Exactly one decade ago today, I became a mom. It seems surreal that my son is now into double digits, that his feet are almost the same size as mine and he is only a few inches shorter than me. It also seems surreal that my hair is turning gray, my energy is lessening and I find my verbal filters slacking.
Aging, whether it be in childhood or midlife, is one of those things that is simply inevitable. I’m pretty sure I have mentioned this before, but the reality of time and eternity boggles my mind. The second that I typed this word has already passed and is gone, never to return. And yet God resides in a place where there is no limit to time.
I remember thinking as a child (and if I’m honest, maybe even a little bit today) that I didn’t want to live forever, even if it was in heaven. Our finite minds cannot comprehend the infinite. But as I inch closer to the reality of the end of earthly life, I find myself reflecting on it more and more.
The first line of today’s First Reading reads: “Israel loved Joseph best of all his sons”. When I read this, two thoughts come to mind. First, how can a father choose favorites among his children and furthermore, let that be known among his other children? And second, that this is how God sees each and every one of us. Although our minds cannot comprehend it, He loves all of us the best! Each and every one of us are his favorite and especially beloved child. It blows my mind!
In the same way, our Gospel tells us about a landowner with wicked tenants who beat and killed his servants. We read: “Finally, he sent his son to them, thinking, ‘They will respect my son.’” The landowner obviously cared more about his own son than his servants and thought that surely the tenants would too. Unfortunately, this was not the case, but on the contrary, it is surely the case with our heavenly Father. He respects us and loves us so much that he died for us, just as the landowner’s son did.
As a mother, I love my children with a passion and would surely lay down my life for them if it came down to that, yet God loves us in an even deeper way, in a way that we cannot even fathom. Let us bask in that infinite love today, allowing it to penetrate our minds and hearts as we continue our Lenten journeys.
Hoy hace exactamente una década, me convertí en mamá. Parece surrealista que mi hijo ahora tenga edad con dos dígitos, que sus pies sean casi del mismo tamaño que los míos y que solo sea unos cuantos centímetros más bajo que yo. También parece surrealista que mi cabello se esté volviendo gris, mi energía esté disminuyendo y encuentro que mis filtros verbales se aflojan.
El envejecimiento, ya sea en la niñez o en la mediana edad, es una de esas cosas que simplemente son inevitables. Estoy bastante seguro de haber mencionado esto antes, pero la realidad del tiempo y la eternidad me asombra. El segundo que escribí esta palabra ya pasó y se fue, para nunca volver. Y, sin embargo, Dios reside en un lugar donde no hay límite de tiempo.
Recuerdo haber pensado cuando era niña (y si soy honesto, tal vez todavía un poco hoy) que no quería vivir para siempre, aunque fuera en el cielo. Nuestras mentes finitas no pueden comprender el infinito. Pero a medida que me acerco a la realidad del final de la vida terrenal, me encuentro reflexionando sobre ello cada vez más.
La primera línea de la Primera Lectura de hoy dice: “Jacob amaba a José más que a todos sus demás hijos”. Cuando leo esto, dos pensamientos vienen a la mente. Primero, ¿cómo puede un padre elegir favoritos entre sus hijos y, además, hacerlo saber entre sus otros hijos? Y segundo, que así es como Dios nos ve a todos y cada uno de nosotros. Aunque nuestras mentes no pueden comprenderlo, ¡Él nos ama a todos de la mejor manera! Todos y cada uno de nosotros somos su hijo favorito y especialmente amado. ¡Eso me asombra!
De la misma manera, nuestro Evangelio nos habla de un terrateniente con labradores malvados que golpearon y mataron a sus sirvientes. Leemos: “Por último, les mandó a su propio hijo, pensando: ‘A mi hijo lo respetarán’”. El terrateniente obviamente se preocupaba más por su propio hijo que por sus sirvientes y pensó que seguramente los arrendatarios también lo harían. Desafortunadamente, no fue así, sino por el contrario, seguramente es el caso de nuestro Padre celestial. Él nos respeta y nos ama tanto que murió por nosotros, tal como lo hizo el hijo del hacendado.
Como madre, amo a mis hijos con pasión y seguramente daría mi vida por ellos si llegara a eso, sin embargo, Dios nos ama de una manera aún más profunda, de una manera que ni siquiera podemos comprender. Disfrutemos de ese amor infinito hoy, permitiéndole entrar a los más profundo de nuestras mentes y corazones mientras continuamos nuestro camino Cuaresmal.
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Tami Urcia grew up in Western Michigan, a middle child in a large Catholic family. She spent early young adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves tackling projects, finding fun ways to keep her little ones occupied, quiet conversation with the hubby and finding unique ways to love. She works at for Christian Healthcare Centers, is a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net, runs her own blog at https://togetherandalways.wordpress.com and has been doing Spanish translations on the side for over 20 years.
Kathryn Mulderink, MA, is married to Robert, Station Manager for Holy Family Radio. Together they have seven children (including Father Rob), and seven grandchildren. She is President of the local community of Secular Discalced Carmelites and has published five books and many articles. Over the last 30 years, she has worked as a teacher, headmistress, catechist, Pastoral Associate, and DRE, and as a writer and voice talent for Catholic Radio. Currently, she serves the Church by writing and speaking, and by collaborating with various parishes and to lead others to encounter Christ and engage their faith. Her website is
Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at

Elizabeth Tomlin is the author of Joyful Momentum: Building and Sustaining Vibrant Women’s Groups and contributing author to the Ave Prayer Book for Catholic Mothers. She is General Counsel for the Archdiocese for the Military Services, USA. Elizabeth is an Army wife and mother of three and currently lives in the DC area. She blogs at

Merridith Frediani loves words and is delighted by good sentences. She also loves Lake Michigan, dahlias, the first sip of hot coffee in the morning, millennials, and playing Sheepshead with her husband and three kids. She writes for Catholic Mom, Diocesan.com, and her local Catholic Herald. Her first book Draw Close to Jesus: A Woman’s Guide to Adoration is available at Our Sunday Visitor and Amazon. You can learn more at
Sheryl is happy to be the number 1 cheerleader and supporter for her husband, Tom who is a candidate for the Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Kalamazoo. They are so grateful for the opportunity to grow together in this process. Sheryl’s day job is serving her community as the principal for St. Therese Catholic School in Wayland, Michigan. Since every time she thinks she gets life all figured out, she realizes just how far she has to go, St. Rita of Cascia is her go-to Saint for intercession and help. Home includes Carlyn, a very, very goofy Golden Retriever and Lucy, our not-so-little rescue puppy.


Deacon Dan Schneider is a retired general manager of industrial distributors. He and his wife Vicki have been married for over 50 years. They are the parents of eight children and thirty grandchildren. He has a degree in Family Life Education from Spring Arbor University. He was ordained a Permanent Deacon in 2002. He has a passion for working with engaged and married couples and his main ministry has been preparing couples for marriage.