el tiempo para desenvolver y abrir el regalo para disfrutar de los beneficios.
Desenvolvemos el don de la gracia cuando…
- nos encontramos con Él en el Sacramento de la Reconciliación. Podemos traerle todas esas veces que actuamos por miedo y Él va a borrar la pizarra. Esto nos abre a la gracia para comportarnos de manera diferente en el futuro.
- nos humillamos para rezar de rodillas. Esto le da a la gracia de Dios el espacio para trabajar dentro de nosotros. Así que, en lugar de murmurar las oraciones vespertinas mientras me estoy quedando dormida, puedo arrodillarme junto a mi cama y evocar con mi cuerpo la humildad que deseo en mi alma.
- practicamos poner a los demás primero. Damos paso a alguien para que vaya antes de nosotros en la cola en el supermercado, permitimos que un carro entre en la entrada de la carretera, le abrimos la puerta a alguien. Estos actos pequeños y aparentemente insignificantes predisponen la voluntad a actuar con amor cuando las decisiones son más difíciles.
Querido Señor, ayúdame hoy, ahora mismo, a dejar de actuar con miedo y en cambio, elegir como Pedro a afirmar mi amor por ti una y otra vez.
Sheryl’s first calling is to be wife and partner to Tom, who is a Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Kalamazoo. She also gets to live out her passion for teaching and learning by serving as a teaching principal at St. Therese Catholic School in Wayland, Michigan. Home is full with Carlyn, our goofy golden retriever, Lucy, our terrier mix wild child, and Mila, our rescue Bernese Mountain dog whose happy bouncing and wagging tail reminds us to find joy in every moment of every day.
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