Having grown up on a farm I am very familiar with the imagery of a yoke that is talked about in the Gospel today. The idea is that a wooden plank would be put between two animals in order to disburse the load of heavy equipment like a plow. The key here is that typically a yoke involves two animals.
Imagine carrying the weight of your life on your own. We all have trials and tribulations we go through and it can always help to have the support of our family, friends, and even sometimes a therapist to help us through the difficult things in our lives. But in America we tend to have the mentality that we don’t like to ask for help. It is sometimes seen as weakness to involve other people in the things that hurt us. We want to pull ourselves up on our own and make our own path.
While it is commendable to try to be the best version of ourselves that we can be, we cannot go through this life alone. This is a heresy known as Pelagianism where we assume that we can make it to heaven of our own accord or we can conquer sin without the help of God. If you have ever tried to overcome sin, addiction, trials, or anything else that life throws at you, then you know that you can’t do it alone.
Thankfully, Jesus makes it clear that his yoke is light. Imagine again pulling all of this weight on your own and then Jesus steps in, picks up the yoke, and carries it with you to disburse the weight. This imagery can’t help but make me think of Jesus carrying his cross. He took our sin on his own shoulders in order that we might have the grace to succeed in the spiritual life.
You do not have to do it alone. In fact, Jesus commands that we don’t. He wants to help us. Let’s allow him to disperse the weight of life so that we might have life and have it to the full.
From all of us here at Diocesan, God bless!
Como me crié en una granja, la imagen de un yugo, como la que se habla en el Evangelio de hoy, me es muy familiar. La idea es que se interponga una tabla de madera entre dos animales para desembolsar la carga de equipo pesado como un arado. La clave aquí es que típicamente un yugo involucra dos animales.
Imagina llevar el peso de tu vida por tu propia cuenta. Todos tenemos pruebas y tribulaciones por las que pasamos y siempre puede ayudar tener el apoyo de nuestra familia, amigos e incluso, a veces, un consejero para ayudarnos a superar las cosas difíciles de nuestras vidas. Pero en Estados Unidos tendemos a tener la mentalidad de que no nos gusta pedir ayuda. A veces se ve como una debilidad involucrar a otras personas en las cosas que nos lastiman. Queremos levantarnos por nosotros mismos y hacer nuestro propio camino.
Si bien es admirable tratar de ser la mejor versión posible de nosotros mismos, no podemos pasar por esta vida solos. Esta es una herejía conocida como pelagianismo en la que asumimos que podemos llegar al cielo por nuestra propia cuenta o podemos conquistar el pecado sin la ayuda de Dios. Si alguna vez has tratado de superar el pecado, la adicción, las pruebas o cualquier otra cosa que la vida se te presente, sabes que no puedes hacerlo solo.
Afortunadamente, Jesús deja claro que su yugo es ligero. Imagínate nuevamente cargando todo este peso por tu propia cuenta y luego Jesús interviene, levanta el yugo y lo lleva contigo para desembolsar el peso. Esta imagen no puede evitar hacerme pensar en Jesús cargando su cruz. Él tomó nuestro pecado sobre sus propios hombros para que pudiéramos tener la gracia de tener éxito en la vida espiritual.
No tienes que hacerlo solo. De hecho, Jesús manda que no lo hagamos. Quiere ayudarnos. Dejemos que él disperse el peso de la vida para que tengamos vida y la tengamos en plenitud.
De parte de todos nosotros aquí en Diocesan, ¡Dios los bendiga!

Tommy Shultz is a Business Development Representative for Diocesan. In this role he is committed to bringing the best software to dioceses and parishes while helping them evangelize on the digital continent. Tommy has worked in various diocese and parish roles since his graduation from Franciscan University with a Theology degree. He hopes to use his skills in evangelization, marketing, and communications, to serve the Church and bring the Good News to all. His favorite quote comes from St. John Paul II, who said, “A person is an entity of a sort to which the only proper and adequate way to relate is love.”
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A lover of Jesus Christ, a wife, and a mother of five, Christine is the author of Everyday Heroism: 28 Daily Reflections on the Little Way of Motherhood. She is a graduate of Franciscan University, an instructor for the Institute for Excellence in Writing, and an experienced catechist. Thrilled to have recently become grandparents, she and her husband currently live in Upstate, NY. Visit her author webpage at
Mike Karpus is a regular guy. He grew up in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula, graduated from Michigan State University and works as an editor. He is married to a Catholic school principal, raised two daughters who became Catholic school teachers at points in their careers, and now relishes his two grandchildren, including the older one who is fascinated with learning about his faith. He also has served on a Catholic school board, a pastoral council and a parish stewardship committee. He currently is a lector at Mass, a Knight of Columbus, Adult Faith Formation Committee member and a board member of the local Habitat for Humanity organization. But mostly he’s a regular guy.
Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at
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Tami Urcia grew up in Western Michigan, a middle child in a large Catholic family. She spent early young adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves tackling projects, finding fun ways to keep her little ones occupied, quiet conversation with the hubby and finding unique ways to love. She works at for Christian Healthcare Centers, is a guest blogger on
J.M. Pallas has had a lifelong love of Scriptures. When she is not busy with her vocation as a wife and mother to her “1 Samuel 1” son, or her vocation as a public health educator, you may find her at her parish women’s bible study, affectionately known as “The Bible Chicks.”
Kathryn Mulderink, MA, is married to Robert, Station Manager for Holy Family Radio. Together they have seven children (including Father Rob), and seven grandchildren. She is President of the local community of Secular Discalced Carmelites and has published five books and many articles. Over the last 30 years, she has worked as a teacher, headmistress, catechist, Pastoral Associate, and DRE, and as a writer and voice talent for Catholic Radio. Currently, she serves the Church by writing and speaking, and by collaborating with various parishes and to lead others to encounter Christ and engage their faith. Her website is
Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife and mother. She is blessed to be able to homeschool, bake bread and fold endless piles of laundry. When not planning a school day, writing a blog post or cooking pasta, Kate can be found curled up with a book or working with some kind of fiber craft. Kate blogs at
Sr. Mary Martha Moss, FSP has had the grace of serving the Lord for over 40 years as a Daughter of St. Paul. Joyfully engaged in the community’s media ministry, she has authored 3 children’s books, presented on various topics for adult faith formation, enjoyed running Online Book Studies, served as a Pauline Book & Media Center manager and continues singing the alto part with the Daughters of St. Paul Concert Choir.
Elizabeth Tomlin is the author of Joyful Momentum: Building and Sustaining Vibrant Women’s Groups and contributing author to the Ave Prayer Book for Catholic Mothers. She is General Counsel for the Archdiocese for the Military Services, USA. Elizabeth is an Army wife and mother of three and currently lives in the DC area. She blogs at