It’s hard to hear when we are wrong. It’s especially difficult to discover what we hoped to achieve was within our grasp, but we failed at some small detail, which led to a much larger failure. Everyone likes the wording of Einstein’s quote about finding 1,000 ways not to make a lightbulb, instead of 1,000 failures before achieving what he sought to create. And while yes, this highlights the positive side of the coin, you can also see it as 1,000 failures. He persevered through them and learned from them to make his discovery. Two sides of the same coin. Sometimes, highlighting one side over the other is more effective for learning and growth. A good mentor knows which side to use and when.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus highlights a shortcoming of the disciples. He tells them that, due to their little faith, they were unable to cure the man’s son. Jesus is nothing if not frank with His disciples, there is no sugar-coating this teaching. They had to step up and step into the faith He was giving to them. They had failed.
It’s not so easy to hear this kind of tough love moment from Jesus. One of the beautiful things about the Bible is that we are able to see Jesus from many angles. Jesus, God and man, is someone we will never fully understand. Yet, through the eyes of the four Gospel writers as well as St. Paul and the other letter writers, we are offered images, faces, or facets of Jesus. All are Jesus. But just as a precious gemstone has many facets which offer unique glimpses of the stone’s beauty, so too we are able to perceive different facets of Jesus in these stories.
Jesus is the gentle Good Shepherd, and He is also the King of Kings. Jesus is the sacrificial Lamb, and He is also the Lord of Hosts. Jesus is the humble Rabbi, and He is the Just Judge. In today’s Gospel, we see Jesus the mentor, the one who lovingly but without hesitation points out the places where we are falling short. He calls us, as He called the disciples, to greatness, not a mediocre effort. Jesus also reminds us that even when we do fall short, He never stops reaching out to us in love and compassion. His gift of faith is continually extended, the same faith He offered to His apostles.
Es difícil escuchar cuando estamos equivocados. Es especialmente difícil descubrir que lo que esperábamos lograr estaba a nuestro alcance, pero fallamos en algún pequeño detalle, lo que condujo a un fracaso mucho mayor. A todos les gusta la redacción de las palabras de Einstein sobre encontrar 1000 formas de no hacer una bombilla, en lugar de 1000 fallas antes de lograr lo que buscaba crear. Y aunque sí, esto resalta el lado positivo de la moneda, también podemos verlo como 1000 fallas. Perseveró a través de ellos y aprendió de ellos para hacer su descubrimiento. Son dos lados de la misma moneda. A veces, resaltar un lado sobre el otro es más efectivo para el aprendizaje y el crecimiento. Un buen mentor sabe cuál lado utilizar y cuándo.
En el Evangelio de hoy, Jesús destaca un defecto de los discípulos. Les dice que, debido a su poca fe, no pudieron curar al hijo del hombre. Jesús es muy directo con sus discípulos, no hay forma de endulzar esta enseñanza. Tenían que dar un paso al frente y entrar en la fe que les estaba dando. Habían fallado.
No es tan fácil escuchar este tipo de momento de amor duro de parte de Jesús. Una de las cosas hermosas de la Biblia es que podemos ver a Jesús desde muchos ángulos. Jesús, Dios y hombre, es alguien a quien nunca entenderemos completamente. Sin embargo, a través de los ojos de los cuatro escritores de los Evangelios, así como de San Pablo y los otros escritores de cartas, se nos ofrecen imágenes, rostros o facetas de Jesús. Todos son Jesús. Pero así como una piedra preciosa tiene muchas facetas que ofrecen vislumbres únicos de la belleza de la piedra, también podemos percibir diferentes facetas de Jesús en estas historias.
Jesús es el gentil Buen Pastor, y también es el Rey de Reyes. Jesús es el Cordero del sacrificio, y también es el Señor de los Ejércitos. Jesús es el Rabino humilde, y es el Juez Justo. En el Evangelio de hoy, vemos a Jesús el Mentor, el que con amor pero sin dudarlo señala los lugares en los que nos estamos quedando cortos. Nos llama, como llamó a sus discípulos, a la grandeza, no a un esfuerzo mediocre. Jesús también nos recuerda que incluso cuando nos quedamos cortos, nunca deja de tendernos la mano con amor y compasión. Su don de fe se extiende continuamente, la misma fe que ofreció a sus apóstoles.
Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife and mother. She is blessed to be able to homeschool, bake bread and fold endless piles of laundry. When not planning a school day, writing a blog post or cooking pasta, Kate can be found curled up with a book or working with some kind of fiber craft. Kate blogs at DailyGraces.net.
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