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An Answer to Prayer / Respuestas a las Oraciones

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Both readings today present us with dramatic answers to prayers. I think this is why we get our hopes up so high when we pray. We want a big answer, sign, and response so we can be sure. We want our answer so clear that no discernment is needed and no doubt crosses our minds. And yet, both the unnamed woman and Zechariah cooperate with God. The conception that occurs for both couples is miraculous, but the couples cooperated with the grace offered, they accepted the answer to prayer and did their part.

This is where I falter. I am often so much like Zechariah that it’s a wonder the good Lord doesn’t have something hit me upside my head when He answers my prayers. Because He does. All the time. And yet, I question, “was that really what He meant?” “He wants me to do what?” “So I am moving forward in the right direction?”

I ask questions. I discern. I believe, to the best of my ability, that I understand God’s will in this particular situation – and I stall. Is it only me? I want to be sure. Or is it that I don’t want to fail? Hmm, yes, there it is. Fear of failing. It’s worse than FOMO (fear of missing out). In a few days, we will celebrate the birth of our Savior. And in the lineage of Jesus, in all the prophets who came before Him, people cooperated with the grace of God. I think that some of them may have had Fear Of Failing before cooperating with God’s grace. Indeed, it seems based on Scriptures that Samson’s mother and Elizabeth both believed they had failed at bearing a child. Yet God’s grace saved them. And grace is what can propel us out of fear of failing to believe that whatever God calls us to, He sees us through. 

Ask for the grace. And then, keep your eyes and soul open to see the grace. Cooperate with the grace. Believe that you have received the answer to your prayer.

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Ambas lecturas de hoy nos presentan respuestas dramáticas a las oraciones. Creo que es por eso que tenemos tantas esperanzas cuando oramos. Queremos una señal y una gran respuesta para que podamos estar seguros. Queremos que nuestra respuesta sea tan clara que no se necesite discernimiento y que ninguna duda se nos cruce por la mente. Y, sin embargo, tanto la mujer sin nombre como Zacarías cooperan con Dios. La concepción que se produce para ambas parejas es milagrosa, pero las parejas cooperaron con la gracia ofrecida, aceptaron la respuesta a la oración y pusieron de su parte.

Aquí es donde vacilo. A menudo me parezco tanto a Zacarías que es un milagro que Dios no tenga que golpearme con algo en la cabeza cuando contesta mis oraciones. Porque sí las contesta. Todo el tiempo. Y, sin embargo, me pregunto, “¿fue eso realmente lo que quiso decir?” “¿Quiere que haga qué cosa?” “¿Entonces estoy avanzando en la dirección correcta?”

Hago preguntas para discernir. Creo, lo mejor que puedo, que entiendo la voluntad de Dios en esta situación particular, pero de todos modos me detengo. Quiero estar segura. ¿O es que no quiero fallar? Hmm, sí, ahí está. Miedo a fallar. Es peor que miedo a perderse algo. En unos días celebraremos el nacimiento de nuestro Salvador. Y en el linaje de Jesús, en todos los profetas que vinieron antes de Él, la gente cooperó con la gracia de Dios. Creo que algunos de ellos pueden haber tenido miedo a fracasar antes de cooperar con la gracia de Dios. De hecho, parece basado en las Escrituras que la madre de Sansón e Isabel creían que habían fallado en tener un hijo. Sin embargo, la gracia de Dios los salvó. Y la gracia es lo que puede impulsarnos a hacer lo que Dios nos llama hacer a pesar del miedo. Él nos ayuda.

Pide la gracia. Y luego, mantén tus ojos y tu alma abiertos para ver la gracia. Coopera con la gracia. Cree que has recibido la respuesta a tus oraciones.

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God is “I Am” / Dios es “Yo Soy”

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Many years ago, I heard a priest speak about God as the God of the present. He tells Moses, “I AM.” Not that he was or will be, but I AM. As in, now, the present. When I read both the First Reading and the Gospel, I am struck by how we are told to live now in this present moment, and the future (specifically heaven) will take care of itself. 

Of course, we do need to behave now in certain ways, following the Commandments, living out the Beatitudes, and Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy. We cannot behave as if God does not exist or has no expectations of us. He does exist and there are expectations. 

But sometimes we worry or concern ourselves with things that are beyond our control or above our pay grade rather than focusing on what is right in front of us. As we near the end of the liturgical year, how can you shift your focus from things that have been a burden in your spiritual life out of fear or frustration? This is a reminder; God is the God of the living, and He sent Jesus to us so that we would have lives of abundance and fullness.

Lay your burdens down at the foot of the Cross. Give them over to the One who helps us carry them and can change them. I have seen in my own life that the greatest fruit comes from embracing the trials of my life, surrendering them, and moving with God in the present. The more I concern myself with “what if” the less peace I have in my life. 

This does not mean we avoid planning for or thinking about the future. It means we do so out of prudence, not out of worry or fear. There is a big difference between planning to control all facets of our life to walking with God and being united with His will for us. 

What is God asking of you in this present moment? How can you shift your mind from worrying about the future to trusting Him in the now?

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Hace muchos años, escuché a un sacerdote hablar de Dios como el Dios del presente. Le dice a Moisés: “YO SOY”. No es que haya sido o vaya a ser, sino que YO SOY, ahora, en el presente. Cuando leo tanto la Primera Lectura como el Evangelio, me sorprende cómo se nos dice que vivamos ahora en este momento presente, y el futuro (específicamente el cielo) se cuidará solo.

Por supuesto, tenemos que comportarnos ahora de cierta manera, siguiendo los Mandamientos, viviendo las Bienaventuranzas y las Obras de Misericordia Corporales y Espirituales. No podemos comportarnos como si Dios no existiera o no tuviera expectativas de nosotros. Él sí existe y hay expectativas.

Pero a veces nos preocupamos por cosas que están fuera de nuestro control o por encima de nuestro salario en lugar de centrarnos en lo que tenemos enfrente. A medida que nos acercamos al final del año litúrgico, ¿cómo puedes cambiar tu enfoque de las cosas que han sido una carga en tu vida espiritual por miedo o frustración? Esto es un recordatorio; Dios es el Dios de los vivos, y nos envió a Jesús para que tuviéramos una vida de abundancia y plenitud.

Depositan sus cargas al pie de la Cruz. Entrégalos a Aquel que nos ayuda a llevarlos y puede cambiarlos. He visto en mi propia vida que el mayor fruto proviene de aceptar las pruebas de mi vida, entregarlas y moverme con Dios en el presente. Cuanto más me preocupo por “qué pasaría si”, menos paz tengo en mi vida.

Esto no significa que evitemos planificar o pensar en el futuro. Significa que lo hacemos por prudencia, no por preocupación o miedo. Hay una gran diferencia entre planear controlar todas las facetas de nuestra vida y caminar con Dios y estar unidos a Su voluntad para nosotros.
¿Qué te está pidiendo Dios en este momento presente? ¿Cómo puedes cambiar tu mente de preocuparte por el futuro a confiar en Él aquí y ahora?

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Jesus is Coming, Look Busy / Ya Viene Jesús, Luzca Ocupado

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Jesus is coming but we do not know when. And our goal as Christians is not to simply “look busy” but to be about the work that is ours. Many years ago I heard the acronym for ‘busy’ – Being Under Satan’s Yoke. It can be true that our busyness is more about the need to do something to fill our time and look productive rather than focus on what is truly important. 

St. Paul gives us a glimpse into what is important in the First Reading when he tells us we are co-heirs and co-partners, that we have the promise of Jesus Christ and are meant to share His Gospel. What does that mean that we are co-partners? It means we do not walk our faith adventure alone. We walk with a Trinitarian God, Father, Son, and Spirit who are not up there somewhere but right here, with us in our daily life, full of joys and struggles. We walk with all the saints, named and unnamed, who have gone before us. We walk with our fellow believers in our family, friends, and community. We are not meant to go through life alone. We are meant to be in community. And we are meant to serve. 

Just as the servants had a responsibility to their tasks, so do we. Once you heed the call to be a Christian, you respond by doing the will of God. We do the tasks that are in front of us faithfully and with purpose. We have all been asked much and as Jesus tells us, much will be expected of us. This is our reminder, our marching orders, to live responsibly so that when Jesus comes, we are ready. 

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Jesús viene pero no sabemos cuándo. Y nuestra meta como cristianos no es simplemente “lucir ocupados”, sino trabajar en lo nuestro. Hace muchos años escuché el acrónimo de “ocupado” en inglés como: estar bajo del yugo de Satanás. Puede ser cierto que nuestro ajetreo se trata más de la necesidad de hacer algo para llenar nuestro tiempo y parecer productivo en lugar de centrarnos en lo que es realmente importante.

San Pablo nos da una idea de lo que es importante en la Primera Lectura cuando nos dice que somos coherederos y copartícipes, que tenemos la promesa de Jesucristo y estamos destinados a compartir Su Evangelio. ¿Qué significa eso de que somos copartícipes? Significa que no caminamos solos en nuestra aventura de fe. Caminamos con un Dios Trinitario, Padre, Hijo y Espíritu Santo que no está allá arriba en algún lugar sino aquí mismo, con nosotros en nuestra vida diaria, llenos de alegrías y luchas. Caminamos con todos los santos, con nombre y sin nombre, que nos han precedido. Caminamos con nuestros hermanos creyentes en nuestra familia, amigos y comunidad. No estamos destinados a pasar la vida solos. Estamos destinados a estar en comunidad. Y estamos destinados a servir.

Así como los sirvientes tenían la responsabilidad de sus tareas, nosotros también. Una vez que escuchas el llamado a ser cristiano, respondes haciendo la voluntad de Dios. Hacemos las tareas que están frente nuestro fielmente y con un propósito. A todos se nos ha pedido mucho y como nos dice Jesús, mucho se esperará de nosotros. Este es nuestro recordatorio, nuestra orden de marcha, vivir responsablemente para que cuando venga Jesús, estemos listos.

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The Light of Christ / La Luz de Cristo

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I had a slightly cheeky thought when I read today’s Psalm Response, “The just one shall live on your holy mountain, O Lord.” It’s easy to be just living on the Lord’s holy mountain, isn’t it? The readings from Proverbs and Psalm 15 make similar points. They teach us how to treat each other  – with kindness, respect, and peacefulness. It seems counter-cultural and is advice our world needs very much to pay attention to, now. Yet, those words are not recent at all, but from centuries ago, before Jesus was even born. It reminds me that our problems in this world are not as new or unique as we think. 

Is it possible that some of our problems are because of our behavior? Are we hiding our light under the bed? Keep reading, this will make sense, I promise. Do you hide your faith? Are you hesitant about being the person God created you to be in this world and for this world? Your light is your power, your faith, your commitment to Christ. Your light is what you have been given that makes you uniquely you. And the world needs you. 

Often though, showing “me” to the world is frightening. The fear of judgment, of being misunderstood, of seeming like I am too much, makes me pause and turn down the brightness. That is not what Jesus wants. 

When He says, “To anyone who has, more will be given, and from the one who has not, even what he seems to have will be taken away,” I don’t think He is talking about money or possessions. If we hide our light, in other words, turn from following Christ because it is easier on us, what we have will be taken from us – our faith will be taken because it will seem as if we have no use for faith. Does that apply to you?

I don’t know. I know that sometimes it applies to me. When I allow doubt and fear to grow bigger than the promises of Jesus and the words of Scripture. When the sacraments seem like a good idea, but require so much effort, so I tell myself I have too much to do so I can’t go to daily Mass or make it to confession. You see, faith requires action. If I don’t act on my faith, what good is having it?

Our call is to be people of faith, letting the light of Christ shine through us for others to see. How that happens is unique to each one of us. How will you allow Christ’s light to shine through you today?

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Cuando leí el Salmo Responsorial de hoy: “¿Quién será grato a tus ojos Señor?”, pensé, “Ees fácil ser una persona justa en momentos buenos, ¿no?” Las lecturas de Proverbios y el Salmo 15 plantean puntos similares. Nos enseñan cómo tratarnos unos a otros, con amabilidad, respeto y paz. Parece contracultural y es un consejo al que nuestro mundo necesita mucho prestar atención ahora. Sin embargo, esas palabras no son de hoy en día, sino de siglos atrás, incluso antes de que Jesús naciera. Me recuerda que nuestros problemas en este mundo no son tan nuevos o únicos como pensamos.

¿Es posible que algunos de nuestros problemas se deban a nuestro comportamiento? ¿Estamos escondiendo nuestra luz debajo de la cama? Si sigues leyendo, esto tendrá sentido, te lo prometo. ¿Escondes tu fe? ¿Dudas que seas la persona que Dios te creó ser en este mundo y para este mundo? Tu luz es tu poder, tu fe, tu compromiso con Cristo. Tu luz es lo que se te ha dado que te hace único. Y el mundo te necesita.

Sin embargo, a menudo mostrar el “yo” al mundo da miedo. El miedo al juicio, a que me malinterpreten, a lucir que soy demasiado, me hace detenerme y bajar el brillo. Eso no es lo que Jesús quiere.

Cuando Él dice: “al que tiene se le dará más; pero al que no tiene se le quitará aun aquello que cree tener”, no creo que esté hablando de dinero o posesiones. Si ocultamos nuestra luz, es decir, nos alejamos de seguir a Cristo porque es más fácil para nosotros, lo que tenemos nos será quitado, nuestra fe será quitada porque parecerá que no tenemos ningún uso para la fe. ¿Eso se aplica a ti?

No sé. Sé que a veces se aplica a mí. Cuando permito que la duda y el miedo crezcan más que las promesas de Jesús y las palabras de las Escrituras. Cuando los sacramentos parecen una buena idea, pero requieren tanto esfuerzo, entonces me digo a mí mismo que tengo mucho que hacer, así que no puedo ir a Misa diaria o llegar a confesarme. Ves, la fe requiere acción. Si no actúo de mi fe, ¿de qué sirve tenerla?

Nuestro llamado es ser personas de fe, dejando que la luz de Cristo brille a través de nosotros para que otros la vean. Cómo sucede eso es diferente para cada uno de nosotros. ¿Cómo permitirás que la luz de Cristo brille a través de ti hoy?

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Leave the Judging to God

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It really is easy to judge others. And often we cloak it as help or worry or wanting what is best for the other person. Why aren’t we to judge others? It’s simple, we are not God. We don’t know the whole story. We don’t have the big picture. We compare ourselves and decide about the other person’s life or motive without ever talking to them. We may even use shame or try to manipulate when we judge. 

We say we are judging because we don’t want the person to sin. But before we go talk to someone about stopping a particular sin, we need to make sure of our motive. The best way to learn if we have the right intention is to ask God. In prayer, ask if you are supposed to do something about the problem you see. And God will let you know if you are to speak. You see, Jesus is telling us not to judge, not because He is unconcerned with sin but because He wants you to be right with God before you do anything. And then, this is the verse that gets to me the most, one of those that always makes me pause and think, “For as you judge, so will you be judged, and the measure with which you measure will be measured out to you.” And that judgment, that measure will come from God. 

I cannot judge others. I am too harsh. When I was growing up, it was the time of ‘Jesus loves you.’ Yes, Jesus loves you, but there is much more to Him. There was rarely talk of sin or punishment. We did not know that God was justice and mercy. All we heard about was love, not even mercy. It was as if we had no need for mercy. Yet, we need all God offers us.

And that is the point Jesus is making in these verses from Matthew. God will judge, with great justice and mercy and love. Jesus wants us to leave the judging to the Father so that we can be free to live as His followers. 

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Got Joy?

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“Are you happy?”, asks Henry, repeatedly, until he receives an affirmative answer from whoever he sees near him. Henry is four. Who knows where Henry first heard this question or how it became so important to him; I will say though, that it has stayed with him for quite some time. It’s his little check-in I suppose. 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus is telling us something important, bigger than a little check-in, He is giving us the truth about how to find something we all want in our lives. Joy!

And while joy and happiness are listed as synonyms, they are not exactly the same. One difference between the two feelings is that happiness is short-lived while joy is deeper. So a swim in the pool brings happiness on a hot day but there is lasting joy over the pool day when it’s a day filled with family. 

Joy can help us through difficult trials, not by living in the past, but by remembering that there is goodness in our lives.

Jesus reminds us that joy is what He offers us if we keep the commandments and remain in His love. I love going to Adoration. It brings me great joy to be in Jesus’ presence in that particular way. When I leave the chapel, the joy stays with me as I go about my life. And when life goes awry, I can draw on the joy to conquer the difficulty or at least, not become overwhelmed with despair. And, that, right there, is what I want, I think what we all want; not to be overwhelmed, not to despair. 

The commandments are not meant to curtail our freedom. They are there to keep us safe and close to the Father. And when we are close to the Father, we are near Jesus. And we receive His joy. It is not linear; it is a circle. It is a great exchange of truth, love, and joy. Stay in the circle and you will have joy. Deep, lasting joy in the depth of your being that is not taken from you no matter what happens in your life.

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Be Bold, Speak Truth

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Happy Easter! I love how we celebrate during the Octave and continue on to Pentecost.

In both Acts and Mark’s Gospel passage for today we find belief and unbelief. Mark tells us that Jesus revealed Himself to Mary Magdalen and two others and their response is to go to the others who are mourning and tell them about seeing Jesus; yet they do not believe. Jesus then takes matters into His own hands and appears to them; he “rebuked them for their unbelief and hardness of heart,” (Mark 16:14). I can see this scene in my mind. I can hear these words being directed toward me. 

Now, when I rebuke a person, I am often harsh and my face shows the emotions I feel – anger, disappointment, annoyance. That is not what I see when Jesus stands and rebukes. On his face I see an invitation, a reminder, the gentle correction of the One who loves me to death and hurts because I am not with him. Is he annoyed? Maybe, but the overriding sense I have is one of sorrow because I have turned from him. I repent, not out of fear but out of love. 

And in that repentance, I find the courage to do as Peter and John, to tell others about Jesus and all he has done for me and all he wants to do for everyone. We are not given the gift of belief and faith to keep it to ourselves. Mary did not go back to the apostles to tell them about Jesus to make herself important. She does it to ease their pain but also because she could not encounter the Lord and keep it to herself. Do you keep your encounters to yourself? I am going to encourage you, no – challenge you – to stop keeping your faith to yourself. When you are given answers to prayer, when your life moves in a way that can only be God it is imperative that we tell others. 

And each of us will do this in the way that is in keeping with our nature. It may be difficult or awkward at first but keep at it. The Good News is meant to be shared as Jesus tells us, “Go into the whole world and proclaim the gospel to every creature,” (Mark 16:15). 

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Rules Matter

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We are halfway through Lent if my math is correct. I checked with my math teacher, deacon husband – I counted correctly!

The words of Moses and Jesus hang together quite well today. They are about the rules. They matter. They are given to us for reasons. Following the rules will give us wisdom and intelligence that others will take notice of and appreciate this in us. The commandments of God are not to hold us back, but to give us freedom. They are parameters within which we are to behave. Following the commandments will give us rewards. For the Israelites, it meant land. For those of us who follow Jesus, it is salvation. 

For both, it means relationship. With God and His Son. We are created in and for relationship. One of the relationships highlighted in both readings is that of parent and child; greater and least. Adults have a responsibility to teach the truth to children. And we do this with our words and actions. “Do as I say and not as I do” is a phrase that has no place with people of faith. And while it is obvious that adults teach children, when Jesus says “greater” and “least” it can also be in reference to those with differences in knowledge about the faith.

Are our thoughts, words and actions aligned with the commandments? That is the question I ask myself as I think and pray with today’s readings. And not only in matters of faith, but in our daily life. Then, what are we teaching others? Punishment for leading yourself astray is one thing, but when you lead others astray you incur a greater one. 

The commandments are meant to guide and lead us to a full life in Jesus Christ. As we continue in our Lenten observances, remind yourself why you follow the commandments. And if you have fallen away from your initial Lenten plans and sacrifices, begin again or make new ones that reflect your current situation.  

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Stop Deluding Yourself

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The Letter of James is short and to the point on how we are to behave. There are points made about anger, the word of God and action. However, as I read it, I came to see that it is about listening. And listening well. We are exhorted to be hearers and then act on what we have heard. If we do not, we risk deluding ourselves into thinking we are someone we are not. We also risk leading others astray if they know we call ourselves Catholic without behaving as such.

James reminds us repeatedly to look to the word, learn it and live it. When we immerse ourselves in Scripture, we put on the mind of Christ. Only then can we respond as He does to a world in chaos. Of course, we do this as well as possible given that we are not Jesus but His follower. As people of faith, we can call on Him to help us be better in a world that is in desperate need of healing. Our behavior- how we treat people, speak to others, care for those in need – that is what people notice. It is the doer of the word who reaches out who is helping to heal the world.

As in the Gospel though, sometimes healing comes slowly. And we may lack patience, faith, or trust. The blind man’s friends wanted something good for their friend. Jesus wants our good. Do you wonder why the man’s friends are mentioned? I think it is to remind us that we are meant to have and be community. And it is in community that we need to follow what James tells us to do. 

As you go about your day, think about how you can take the words of the First Reading and put them into practice. “Be doers of the word and not hearers only, deluding yourselves.”

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Turning Ourselves Toward God

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I hope that your Christmas season is full of joy! As I read today’s readings, I was struck by the last verses in both the First Reading and the Gospel. They both point to doing the will of God is what ultimately fulfills us, both in this life and the next.

“Yet the world and its enticement are passing away. But whoever does the will of God remains forever.” 1 John 2:17

For many years I have struggled with overeating. In the last few months, I have participated in a group to help me with this struggle. And I have found such truth in this program which is based on Theology of the Body. One of the most important ideas I have come away with is that it is hard to get enough of something that almost works (Dr. Vincent Felitti). It helped me realize that food, for me, is “the world and its enticement,” and while I of course need food to care for my body, it can substitute for doing the will of God. You can put in place of food whatever it is that you cling to instead of God. 

When we cling to God, go to him first, we are like Jesus, in this verse from the Gospel, “The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom; and the favor of God was upon him.” Luke 2:40

We are meant to grow in strength and wisdom all our lives, turning ourselves toward God. I am grateful I have my whole life to do this. Like many people I did not always understand this concept when I was younger. Now, while I have a better grasp of it, I can still get derailed. Thankfully, God’s grace calls me back and sets me right. And I can begin again.

Our intention matters in this life. As we approach the end of this year, consider asking yourself two questions: Did I fulfill my intentions for the year? And what are my intentions for the coming year? Not a New Year’s resolution list; an honest review of the past year and what you want to have happen next in your life.

Growing in wisdom and following God’s will are great places to start. 

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What Does It Cost?

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“Without cost you have received, without cost you are to give” (Mark 10:8b). Gratitude. Humility. Thankful. Sacrifice. Share. Prayer. Authority. Heal. These are all words that come to my mind as I read the Gospel. And I ponder what I have received without cost. 

And then it hits me. Everything I have I have received without cost. How can I say that? On the surface it does not seem to make sense. I, like most people, regularly trade my time and talents for money; it is called work, career, or ministry. Our talents and time though, are gifts that we received from God Most High. We can choose to put those at His service and for the good of others. 

I often find myself at odds with the second part of the verse, “without cost you are to give.” In fact, I can spend lots of time thinking about how much it costs me to give. How much does it cost me to give love, care, concern, kindness, mercy? It costs as much as I want to believe it costs. 

When I remember that all I have received has been without cost then I can give without counting the cost. But when I start to tally up when I have given and what I want in return, I am not the person God created me to be or the person I want to be. Does that ever happen to you? 

During this season of Advent, it is a good time to reflect on what we have received. Make a list. It can include intangibles like faith and hope, people you love, your talents, material goods, where you live. Try not to judge your list. Then, each day, pray for a few people from your list, ask God to help you grow in a talent or use material things for His glory. 

It is not easy to give without cost but that is what we are asked to do. The Incarnation, which is upon us, is the beginning of Jesus giving to us. By virtue of that gift, we receive salvation. My prayer is for us to embrace the gift of salvation that we have received and share it with others by the way we live our lives without counting the cost.

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Deanna G. Bartalini, is a Catholic writer, speaker, educator and retreat leader. She is the founder of the LiveNotLukewarm.com community, a place to inform, engage and inspire your Catholic faith through interactive Bible studies, courses and book clubs. Her weekly podcast, NotLukewarmPodcast.com, gives you tips and tools to live out your faith. At DeannaBartalini.com  she writes about whatever is on her mind at the moment.

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Hanging on Jesus’ Words

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The last line of the Gospel, “all the people were hanging on his words’ (Luke 19:48b) strikes me as a very good way to live. Hanging on the words of Jesus. Jesus cleansing the temple area to make the point that he has the authority to do so. The temple is a place of prayer and worship of God. Once he leans out the temple, he proceeds to teach every day and the people paid attention. Not a little bit of attention, but full attention.

Now think about yourself for a minute. Do you pay that much attention to what Jesus says? Since you are reading a reflection on the daily Gospel, I will say you probably pay more attention than the average person. Let me say this, the people are paying attention to Jesus because he speaks with authority and authenticity unlike the other leaders of the day. I think we have a similar problem in our day. 

The next question is, do you do what Jesus says to do? Are you a Christian who can speak with both authority and authenticity? In my own life, I have taken “live not lukewarm” as my personal mission. I do not always succeed, but I try to be authentic in all that I do and say in my life and ministry. I look at Scripture as a starting point, each day I read the Gospel, listening for the word I can hang onto for the day, the words that help me with a problem or that I can tell another person to help them. Sometimes the words convict me of how I am not doing what Jesus teaches and I am called to repent. Each day, there is the Word, and each day it can help us live out our faith. It is not enough to know; we are called to live out what we know. When we do that, we help bring about the Kingdom right here and now.

So today, go back and read the Gospel again, answer this question, what word of Jesus can you hang onto today?

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Deanna G. Bartalini, is a Catholic writer, speaker, educator and retreat leader. She is the founder of the LiveNotLukewarm.com community, a place to inform, engage and inspire your Catholic faith through interactive Bible studies, courses and book clubs. Her weekly podcast, NotLukewarmPodcast.com, gives you tips and tools to live out your faith. At DeannaBartalini.com  she writes about whatever is on her mind at the moment.

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