Twice in the Gospels, we hear Jesus bless children and present them as a model for his disciples. What does Jesus mean by this?
Children are naturally open and ready to learn, to have adventures. The world is fresh and full of opportunities to make friends. Jesus has so much to offer and the children are ready to soak it all up.
This is what Jesus means when he asks us to be childlike. We need to be ready to follow where he leads. We need to see opportunities in new adventures, not just the struggles.
We adults tend to act a little more childish when we are called to do something different or out of line with our expectations. To be childish is to be immature, to put one’s feelings ahead of one’s calling. A childish person stamps their feet and whines when life doesn’t go their way. They are unable to see that sometimes personal hardship can be an opening for greater gifts.
Jesus asks us to be child-like. He wants us to allow our minds and hearts to be open to the wonders and miracles all around us. Children have a clean heart. They are sincere and uncomplicated. We are child-like when we put aside pride and pretense and do not allow them to get in the way of our relationship with God.
In our Christian walk, we become mature precisely at that moment when we realize we are truly the children of a loving and nurturing God, who loves us with the unending love of a Father. When we realize that we are bound to God in a filial relationship, we are able to set aside those things which inhibit our God’s grace from flooding into our lives. We become mature when we are able to set aside our childish ways, to give ourselves over to being the children of God.
Dos veces en los Evangelios escuchamos a Jesús bendecir a los niños y presentarlos como modelo para sus discípulos. ¿Qué quiere decir Jesús con esto?
Los niños están naturalmente abiertos y listos para aprender, para tener aventuras. El mundo es nuevo y está lleno de oportunidades para hacer amigos. Jesús tiene mucho que ofrecer y los niños están listos para absorberlo todo.
Esto es lo que Jesús quiere decir cuando nos pide que seamos como niños. Tenemos que estar listos para seguir a donde él nos guíe. Tenemos que ver oportunidades en nuevas aventuras, no solo en las luchas.
Los adultos tendemos a actuar un poco más infantiles cuando se nos llama a hacer algo diferente o fuera de línea con nuestras expectativas. Ser infantil es ser inmaduro, anteponer los sentimientos a la vocación. Una persona infantil patalea y se queja cuando la vida no sigue su camino. Son incapaces de ver que, a veces, las dificultades personales pueden ser una oportunidad para mayores dones.
Jesús nos pide que seamos como niños. Quiere que permitamos que nuestras mentes y corazones estén abiertos a las maravillas y milagros que nos rodean. Los niños tienen un corazón limpio. Son sinceros y descomplicados. Somos como niños cuando dejamos de lado el orgullo y la pretensión y no permitimos que se interpongan en el camino de nuestra relación con Dios.
En nuestro caminar cristiano, maduramos precisamente en el momento en que nos damos cuenta de que somos verdaderamente hijos de un Dios amoroso y protector, que nos ama con el amor infinito de un Padre. Cuando nos damos cuenta de que estamos unidos a Dios en una relación filial, podemos dejar de lado aquellas cosas que impiden que la gracia de Dios fluya en nuestras vidas. Llegamos a la madurez cuando somos capaces de dejar a un lado nuestros caminos infantiles, para entregarnos a ser hijos de Dios.
Sheryl is happy to be the number 1 cheerleader and supporter for her husband, Tom who is a candidate for the Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Kalamazoo. They are so grateful for the opportunity to grow together in this process. Sheryl’s day job is serving her community as the principal for St. Therese Catholic School in Wayland, Michigan. Since every time she thinks she gets life all figured out, she realizes just how far she has to go, St. Rita of Cascia is her go-to Saint for intercession and help. Home includes Carlyn, a very, very goofy Golden Retriever and Lucy, our not-so-little rescue puppy.
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