By now, summer is in full swing. The t-shirts and shorts are out, the sandals are broken in and perhaps we have already made a trip or two to the beach. Winter seems long since passed and we are enjoying the slower-paced days while the kiddos are off of school and sports activities. It’s time for some much needed Vitamin D, some much needed exercise and some much needed family time.
In our family, a lot of our “trips to the beach” happen in a 10-ft blow up pool in the backyard. A lot of our “going out for ice cream” happens when we scoop it from a carton to a cone. And a lot of our “vacations” consist of visiting family. A trip to Disney World or the Carribean are not in the cards for us, yet that doesn’t mean we don’t have fun. We enjoy these times just as much or maybe even more than those who spend thousands of dollars.
It all comes down to gratitude. When we don’t take anything for granted, when we consider everything a gift, contentment is a natural consequence. We cannot be thankful and bitter at the same time. It would be like oil and water. When appreciation fills our soul, joy floods in as well, because we realize that we don’t deserve a single thing, yet it is given to us anyway. God gives it to us out of sheer love.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus talks about those who have built their house on rock and how it did not collapse like the others. Those who built their house on sand watched it wash away with the wind and the rain. They did not build on a firm foundation. Their intentions were not pure; their actions were not done in love.
An attitude of gratitude constantly lifts our hearts to God. It helps us to realize that nothing comes of our own accord. It leads to humility of heart. It can be that firm foundation that we build upon that helps us to grow in virtue. It can prevent the “house” of our souls from crumbling down in anxiety and despair.
God loves us so much and he always provides for us. He can never be outdone in generosity, and for this let us give thanks!
A estas alturas, el verano está en pleno apogeo. Sacamos las playeras y los pantalones cortos, las sandalias nuevas ya nos quedan cómodos y quizás ya hemos ido una o dos veces a la playa. El invierno parece haber pasado hace mucho tiempo y estamos disfrutando de los días más tranquilos mientras los niños no están en la escuela ni en las actividades deportivas. Es hora de tomar la muy necesaria vitamina D, hacer el muy necesario ejercicio y pasar el muy necesario tiempo en familia.
En nuestra familia, muchos de nuestros “viajes a la playa” se realizan en una piscina inflable de 10 pies en el patio trasero. La gran parte de nuestras “salidas a tomar un helado” ocurren cuando lo sacamos del contenedor de la tienda y lo colocamos en un cono. Y muchas de nuestras “vacaciones” consisten en visitar a la familia. Un viaje a Disney World o al Caribe capaz nunca nos tocará, pero eso no significa que no nos divirtamos. Disfrutamos estos tiempos tanto o incluso más que aquellos que gastan miles de dólares.
Todo se reduce a la gratitud. Cuando no tomamos nada por hecho, cuando consideramos todo un regalo, la alegría es una consecuencia natural. No podemos estar agradecidos y amargados al mismo tiempo. Sería como el aceite y el agua. Cuando el aprecio llena nuestra alma, la alegría también la inunda, porque nos damos cuenta de que no merecemos nada, pero de todos modos nos lo dan. Dios nos lo da por puro amor.
En el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús habla de aquellos que han construido su casa sobre roca y de cómo ésta no se derrumbó como las demás. Los que construyeron sus casas sobre arena la vieron arrastrada por el viento y la lluvia. No construyeron sobre un cimiento firme. Sus intenciones no eran puras; sus acciones no fueron hechas con amor.
Una actitud de gratitud eleva constantemente el corazón a Dios. Nos ayuda a darnos cuenta de que nada surge por nuestra cuenta. Conduce a la humildad de corazón. Puede ser ese cimiento firme sobre el cual construimos lo que nos ayude a crecer en virtud. Puede evitar que la “casa” de nuestras almas se desmorone por la ansiedad y la desesperación.
Dios nos ama mucho y siempre provee por nosotros. Él nunca podrá ser superado en la generosidad, ¡y por ello, demos gracias!
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Tami Urcia grew up in Western Michigan, a middle child in a large Catholic family. She spent early young adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves tackling projects, finding fun ways to keep her little ones occupied, quiet conversation with the hubby and finding unique ways to love. She works full time at Diocesan, is a guest blogger on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net, and has been doing Spanish translations on the side for over 20 years.
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