The Parable of the Sower helped me understand the transformative power of spending time daily with the Word of God, especially in overcoming obstacles to living the Catholic faith.
Although the Catholic Mass is seeped in Scriptures, it took me years to realize it; not exactly sure where in my catechesis the communication breakdown occurred, but the fact remains that the seeds, the Word of God, had been scattered before me, my entire life. However, like the seeds strewn on the rocky path in the parable, although the Word had reached my ears, the devil took full advantage of my ignorance and snatched the meaning away before it could penetrate my heart.
At times, I attempted to grow spiritually by attending retreats or presentations. These set my heart on fire for the things of God. All my senses heightened — the incense smelled sweeter, the readings felt more inspired, the homilies touched deep into my heart as if they were written just for me; even kneeling in prayer felt more reverent. Filled with this renewed desire to become closer to God, I vowed to pray a daily Rosary, attend Mass more faithfully, and not give into my fears by continuing to avoid the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
Yet, over time all those things I had discovered to nourish my budding faith — the encouraging retreat team, consistent study of the Scriptures, or quiet time for prayer — faded. I did not stick with anything long enough to develop deep roots of faith, and my attention to God withered away. Left with a thirst for more yet unable to duplicate the euphoric feelings of my retreat experiences, I allowed the thorns of the world to grow all around me. Any seeds dropped would be choked by the weeds of daily worries, concerns, and tasks.
Prayer dissolved into a speedy blessing before meals, a quick petition as I tried to make our income cover our expenses, or an Our Father or Hail Mary as I drifted off to sleep; all prayed more out of habit than a yearning for a deeper faith. My weekly Mass participation spurned more out of a desire for perfect attendance and a heavenly insurance policy than a love of the Lord.
Finally, joining a small group faith sharing tilled the rich soil necessary for true spiritual growth. However, even rich soil needs consistent tending for seeds to continue flourishing within it—weeds of distraction, busyness, and apathy need constant extraction, or they will completely overtake our time with the Lord. Fertilizing the soil is critical. Our faith is watered and nurtured by what I refer to as the “Grace Trifecta,” which consists of daily participation in prayer, sacrament, and Scripture. Our beautiful Catholic faith provides the gardening tools for an abundant harvest; we merely need to pick them up and tend the soil of our souls.
La parábola del sembrador me ayudó a comprender el poder transformador de pasar tiempo diariamente con la Palabra de Dios, especialmente para superar los obstáculos para vivir la fe católica.
Aunque la Misa Católica está filtrada en las Escrituras, me tomó años darme cuenta; No estoy exactamente segura cuando ocurrió la ruptura de comunicación en mi catequesis, pero el hecho es que las semillas, la Palabra de Dios, habían sido esparcidas ante mí toda mi vida. Sin embargo, como las semillas esparcidas en el camino pedregoso de la parábola, aunque la Palabra había llegado a mis oídos, el diablo se aprovechó de mi ignorancia y me arrebató el significado antes de que pudiera penetrar mi corazón.
A veces, traté de crecer espiritualmente asistiendo a retiros o presentaciones. Estos encienden mi corazón por las cosas de Dios. Todos mis sentidos se intensificaron: el incienso olía más dulce, las lecturas se sentían más inspiradas, las homilías tocaron profundamente mi corazón como si hubieran sido escritas sólo para mí; incluso el hecho de arrodillarme en la oración se sentía más reverente. Llena de este renovado deseo de acercarme más a Dios, prometí rezar un Rosario diario, asistir a Misa más fielmente y no ceder a mis miedos al seguir evitando el Sacramento de la Reconciliación.
Sin embargo, con el tiempo, todas las cosas que había descubierto para nutrir mi fe incipiente (el equipo del retiro alentador, el estudio constante de las Escrituras o el tiempo devocional para la oración) se desvanecieron. No me aferré a nada el tiempo suficiente para desarrollar raíces profundas de fe, y mi atención a Dios se marchitó. Con sed de más pero incapaz de duplicar los sentimientos eufóricos de mis experiencias de retiro, permití que las espinas del mundo crecieran a mi alrededor. Las semillas que cayeron se ahogaron por las malas hierbas de las preocupaciones y las tareas diarias.
La oración se disolvió en una rápida bendición antes de las comidas, una petición apurada mientras intentaba los gastos con nuestros ingresos, o un padrenuestro o un avemaría mientras me dormía; todo rezado más por costumbre que por un anhelo de una fe más profunda. Mi participación en la misa semanal se despreció más por un deseo de asistencia perfecta y una póliza de seguro celestial que por amor al Señor.
Finalmente, unirme a un pequeño grupo para compartir la fe labró la rica tierra necesaria para un verdadero crecimiento espiritual. Sin embargo, incluso un suelo fértil necesita un cuidado constante para que las semillas sigan floreciendo en él: las malas hierbas de la distracción, el ajetreo y la apatía tienen que estar extraídas constantemente, o se apoderarán por completo de nuestro tiempo con el Señor. Fertilizar el suelo es fundamental. Nuestra fe es regada y nutrida por lo que yo llamo la “Gracia Trifecta”, que consiste en la participación diaria en la oración, los sacramentos y las Escrituras. Nuestra hermosa fe católica proporciona las herramientas de jardinería para una cosecha abundante; simplemente tenemos que recogerlos y cuidar la tierra de nuestras almas.
Allison Gingras ( www.ReconciledToYou.com ) — Shares her love of the Catholic Faith with stories, laughter, and honesty as experienced in the ordinary of life! Her writing includes Encountering Signs of Faith (Ave Maria Press) and the Stay Connected Journals for Women (OSV). Allison is a Catholic Digital Media Specialist for Family Rosary, Catholic Mom, and the Fall River Diocese. She hosts A Seeking Heart podcast and is co-host of the Catholic Momcast podcast.Feature Image Credit: congerdesign, pixabay.com/photos/garden-gardening-hoe-garden-tools-1290801/
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