As soon as I walk in the door from any given workday, I am ambushed by a barrage of “Mommy!!!” “Hi Mommy!” and “Yeah! Mommy’s home!!” My usually subdued workplace atmosphere gives way to the chaos of several littles as I try to get dinner on the table while listening to their stories and complaints.
Sometimes these moments are overwhelming. Sometimes my reactions are not loving. Sometimes I wish I had some earplugs. Sometimes, I remind myself to take a step back and take it all in while it lasts.
I often feel like I’m in the midst of a whirlwind. One day blows into the other at a rapid pace. The years go by in the blink of an eye. Am I behaving as I should as a Catholic Christian?
Today’s Psalm exclaims: “Give thanks to the LORD, invoke his name; make known among the nations his deeds.” I do want to be thankful and call upon Him always; I do want to teach my children (my own little nation) about all He has done so that they may follow in His footsteps. Everything I do matters. Every comment I make, every tone of voice I emit, will affect them in one way or another. I invoke your name oh, Lord. Teach me your ways.
The Gospel tells us: “A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a rotten tree bear good fruit.” I long to be that good tree that bears fruits of goodness in my children. There are days that I hear sarcasm come out of their mouths and I say to myself, “I taught them that.” And there are other days that I hear them say, “I shared with my brother today” and I taught them that too.
The daily struggle between good and evil is real, but if we remember to invoke the Lord and ask Him to teach us His ways, He can make that good fruit grow within us. May our children, and all those we encounter, find Christ through our good fruits.
Tan pronto como entro por la puerta después de un día de trabajo, me asalta un coro de voces “¡Mami!”, “¡Hola, mami!” y “¡Sí! ¡Mami está en casa!”. Mi atmósfera laboral, que suele ser tranquila, da paso al caos de varios pequeños mientras trato de preparar la cena y escucho sus historias y quejas del día.
A veces, estos momentos son agobiantes. A veces, mis reacciones no son amorosas. A veces desearía tener tapones para los oídos. A veces, me recuerdo a mí misma que debo dar un paso atrás y asimilarlo todo sabiendo que estos años no durarán.
A menudo me siento como si estuviera en medio de un torbellino. Un día se tropieza con otro a un ritmo rápido. Los años pasan en un abrir y cerrar de ojos. ¿Me estoy comportando como debo como cristiano católico?
El Salmo de hoy exclama: “Aclamen al Señor y denle gracias, canten sus maravillas a los pueblos”. Quiero estar agradecida e aclamarle siempre; Quiero enseñarles a mis hijos (mi propio pueblo pequeño) de todas sus maravillas para que puedan seguir Sus pasos. Todo lo que hago importa. Cada comentario que digo, cada tono de voz que emito, los afectará de una manera u otra. Aclamo tu nombre, oh Señor. Enséñame tus caminos.
El Evangelio nos dice: “Todo árbol bueno da frutos buenos y el árbol malo da frutos malos”. Anhelo ser ese buen árbol que dé frutos de bondad en mis hijos. Hay días en que oigo sarcasmo salir de sus bocas y me digo a mí misma: “Eso les enseñé”. Y hay otros días en que los oigo decir: “Compartí con mi hermano hoy” y les enseñé eso también.
La lucha diaria entre el bien y el mal es real, pero si recordamos aclamar al Señor y pedirle que nos enseñe Sus caminos, Él puede hacer que ese buen fruto crezca dentro de nosotros. Que nuestros hijos, y todos aquellos con quienes interactuamos, encuentren a Cristo a través de nuestros buenos frutos.
Tami Urcia is a midwestern gal from a large Catholic family. As a young adulthood she was a missionary in Mexico, where she studied theology and philosophy. After returning stateside bilingual, she gained a variety of work experience, traveled extensively and finished her Bachelor’s Degree at Brescia University. She loves organizing and simplifying things, watching her children play sports, deep conversations with close family and friends and finding unique ways to brighten others’ day with Christ’s love. She works full time at Diocesan in the Software Department and manages the Inspiration Daily reflections. She is also a contributing writer on CatholicMom.com and BlessedIsShe.net.
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