The Son of Man Came to Give His Life / El Hijo del Hombre Vino a Dar su Vida

In today’s Gospel reading, Jesus tells His apostles that “the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give His life as a ransom for many.”

If we want to know how much God loves us, we need only look at the sacrifice Christ made by coming here and dying for our sins. As Fr. Mike Schmitz once said, “It is not the nails that kept Jesus on the cross. It’s His love for you.”

Christ’s love for us is hard to imagine. What He allowed Himself to go through is hard to imagine. The Sorrowful Mysteries of the Rosary are meant to help us focus on just how much Christ loves us. We can walk with Him in His pain, and we can walk with Him in His fears, for He was human as well as divine.

We can picture Jesus’ agony in the Garden of Gethsemane. He knows what will happen, yet He fears it. He asks His Father to take the cup away—if it is His will. He knows that it is not.

Jesus is then arrested, questioned, and mocked. He is scourged at the pillar and crowned with thorns. He is forced to carry His heavy cross to Golgotha, where soldiers drove nails through his flesh. He then hung on a cross in the hot sun, dying a slow and agonizing death.

He did this for you. He did this for me.

When we look at the crucifix, we should feel not just sorrow, but amazement. We should feel unworthy as the recipients of His love. And we should be grateful.

But do we thank Him? As we go about our days, do we think about His sacrifice? Do we think about His pain? Or are we too focused on worldly things to contemplate these facts?

As we look at Christ on the crucifix, let us allow ourselves to be filled with wonder as we ask Him: “You did all this to save me?”

We know that His answer is a resounding yes.

When we think about Christ’s yes, let us feel grateful, loved, and adored because what He gave us was an incredible gift that we are not worthy of.

As we reflect on all Christ did—and still does—for us, let us also contemplate Mary standing at the foot of the cross, her heartbreaking yet overflowing with love. It was her yes, her fiat to God that helped give the world such a gift.

And finally, let us think about how we too can say yes to God today and every day as we work to build a culture of life. Let us resolve to spend more time in prayer at the crucifix giving thanks for Christ’s sacrifice. And then let us live our lives expressing that gratitude.

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En la lectura del Evangelio de hoy, Jesús les dice a sus apóstoles que “el Hijo del hombre no ha venido a ser servido, sino a servir y a dar la vida por la redención de todos”.

Si queremos saber cuánto nos ama Dios, solo tenemos que mirar el sacrificio que Cristo hizo al venir aquí y morir por nuestros pecados. Como el P. Mike Schmitz dijo una vez: “No son los clavos los que mantuvieron a Jesús en la cruz sino Su amor por ti”.

El amor de Cristo por nosotros es difícil de imaginar. Es difícil imaginar lo que se permitió pasar. Los Misterios Dolorosos del Rosario están destinados a ayudarnos a centrarnos en cuánto nos ama Cristo. Podemos caminar con Él en Su dolor, y podemos caminar con Él en Sus temores, porque Él era tanto humano como divino.

Podemos imaginarnos la agonía de Jesús en el Huerto de Getsemaní. Él sabe lo que sucederá, pero lo teme. Le pide a Su Padre que retire la copa, si es Su voluntad. Él sabe que no lo es.

Entonces Jesús es arrestado, interrogado y burlado. Es azotado en la columna y coronado de espinas. Se ve obligado a llevar Su pesada cruz al Gólgota, donde los soldados le clavan clavos en la carne. Luego colgó de una cruz bajo el sol abrasador, muriendo una muerte lenta y agonizante.

Él hizo esto por ti. Él hizo esto por mí.

Cuando miramos el crucifijo, debemos sentir no sólo tristeza, sino también asombro. Debemos sentirnos indignos como destinatarios de su amor. Y debemos estar agradecidos.

¿Pero le damos las gracias? A medida que avanzamos en nuestros días, ¿pensamos en Su sacrificio? ¿Pensamos en Su dolor? ¿O estamos demasiado centrados en las cosas mundanas para contemplar estos hechos?

Mientras miramos a Cristo en el crucifijo, dejémonos maravillar al preguntarle: “¿Hiciste todo esto para salvarme?”

Sabemos que su respuesta es un sí entusiastico.

Cuando pensamos en el sí de Cristo, sintámonos agradecidos, amados y adorados porque lo que Él nos dio fue un regalo increíble del que no somos dignos.

Mientras reflexionamos sobre todo lo que Cristo hizo, y todavía hace, por nosotros, también contemplemos a María parada al pie de la cruz, su corazón desgarrador pero lleno de amor. Fue su sí, su “fiat” a Dios lo que ayudó a dar al mundo tal don.

Y finalmente, pensemos en cómo nosotros también podemos decir sí a Dios hoy y todos los días mientras trabajamos para construir una cultura de vida. Resolvamos pasar más tiempo en oración ante el crucifijo dando gracias por el sacrificio de Cristo. Y luego vivamos nuestras vidas expresando esa gratitud.

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Susan Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame, with an MA in liberal studies from Indiana University. For the past 19 years, she has worked as a professional editor and writer, editing both fiction and nonfiction books, magazine articles, blogs, educational lessons, professional materials and website content. Thirteen of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently Susan freelances and writes weekly for HLI, edits for American Life League, and is the executive editor of Celebrate Life Magazine. She also serves as executive editor for the Culture of Life Studies Program—an educational nonprofit program for K-12 students. You can reach her at slochner0.wixsite.com/website.

Feature Image Credit: Alberto Skw, https://cathopic.com/photo/8155-rostro-de-cristo-en-la-cruz